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BKK Banger
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If she is a he or not doesn't matter so much unless you want to have children and more importantly, want to get married. (Leaving aside all other issues)
As you will be aware there are plenty of couples who get married at the Wat and never register it. This has certain advantages as you will be aware.
In your situation I would have to ask what advantage (if he was a she) you would get from registering the marriage? The only one is if you intend at a future date to take her out of thailand, even on vacation, you would find the visa process a lot easier and if you dies she woud get part of your estate.
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Posted on: 6:41 am on Aug. 6, 2004
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MaximusNaughtinus
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sheesh, I think it might make a little difference to the poster if in fact he did NOT know she is a he, don't you think ???
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Posted on: 6:47 am on Aug. 6, 2004
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LocalYokul
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JA,
I'm thinking more along the lines of The Crying Game, the one that appropriately had Boy George on the soundtrack.
Forrest Whitaker's character gets a little (well, coulda been a big one) surprise...555
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Posted on: 6:57 am on Aug. 6, 2004
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StrayGypsy
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As to getting the lady outta the bar business/Thai work and comforts for her/family:
1st get the VISA going with all the $$ fake paperwork.
Let her and her family ride it out till processing gets done.
Bro's here at work paid dearly upfront $$$ still lonely with no bride or VISA yet.
9/11 wrecked issues bad.
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Posted on: 5:44 pm on Aug. 6, 2004
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BKK Banger
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You are absolutely sight Stray Gypsy.
Without wishing to antagonise the Americans here I think the terrorists won on that issue.
As soon as a country responds in ways which seriously inconvenience, change the lives of or basically restrict the freedom of its own citizens to a significant degree they have started to lose.
Yes, I can hear the howls of anger and derision but bear with me.
However, what harm is a young Thai lady joining her husband in his home country doing to the "War on Terror'? You both become victims of the terrorists because of the overreaction of your own government.
This is one of the aims of high profile attacks on your home soil and OBL must be pissing himself in his cave at the havoc he has wrought on ordinary Americans.
The other one may be to provoke an overreaction that will bring more followers to the terrorist cause.
I am not saying hold hands with OBL and pray for peace but there is a price being paid by ordinary Thai ladies.
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Posted on: 12:05 am on Aug. 7, 2004
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LocalYokul
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I beg to differ on this issue, but different circumstances can make for diff. situation...
If you are sitting on your arse in US/EU trying to get your TG-cum bride to your country then you had better just stop trying now.
The most effective way to do this is to be in LOS with your fembot and walk her thru the whole process.
Even since 9/11 plenty of fellows have escorted their brides-to-be out of LOS into EU or US.
I have a feeling they are very scrupulous when you aren't even here to help the TG thru the task. They most likely assume she's a mail-order bride etc.
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Posted on: 12:16 am on Aug. 7, 2004
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cheapcharlie
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Quote: from derman53 on 6:56 am on Aug. 6, 2004
Cheapcharlie,
What part of the country is your wife from? My TGF is from the Nong Khai area near the Laos border. Maybe the "tradition" is still standard in the sticks as it were. You also said that the family paid for the wedding? is that true? Her family are Rice farmers but her two brothers and a sister have each built nice houses in the village so the family is not too bad off. If I tell her no
dowry will she then say no marriage? Trying to Learn
the Thai culture. Thanks
Talked to the wife she says no way outside in that area much too much. She says you are being shafted a little bit of gold and maybe some small money is ok.
So if you are being taken to the cleaners, just make sure what you are expected to pay after marriage to her to her family, or any kids she has ( they all have kids, any who say not lie or are really an exception)
take care
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Posted on: 5:44 am on Aug. 9, 2004
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BKK Banger
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Sorry LY but I don't agree with needing to be here.
The Uk embassy in particular do not allow the hubby to join the interview. Odd when you woudl have thought they would want to gauge the relationship, continuing devotion etc. but there it is.
Where the partner can really help is with documents, phone records, begging letters, correctly filled in forms etc. Many refusals are due to badly presented cases.
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Posted on: 6:30 am on Aug. 9, 2004
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Brocher
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It can also be just a lottery. I/we had all the papers you can imagine including "proof" that we had lived together for 2 years in LOS, lotsa money in each bank account, good jobs, job for her to come back to (secretary), copy of the flat's rental contract signed for next 12 months, etc., etc. I only wanted her-in-doors to come with me for a single entry visit for two weeks to UK and they refused! One month later and a different officer allowed the visit visa.....go figure!
Wrong time of the month, didn't get laid last night, cat died......choose your pick!
Cheers
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Posted on: 10:25 am on Aug. 9, 2004
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LocalYokul
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Quote: from BKK Banger on 6:30 pm on Aug. 9, 2004
Sorry LY but I don't agree with needing to be here.
The Uk embassy in particular do not allow the hubby to join the interview.
different strokes for different folks, err Embassies/Consulates
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Posted on: 4:28 am on Aug. 10, 2004
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