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4naxnt
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Guys,
I am of the conservative mold. Divorce is not an option.
That is ridiculous. Even if she finds out, I am pretty sure
it isn't going to be divorce court scene here.
How do people who (had to!) come with their wives
handle the situation?
I wonder what those Arab guys do? I mean you just have
to have dinner at FoodLand on Soi 5 and see the
action across at Arami Hotel. Tons of Arab women in
their 'Burkha'. Some of them pushing strollers no less.
How do these Arab guys get away with it? Send their wives shopping?
I hope this does not come across as a slight on the arabs.
It isn't meant to. Just an observation I made.
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Posted on: 11:23 pm on Sep. 21, 2004
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chickengeorge
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I came to Thailand with my wife.
Messed around, my weak male programming could not stop me doing what came naturallly here.
Lost my wife.
I do not recommend coming to Thailand with a wife or even if you have a wife at home...unless you dont mind losing her. In fact if you are married and you have found this forum chances are you are already on the slippery slope.
We (men) as a gender are weak (some might say Low) by nature and unless you realise the consequences of putting yourself in situations where you cannot resist, do not do it at all.
Still, through all the sh_t, I had a great time!
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Posted on: 11:46 pm on Sep. 21, 2004
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jack attack
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4N,
It does sound like there is a bit of a moral dilema for you. If you believe P4P is wrong while you are married, you need to deal with that first IMO. If you think that it will hurt your relationship, think it through.
But if it is only recreation of sorts, no problem. IMO, there is no fool proof excuse to ensure your activities are covered. You never know when one of the girls decides it would be funny to scratch your back with her nails or try to give you a hickey! Usually if you use the facilities at soapies or oilies, you don't have to worry. It also helps solve the moral issue... the extras were part of the massage.
Try the baby powder and bowling excuse!!
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Posted on: 12:24 am on Sep. 22, 2004
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fastmover
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4naxnt.......I get the impression your not listening. Guys do what they do at home. Wife does one thing, you do the 'other' thing.
If you ain't cheating at home bud,
you ain't going to be any good at it in BKK.
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Posted on: 12:24 am on Sep. 22, 2004
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ThaidUp
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Quote: from Oz on 8:59 am on Sep. 20, 2004
Youre a sneaky Bastard FM! 
But there are some good ideas to work on there!
Day late and dollar short.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 12:33 am on Sep. 22, 2004
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mokewen
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don't worry about it, she is probably porking the guy next door!
cheers.................
moke
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Posted on: 11:10 am on Sep. 22, 2004
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cyborg
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Brocher..Bro you are mostly right about me...I am not married but rather only engaged...I have been going to LOS since '93. WHen I first went I was with my woman then....I was in what I call the "Power Zone"...that unusually powerful zone that dwells between the day she falls madly in lub with you and the date you make a commitment to her.
In this zone I told her that I am a good boy but like all boys I need to play.. (Provide many Discovery channel documentaries as support) these show that guys seek variety and stricy monogamy is unnatural etc...
So I convinced her that I need to play...she did not want to swing with me so...I "Swing" by myself in LOS...she stays home. While doing it on other side of the world the ladies I bone are not a relationship threat to her...it's only sex....nothing more.It would not be right for me to force her to swing would it?? Not right for her to force me NOT to....right??
I told her that we could be perfect for each other except I cant be strictly monogamous....too bad we would have had a wonderful life together....she decided that having me was worth that little allowance.
This earns me one trip to LOS per year. Sounds like bro 4n is outside the power window so cannot make this happen....next best thing is trickery.
I will be taking my Falang finace with me to LOS in 45 days or so...she will be with me for 3 of 4 weeks in the kingdom. She leaves me alone for about 8 days in Dec.
BUT during the time she is there I will be slipping out for a little fun....I will be going to the Nov RT with a lil fun on side....I maybe going on a fishing trip with Isee in Samui.... (Yes thats it..we are going fishing) not to mention when she gets tired I will slip out to play Jenga with the ladies..... (I will ensure she gets tired by walking her ass off all day in the heat...she needs more rest than me)
Take your woman with you...have some REASONS why you must take off a little with friends or business associates etc. If your lady has no reason to not trust you then she wont mind you taking off a bit. I am sure many of the bros here would be happy to be your..."Business associate" or "old friend" to help out.
Contrary to what some bros say...you CAN have your cake and eat it too....and have Lek and Noi and........
Good luck bro!
Cyborg
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Posted on: 2:00 am on Sep. 27, 2004
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hzink
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Quote: from cyborg on 2:15 pm on Sep. 27, 2004
I told her that we could be perfect for each other except I cant be strictly monogamous....too bad we would have had a wonderful life together....she decided that having me was worth that little allowance.
If only more women would have a clue.
If more married women would let their husbands head to LOS once a year, a lot more marriages would be intact, IMO.
Harry
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Posted on: 11:17 am on Sep. 27, 2004
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ColoradoGuy
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Quote: from hzink on 11:32 pm on Sep. 27, 2004
If more married women would let their husbands head to LOS once a year, a lot more marriages would be intact, IMO.
Or if more marriages were intact, a lot less husbands would head to LOS once a year.
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Posted on: 11:33 am on Sep. 27, 2004
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Jojje
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Bit interesting topic actually! My small donation:
Am a very happily married man and would not change that for any TG (had long relation with one as well and know everything there is to tell about REAL jealousy -- oh my god....). However LOS has been under my skin for longer time than I dare count - canīt be without. Must have a regular dosage!
So how to solve that? Well, in my case it just happened, I do a lot of business with China and what is better than going from my country to BKK (fast, direct - good price on business tickets) with Thai airways? And from BKK to whereever next halt is. And this IS true! Of course I could perhaps forget about the extra week I stay in LOS to "calm down" from all the hard work!!..hrmm.... but I dont! I need that!
So I am very open to mrs JJ and tell her that sure I go to bars and drink beer and meet buddies. I do NOT go to those terrible massage parlours I have heard about since I donīt like when strange people "touch me".
I go to LOS 2-3 times a year - have good fun for a couple of weeks, come back rested and happier man! Now - for the first time the mrs is going to join on a trip later this year (I have made a sep thread on this earlier). We will sure have a good time - as long as I donīt get halfdrunk one night, enter a tuk-tuk and ask him to drive to NEP - with the lady of my life beside me. THAT could possibly terminate future trips!! 
Have to find new grounds to explore during that stay - and pretend I have seen them a lot before!!
And pray one doesnīt run into some 5 ft person shouting "hello - lemembel me!"
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Posted on: 11:41 am on Sep. 27, 2004
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