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LocalYokul
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here's little tip on Thai culture
no Money,
no Honey !!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:24 pm on Aug. 5, 2004
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Abrak
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Sorry to be pedantic LY but the tip on Thai culture is...
Money
Honey
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 6:30 pm on Aug. 5, 2004
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jack attack
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I still say the dowry is the easy part. Be clear on what is expected after the ceremony. BT 100,000 will seem cheap unless this is cleared up from the start. And I do believe both country girls and city girls still believe in this thing. The family may pay for the ceremony if they have the dough, otherwise it will be the falang groom.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:49 pm on Aug. 5, 2004
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MaximusNaughtinus
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You guys, ask him if in fact she is a he. He is talking about marrying a LB, you know that a LB cannot change the sex on his ID card, so he will supposedly be marrying a boy. But the plot thickens, same sex marriages are not permitted in Los from what I know. So, the plot thickens, he is actually scamming him for 100k. So, the plot thickens and the german boyfriend will be having a holiday on the 100k. So, the plot fickens.
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Posted on: 11:06 pm on Aug. 5, 2004
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BigDUSA
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If she's telling you that you have to pay 100K and she has been married, kid, BG, non virgin on wedding night. Your being setup for a ripoff. Look before you leap.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:27 pm on Aug. 5, 2004
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MaximusNaughtinus
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The TIP on thai culture with this one, is she has a ferkin TIP of her own, geez, don't you guys get it, or have we all become so at ease with this idea it continues to go over your heads.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:41 pm on Aug. 5, 2004
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DrLove
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If she's telling you that you have to pay 100K and she has been married, kid, BG, non virgin on wedding night. Your being setup for a ripoff. Look before you leap.
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No kids, for sure....
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:22 am on Aug. 6, 2004
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cheapcharlie
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Quote: from derman53 on 6:56 am on Aug. 6, 2004
Cheapcharlie,
What part of the country is your wife from? My TGF is from the Nong Khai area near the Laos border. Maybe the "tradition" is still standard in the sticks as it were. You also said that the family paid for the wedding? is that true? Her family are Rice farmers but her two brothers and a sister have each built nice houses in the village so the family is not too bad off. If I tell her no dowry will she then say no marriage? Trying to Learn the Thai culture. Thanks
Derman my wife is from Bangkok it makes a difference, every situation is different, I never got married as such, just signed papers got them translated etc, I was in a rush cause she was in the family way an I wanted my kid to have his first years growing up in the west.
A word to the wise I found out later on she had kids
2 I now support school etc, that is all.
I never give money to her mother or father she has brothers enough, they mention sometimes I just ignore it but I am strong enough in my relationship to do that, I pay ythe rent where half her family stay in a soi off sukomvit so they know not to push it.
Just for f_ck make sure, has she kids ? are you expected to take care of i.e little sister, mama, papa
etc, you are Falang you marry her m, they all will try to get a slice. Set the ground rules at the start, I will ask my wife if you are being ripped off, she was mama san at a place in nana before I married her so she knows about this stuff.
You can take the girl out of Thailand, but cannot take Thailand out of the girl. I know many friends with young girls from upcountry they talk to my wife and she tells me, they all will go behind there husbands back
if he no pay for family, also many go massage, short time whatever, husband don;t know, I know personally at this moment women doing that, luckily I do not know the husbands that well.
Take care, open your eyes I know it is hard we have all been there.
I have learned to play hardball, I know it does not sound like love, but this is the way they know.
i have been married 5 yrs now so I know a bit
Dont be naive thinking her family have house, they will want more, cars etc just to show off.
Marrying a Falang they move up in status, wealth, cars houses etc. pls take care
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Posted on: 2:16 am on Aug. 6, 2004
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LocalYokul
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CC,
very sound advice !!
DerMan,
print this out, especially the bit from Charlie above,
and then memorize it...
you may not know her as well as you think, so you better make it pretty clear to her that any children (or other complications) that arise after you're married are NOT your responsility to financially take care of.
Sounds like hard-ball, but it should shake any loose leaves from the tree before you get your after-wedding blues...
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 2:39 am on Aug. 6, 2004
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jack attack
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MN,
I can't help think of the movie "Some Like It Hot". If she is a he, I picture Jack Lemmon with his sugar daddy.
Some like it hot and some don't care.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:01 am on Aug. 6, 2004
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