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Wake up to rain in ChaAm. Watch Nam sleep for about 15 minutes. She looks so peaceful, no sign of the firestorm yet to come later today, but...
Sex  , then we get the day started with lunch on the beach with Tyler, Angel and Nam. The three of them are speaking only Thai and they are ordering various items from people walking around carrying food. I'm not that hungry, they appear to neither need nor want and of my input, and I don't speak much Thai, although I understand more than they think. OK, I go to drop off some laundry. Come back and they think I am pissed. I'm not, but then Angel makes some remark in Thai about "falang not speak Thai" or something like that, everyone laughs and I snap back at them. Nice start to the day, huh? 
Another walk on the beach with Nam, we see Tyler and Angel later in an Internet shop and they have rented a moped. Nam and I do the same (120B/hour). We ride south about 2 miles to a very deserted area of nice beach. We sit out by the beach, talk and drink a few margaritas we have brought along. Nice.
Later, we have a discussion about sex. You should know that the reason I go with Nam is not for fabulous sex. The sex is OK, and we like each other so that makes it better. Below average by BKK standards, probably. We talk about a few things and I come to find out that Nam really dislikes sex. Her idea of a great time does not involve sex whatsoever. I ask her why she works in the bar if she hates sex. Of course, we all know the answer... big monee.
Back to the hotel, get ready to go to dinner. Nam wants to drive to Hua Hin (about 20 mins south). Stop by Tyler's room, knock softly, no answer. Call his mobile, no answer. Message him, no reply. Assume he has other plans, so Nam and I depart for Hua Hin. Get a call from Tyler when we get to Hua Hin, seems he's been a little busy Too late to hook up with him.
Hua Hin is much more lively that ChaAm. Lots of restaurants, open-air shops, etc. Nam stops and buys two carved wood back-scratchers for her 90-year old grandmother. I pay Go to the Hua Hin Brewing Company for a really, really good dinner of fresh fish. Into the bar, which is a western-style bar, all dark wood, a touch expensive, but not too bad. A band is playing, Nam loves live music. Everything is going just great. We're both getting into the music, dancing, just having a great time.
I write Nam a note on a piece of paper and tell her to put it in her pocket and not look at it until after I drop her off in Bangkok. The note says that I think she is really special and that she is a good person who is good for me. I start thinking about the house Nam and I will build up-country...
The alcohol is flowing. I have to drive back to ChaAm so I am limiting my consumption but Nam is not. I go to the toilet, and when I come back, she has ordered a Chivas. I try to show her how to sip it, but this effort is fruitless, and 220 baht flows effortlessly past her lips and down her throat. More dancing, Nam is in full throttle "fun mode". The place is starting to get packed and is really rocking.
A guy from Holland (HollandGuy) about 8-feet tall (not an exaggeration) is standing next to us at the bar. He's about 3 feet taller than Nam, so I take a few pitcures of them standing next to each other. All in good fun. A TG comes over and is the GF of HollandGuy. I'll call her UglyBG. UglyBG is about Nam's size, but is, well, ugly. UglyBG starts yelling at HollandGuy because of the picture taking with Nam. Nam hears this and says nothing, but I can tell she is getting pissed at UglyBG.
While I am two feet away, an Australian guy (AussieAsshole) goes up a starts a conversation with Nam. Sorry pal, not tonight. I go over, he sees I'm with Nam and whispers "nice catch". I say "what you mean?", he asks "where did you find her?" I tell him that I have known her for three years and we have been married for two. I tell him that we have a baby daughter, I speak fluent Thai and that Nam is a flight attendant with Thai Airways. She works the Sydney-Bangkok run 1-2 times per week. AusieAsshole is taking Thai Airways to Sydney in two days, and I tell him that Nam will be on that flight. Nam hears all of this and goes along. Very funny.
Off to the toilet, and I come back and Nam now has tequila shot in front of her. Another guy is starting to talk to her. Why are these people hitting on my wife!?! WTF? I tell Nam that she cannot drink anymore and she asks why. I basically tell her that I want to have sex with her and if she is drunk, this will not happen. She tells me "no CG, I real good in bed when I drunk, I promise". Ok, another drink.
