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I've been sponsoring my TGF for years. I've brought her here also, travelled all around asia, built her a house (cost 4000$US).
As of late she's been spending like it's going out of style.
She been living in Isaan, so the cost of living is rather low.
I had sent her 20,000 baht in Mid May. That was gone by beginning of June. I came to LOS, and of course paid everything.
When I left LOS on June 13th, she had 15,000 baht.
As a side note, she kept talking about her "phone no good, want to get new".
Anyway, She then went to bangkok on a wing and a prayer (her friend told her she could get job in Factory).
She went to BKK 2 July. Of course can't get job, AND she had no $$ for bus home. I was rather miffed at the stupidity of all this, but wanting her to be able to get back home, I sent her 13,000 Baht.
This was to last for a while, was the understanding.
Now, on the bus ride home, she sends me a SMS saying she doesn't know what's wrong with her phone, it's broken???
She then claims that she dropped iot off at a shop to get fixed. She got it 2 days later.
Then on Thursday 14th, she sends me SMS that she got new phone because the other one broken. She now has no money. 13,000 Baht in 11 days or so she's spent.
Now, I'm pissed off. I haven't called her in a week as My phone bill is huge and since I've been dishing out $$ I'm trying to save a bit. ( don't really need to as I do OK, But it's the principle).
I then get an SMS, saying if I don't call her (She's gonna be asking me for $$ I'm sure) She's going to Pattaya.
I said " Good bye... Have Fun, Maybe I'll come and pay bar someday"
Since then nothing, no SMS, No phone calls (She's call me with the one-ring on a daily basis so I'll call her back).
Did I do the right thing. She was starting to get expensive and in NO way can a TG spend 48000 baht in 2 months??? She has no rent to pay.
Am I being harsh, naieve, wanker??
I'm off to LOS in a week anyway, It's about time I cut my losses and move on anyway is my thought. I hated always to have to look over my shoulder when I "played" before in case she was near.
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Posted on: 7:34 pm on July 17, 2004
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Oz
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Macaler said - "Am I being harsh, naieve, wanker??" 
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Posted on: 7:37 pm on July 17, 2004
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fireguy
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Yes 48k is too much for 2 months.
But if you want to get even, find out what bar in Pattaya she is working at and then bar fine another girl from that bar for your whole time there, or show up with a different girl everyday... Then on your last night take her and get a good grudge f@@k and move on.
Of course this could get you stabbed, but the revenge would be sweet!
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Posted on: 7:40 pm on July 17, 2004
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chasingwhtrabitz
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LMFAO, nice solution fireguy. Sadly its probably the truth.
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Posted on: 7:45 pm on July 17, 2004
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fastmover
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I can't figure it out macaler..
Are you extremely smart and she extremely stupid,
or is she extremely smart and you are extremely stupid?
One of you has to stand up for the stupid half.
Its like 'AA'. My name is _______, and I am extremely stupid.
Hey, there are a lot of us guys at the 'stupid' meetings!
The good news is by posting the reality,
your on your way to getting rid of the fantasy.
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Posted on: 8:21 pm on July 17, 2004
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LocalYokul
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Sponsoring, just don't do it...
unless you give me her number so I can swing by for freebies while you're outta town...
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Posted on: 8:38 pm on July 17, 2004
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ThaidUp
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Now, on the bus ride home, she sends me a SMS saying she doesn't know what's wrong with her phone, it's broken???
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Hello!!!! She sent you an SMS from her broken phone ROTFLOL
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Posted on: 8:46 pm on July 17, 2004
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LocalYokul
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what's her # ??, i'll dial her up to check if it's working now...
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Posted on: 8:47 pm on July 17, 2004
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Abrak
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Is Bt48,000 in 2 months really that much?
Are her actions really that unreasonable?
Are you an ideal sponsor?
I dunno...
If you look at it from her perspective perhaps her life was far from ideal. I am sure in the early days of your romance the idea of giving up the bright lights of the Big City and going back to live in a shack (you did say US$4000 didnt you?) in Isaan, miles from her friends and 1000s of miles from her lover, seemed like a good idea.
But dont you think that after a few months (or in this case a couple of years) she might just begin to wonder if this is really the best way to spend her life. Maybe one of her friends has just moved into an US$8000 palace? Maybe one even has a car? Another is making Bt40,000 a month from a couple of sponsors and a bit of hookering?
I mean how much do you usually sponsor her - Bt10,000 a month? Oh sure she can survive but she is hardly living in every BGs dream retirement world.
So she gets a little bored of life in Nakhon Nowhere and comes to Bangkok. She loves her guy so she cant go back to working bars. But a job in a factory combined with her sponsorship is enough to get by.
But she doesnt get a job, and all her friends seem to be doing so well, and she is the only girl in BKK with a 5 year old phone. And of course she is spending money cos she cant really tell her friends she doesnt have much. Worst still her guy is starting to bitch about every penny. If he really loved her wouldnt he really treat her a little better. Her friends all tell her that he's a Cheap Charlie and that she can do so much better...
And maybe he is...
And maybe she aint such a bad girl...
Maybe she is crying herself to sleep in Nakhon Nowhere..
Give me her number and I will find out
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Posted on: 10:10 pm on July 17, 2004
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LocalYokul
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good analogy from the other side of the net Abrak, and true to the point, every bit.
ok brother MacAler, out with her # !!!
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Posted on: 10:19 pm on July 17, 2004
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