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MacTheHappy
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You would putting your relationship with your wife on the line, in effect gambling it
So dont do that unless you are prepared to lose it
I you feel you have nothing to lose then first talk to your wife and tell her the way you feel, maybe talking will get things out in the open and you dont need to go to LOS, or maybe you can finish with your wife and you are free to do what you like
Mac
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:03 am on Jan. 25, 2003
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bandit
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Laidback,
Some time ago there was an Indian bro who was in a similar situation as you and planned to come to BKK to get some BGs. Many of us recommended him to reconsider as he would be risking the relationship with his wife by doing so. But for him the situation was more delicate, as he has apparently never been abroad and had no business relation with LOS. Is it really worth risking all this and do you have to come to LOS to find the women you have mentioned?
Even if I am not in the same position as you, i. e. I have been a butterfly in every relationship as long as I can think back, I would recommend you to reconsider to go to LOS for the reasons you stated. If you if you are having no experience in cheating on your wife, I think she is very likely to find out as you might very possibly and unknowingly change your attitude in certain situations. Such as kissing differerent or coming up with a new position during sex...
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Posted on: 12:04 pm on Jan. 25, 2003
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Smegma
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On the topic of cheating, if you are looking to find cathartic excuses that may make you feel better about your bonking actions, consider reading this article: OUR CHEATING HEARTS
There you will find an evolutionary explanation of why we cheat. And if your wife believes in Darwin's evolution theory, you may try convincing her (good luck!) that your cheating behaviour is the result of evolution over many generations, and that it is all for the good of the species  Try it and let us know if she is the understanding type 
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:39 pm on Jan. 25, 2003
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Bigin
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laidback;
If you decide to go for it more power to bro but, no matter what you do after visiting LOS and banging a couple of hundred BG's, GGg's, MPg's, what ever. Do not and I reapeat "DO NOT" come back home and ask your ole' lady why she never shaves her pussy like the cute little thai girls do!!!!!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 1:00 pm on Jan. 25, 2003
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seubeu
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Yeah, Bigin, that's the classic blunder along with asking your wife "why you no suh-moke?"
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 10:26 pm on Jan. 25, 2003
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MacTheHappy
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JHolmesJr,
I used to be like that, only sex with strangers was exciting. I gradually realised, however, that the rest of my life was turning to shit. Then I met my thai wife, who had me sussed from the start, and she makes sure i neither have the oppurtunity nor the need, clever lady. Like once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic, even without the drinking, I still have a part of me that yearns for the life, but I know what I would be losing so i restrict myself to reading this forum!
Mac
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:49 am on Jan. 26, 2003
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ABC
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MacTheHappy:
Great advice.
Don't gamble with something you are not prepared to lose.
I know. Much easier said then done!!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:53 am on Jan. 26, 2003
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MacTheHappy
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JHolmesJr
About this need. I found that I used to need it more when I was depressed. It was a sort of therapy. You know you say to yourself 'I banged x beautiful young girls this weekend so I must be a great guy'. You blank out of your mind what the girls are thinking about you, that is if they are thinking at all about you.
Eventually I saw this for the self-delusion this is, it doesnt make you a great guy, it just makes you another punter.
MacTheHappy
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:35 am on Jan. 26, 2003
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Arramsey
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Laidback ,
Most of the advice given to you on this thread is very good and covers all aspects - so I am not going to add any more advice .
However since I am a sort of blood brother of yours ( I am an Indian and , believe it or not , I truly do love my wife of 29 years ) I would like to relate my story to you and you can pick out the lessons to be learnt - if any .
As I said I am Indian and have been married ( to the same wonderful woman ) for 29 years . My wife and I met 6 years before we got married and during those 6 years & for 24 years of our married life I never looked at another woman with any desire or lust . Sure I always admired beautiful or sexy women but this was in an open non-lustful way which I did not hide from my wife . Keep in mind that all this was while I was in the so-called prime of my life and from what others say I was quite desirable in every way .
My wife and I have 2 sons who are now 27 and 25 years old respectively . Apart from being extremely good looking , well built , strong & healthy - they are very well behaved gentlemen and 90% of this is due to my wife .
When we came to Thailand 9 years ago I was introduced to Traditional Thai Massage which I really enjoyed ( no sex or funny business ) and got addicted to . For 3 years things were fine until I met "Song" ( please see my first post on the thread "Bar girl stories "). I started having sex with "Song" and that was my undoing because however much I love my wife and however much I enjoy sex with her the fact remains that I had opened a Pandora's box of sexual experiences which I had never had before and which I could never expect my wife to even think of .
From this I progressed on to trying out more amd more sexual experiences with more and more girls . This went on for about 6 years - and throughout that time I handled things in such a way that neither my wife , my sons or my friends have any idea of my duplicity . The irony of it is that everyone thinks that I would never look at another woman .
Frankly I am not happy at deceiving my wife like this - but I cannot be a hypocrite - I have enjoyed the girls and the sex over the past 6 years . However recently I have been getting a lot of guilt feelings - mainly when I look at my wife and see how contented she is just to have me and her 2 sons . She wants nothing else in life - it may sound unbelievable but I truly regret that I cheated on her these 6 years .
My only consolation ( and I emphasise that I am looking for absolution ) is that firstly I have re-habilitated 2 girls and secondly neither my wife , my sons nor my friends are aware of my sexploits .
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Posted on: 11:30 pm on Jan. 26, 2003
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