Nam is getting sh_t-faced and standing at the bar with her back to UglyBG. She elbows UglyBG in the back like it was an accident. UglyBG says nothing. Nam then starts dancing and bangs her ass against UglyBG. Nam is trying to piss off UglyBG. I ask Nam what she is doing, and she says "I want to boxing lady!". "Why". "She bad person, she ugly, I want to boxing her!" Nam wants to get into a fight with UglyBG! Ok, enough. I pull her aside and tell her there will be no "boxing lady" tonight, I do not have my passport with me, and I do not want trouble with the police. Nam pulls out a 500 baht note, gives it to me and tells me "you give this to police after boxing, they go away!" I give it back to her and I have to physically restrain her from UglyBG. Time to go.
We get 30 feet out of the bar, and Nam says "I forget something" and goes to run back into the bar. I grab her, "what you forget?". "I FORGET TO BOXING LADY!". This is getting too much, and I get her to go to the car.
On the drive back, Nam is calm and tells me a little more about her family. She pours her heart out about a few personal things and we go back to the room. She gets on the bed and is nearly passed out. I remind her that sex was promised. She strips and gives me, for the first time, the starfish treatment. I yell at her (NOT a smart move) and now she goes berserk and starts crying. She tells me that I am a bad person, I have a black heart, I treat her badly, I'm bad for her, "no other customer make me cry", "Why you take me here? I want to be in Bangkok", and on and on. I cannot get a word in. Man, is she angry! I let her go on like this for 15 minutes. I go to her pocket and get the note out that I gave her earlier and I make her read it. This note means nothing to her and she just throws it on the floor.
Who the f_ck does this bitch think she is!?! I treat her badly? All I do for her is take her out of the bar and let her do anything she likes. Everywhere she wants to go, we go. Everything she wants to do, we do. Give me a f_cking break! I say none of this.
Sleep, wake up. I am seething. I ask her if she remembers what she said last night. She says she does and just shrugs like it was nothing. A quiet drive back to Bangkok.
Nam navigates for me and I get more hand gestures and "why you not turn?" stuff, and eventually, we get to Nam's room. I really just want to give her some money and tell her she is out of my life, but I cannot. Tyler and Angel are there and a whole bunch of people are outside her building. I give Tyler the keys to the car and send him off, and I go up with Nam. This is the second BG's room I have seen. Her room is small and spotless. She shows me some pictures of her and her family... about 12 photo albums worth. She says "when you call me?". I remind her that 12 hours ago, I was the scum of the earth, and that I will not be going with her again. I tell her "goodbye". She says "ChicagoGuy, I drunk, I no mean, I love you". This is just getting too much. I tell her I'll call her to say goodbye before I leave Bangkok. I take off.
The book on Nam is now closed, or so I think at this very moment. Am I really done with her? I would be very sad at this point, but tonight I am meeting NanaHottie. She flew into town to see me, she is not working in BKK anymore. Tomorrow, we are going to Koh Samed for 3 days. I start to get excited at the thought of being with a "normal" girl.
4:00pm, back to the hotel, I get a call from Tyler, Angel is away for 2 hours and Tyler wants to get laid. This guy is unbelievable! So we meet at BeerGarden7. We both spot the same girl, I let him take her and Tyler is off for a ST! I'm sitting around just having a beer and getting ready to go back to the hotel. NanaHottie calls and tells me she'll be there around 7pm, but has to leave at 11pm to go to a birthday party. OK, whatever. Hang up and I spot a pretty girl about 30 with a great bod. I'll call her STGirl. Talk, "want to go?", "maybe", agree on a price and we go to the hotel next door. I don't feel like bringing STGirl back to my hotel because it is raining and I just checked in and I don't want the hotel to see what a butterfly pig I am. Great BJ, good sex, she's gone, I'm gone, back to the hotel to shower, unpack and get ready for NanaHottie. I'm ready!
