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Loung Steeb
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This, indeed, is a sad situation. However, intervening in the life of an unrelated Thai family is a dangerous move. Not sure how the relationship w/ your GF and her friend are connected. Since the friend has a Thai husband, and presumably still a part of his daughters life, you are looking at possibly the mother and father losing face in this situation and that can be a major mistake on your part. Western morals differ from other cultures at times and this should be taken in full consideration. I do believe your heart is in the right place, but be careful as you tread. Just my opion.......
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Posted on: 4:38 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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Arramsey
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BigDUSA & Loung Steeb,
Thanks for the words of caution - and you can bet that I will be walking on egg shells.
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Posted on: 4:44 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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MaximusNaughtinus
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'she is such a happy, innocent, playful, laughing delightful child.'
Interesting comment after wondering if what is being planned for her might be ok in the long run.
Tell you what, at her age, probably being groomed for a virgin sale around 14yo. Why dont you be there on the night she returns home and ask her how it was and see if she is still happy, innocent and playfull. Or if overnight she has turned into something very different.
If a girl wants to become a hooker, good on her, it is her choice, but the difference is choice as an adult, or near adult, rather than pushed into it as an uneducated or experienced child.
Thats right BigD, stuff your head back up your ignorant yankee arse where it usually resides, your like a turtle, only come out when you want to look stooopid.
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Posted on: 4:45 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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fastmover
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This situation has the potential to 'blow up' in your face. You are dealing in a multi-cultural circumstance where the permutations are infinite. The resistance from the mother, which will affect the child could be quite negative.
May I suggest that you sponser the young girl. Pay the mother now to send the girl to school. If it is money the mother wants, then she might be happy to get it now.
The daughter will never reject her mother's ideas, unless she sees other girls with a different idea of how to live in the future and that will come only from going to school and having her eyes opened to other possibilities.
The social service agency may allow you to cooperate in this effort.
Another alternative is to close your eyes and let life evolve disagreeable as that may be.
To me the sad thing is, if the girl was 17 years and 364 days old, tomorrow all of her childhood would be forgotten and she would instead become only a sexual moment for someone, perhaps in another thread under another topic.
In the end, we can only care so much.
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Posted on: 4:49 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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S05
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I`m with you MN on that call.
Big D how would you like it if your mrs was grooming your daughter/s for the p4p game.
Silly septic !
S05.
Kone Ling.
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Posted on: 4:50 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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CiaoCiao
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SO5,
I believe that BigD's comment was in regards to the MOTHER as sex worker, not the child.
Arramsey,
Your concern is commendable and even courageous because it is not without risk - be careful. But if we don't intervene to help children who are helpless, then we lose our right to criticise the wrongs done to them.
IMHO it is wrong to deny a child schooling and the choices it can give them in their lives - and to target a child into a life of prostitution is criminal.
If that becomes the child's own choice however as an adult then so be it, although it's sad that the mother has already steered her most of her life in that direction.
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Posted on: 4:52 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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caronte
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"....If a girl wants to become a hooker, good on her, it is her choice, but the difference is choice as an adult, or near adult, rather than pushed into it as an uneducated or experienced child. "
MN, in this specific case we are talking of a child that is probably brain washed by her mother who has already defined the daughter's future! Not much of a choice then.....
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Posted on: 4:53 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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MaximusNaughtinus
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Bloody hell you Japanese wannabe, read it again, clearly engrish is not your second language. 
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Posted on: 5:03 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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Finix
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Sad to say but you haven't a leg to stand on vis a vis the law on this one, Ramsey.
You can't prove any of this, can you? And even if you can, it's none of your business. In too many of these cases, help can only be administered after the damage is done.
All you can do meanwhile is shake your head ruefully and possibly substitute yourself in place of the little girl as the mother's meal ticket.
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Posted on: 5:05 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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caronte
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Actually I'm trying to learn Aussie as third language...quite difficult cuz my teacher sucks!
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Posted on: 5:05 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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