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FRs from this trip
Arrival Night in BKK - CG, Nam
http://bkkx.com/cgi-bin/forum/topic.cgi?forum=9&topic=642
Day 1 in ChaAm - CG, Nam, Tyler, Angel
http://bkkx.com/cgi-bin/forum/topic.cgi?forum=10&topic=159
Day 2 in ChaAm - CG, Nam, Tyler, Angel, STGirl
http://bkkx.com/cgi-bin/forum/topic.cgi?forum=10&topic=160
Transition night in BKK - CG, DrLove, NanaHottie, Noi, DrunkCutie
http://bkkx.com/cgi-bin/forum/topic.cgi?forum=9&topic=645
3 days on Koh Samed with NanaHottie
http://bkkx.com/cgi-bin/forum/topic.cgi?forum=10&topic=163
Night 1 Back in BKK
http://bkkx.com/cgi-bin/forum/topic.cgi?forum=9&topic=649
Night 2 - fun, fun, fun with Yurune and Padawan in Soi Cowboy
http://bkkx.com/cgi-bin/forum/topic.cgi?forum=9&topic=651
Night 2.5 - BKKTonight members storm Nam and Noi’s bar
http://bkkx.com/cgi-bin/forum/topic.cgi?forum=9&topic=655
Night 3 - Sept Roundtable night
http://bkkx.com/cgi-bin/forum/topic.cgi?forum=9&topic=653
Night 4 - NanaHottie returns (unexciting)
http://bkkx.com/cgi-bin/forum/topic.cgi?forum=9&topic=657
Night 5 - Final night
http://bkkx.com/cgi-bin/forum/topic.cgi?forum=9&topic=661
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:54 pm on Sep. 16, 2003
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Yurune
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I just love the way everyone gets appropriate nicknames...I'm sure i knew the Aussie and the BG...but not the Dutch Guy.....55555
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 12:06 am on Sep. 17, 2003
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Whisper
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What a superb report.
It's sad how alcohol f_cks things up sometimes.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:11 am on Sep. 17, 2003
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Yurune
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I'd still rather it came to the party though.....
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 12:12 am on Sep. 17, 2003
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Whisper
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Oh, most definitely Yurune. Life would be fairly dull without it.
Just not to excess, though. Especially when it impedes sexual activity.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 12:17 am on Sep. 17, 2003
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Ballsburstin
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Funny! My bro' Khun Jeu Yai said, after reading the first FR's, "you know Balls, I think Nam is going to be BIG trouble, mark my words!" I gaffawed. Looks like I gotta eat some humble pie tonight! 
Hmmm, is there a Noi in CG's future ... ?
- Balls
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:25 am on Sep. 17, 2003
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ringthebells
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all I can say is: another good FR.
maybe you should think about writing a book.
rtb.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:48 am on Sep. 17, 2003
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UKYorkie
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Great FR, normal breakfast time service has resumed!
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:06 am on Sep. 17, 2003
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Bok Hah
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I think every BG has bad moment when drinking , maybe it depends on what is going through the grey matter at the time the whisky hits the spot.
My second time with my wife ( BG at the time) I took her to Phuket , she got pissed , wanted to fight every f_cker. I thought" f_ck this " , but that was 8 years back.
The first and last time she has been in that state ( to my knowledge...lol)
I prefer a wife with some fire in her , occasionally.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 1:55 am on Sep. 17, 2003
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Tyler Durdin
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CG: The tall girl from BeerGarden (aka BeerGardenTallie) story was a little more complicated. She was really pretty cool (dazzling smile! - I think I caught a tan!!!).
It was more like Tyler makes eye contact with her, she smiles and comes over, CG tells Tyler he likes her too, CG begs and cajoles Tyler for a request to talk to her (Tyler knows what that means), Tyler says "OK, but you gotta find me a superhottie". CG looks and comes up with 2 non-superhotties, now Tyler begs and cajoles CG into letting him take BGT (???). CG talks to her, she speaks no English, CG lets her go.
Tyler and BGT stand up and Tyler spots an absolute stunner (behind CG at the bar) but what can he do? (He would have graciously let BGT go for this new girl - but thats the case most of the time, isnt it?).
Afterwards BGT heads back to BeerGarden, Tyler calls CG to let him know she is available if he wants to meet her. CG answers and laughs (he is already with someone, otherwise...would he?)
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:13 am on Sep. 17, 2003
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