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DrLove
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Go back three posts, do not collect USD200.....
I remember one of my LT GFs used to toss her Buddha amulet to her back before doing the deed. I asked her why she did that and she replied 'So Buddha doesn't see it'.
So,yes, I can understand that there is a Thai (Buddist) superstition like that.
BTW I wonder what your aim is by talking about such topics with a 'nice' and 'decent' girl.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 11:10 am on Sep. 16, 2004
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Hugh Jardon
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Dr. Love. I disagree that it's anonymous. I accept that neither party has yet met in the relationships that Ciao Ciao and I are discussing. But both of us intend meeting the girls that we are cybering with. The cyber stuff would only take place if the girls were far enough advanced in these relationships to feel comfortable with it. It is also indicative of how things will be when we meet. Each party is finding a lot out about the other and what was acted out in cyber is probably fair game in reality. There may be an element of fantasy about it, but whereas photo exchange, email and profile only deal with facts, this deals with feelings, emotions, desires and probably tells you far more about the girl than the other stuff.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:25 am on Sep. 16, 2004
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CiaoCiao
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Quote: from DrLove on 7:25 pm on Sep. 16, 2004
BTW I wonder what your aim is by talking about such topics with a 'nice' and 'decent' girl.
...it's still 'anonymous'
OK - since you're not interested in listening to things explained nicely, here goes a little differently:
Since it appears too complicated to understand in writing, perhaps one day I will gladly explain over a few beers what my 'aim' is in talking with girls about sex. I will also explain how 'nice' and 'decent' girls anywhere also like sex, and (horrors) even like to eventually talk about it. 
I would not however try to explain the differences ONE MORE TIME between 1) anonymous chat rooms and 2) extended personal correspondence, since you neither know the differences nor are interested in learning them.
Nor would I try to explain the meaning of 'anonymous', because you obviously have a closed mind to any meaning other than the wrong one you personally attach to it.
But if you look up 'anonymous' you will find that while the word may apply to your referenced 'chat room' conversations it does NOT apply to the case in point of extended correspondence, where names, phone numbers, addresses, photos, and considerable personal information has been exchanged and discussed over a long period. The meaning of 'anonymous' is further NOT conditioned on ONLY face-to-face meeting.
 It would be my treat to do so.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 12:03 pm on Sep. 16, 2004
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Hugh Jardon
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Quote: from DrLove on 7:25 pm on Sep. 16, 2004
BTW I wonder what your aim is by talking about such topics with a 'nice' and 'decent' girl.
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Well said, Ciao Ciao. The implication in the comment above being that discussion about sex on the internet isn't nice and that people that do it aren't decent. Perhaps as this Forum is mostly concerned with the interaction between Farang Guys and Thai B.G's, that might hold true here. But maybe the differences of chat with a non-BG from a dating site are too subtle for some to comprehend.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 1:22 pm on Sep. 16, 2004
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nokna
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no matter what the issues are.
i have seen some Photos of the Girls who Hugh is hoping to meet.
good luck to him as the Girls are good lookers......
but of course none of them compare to my favourites....
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:06 pm on Sep. 16, 2004
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DrLove
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Anonymous - 'Having no distinctive character or recognition factor'
As there as been no visual contact, real identity cannot be accomplished, so for me anonymous.
She might send pictures of someone else or even have a 'ghost writer' to send her emails.
BTW I think a matter already discussed, what would a nice looking young girl with a job be looking for in a 55 year old git. Love and/or respect? Get real, you two!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:13 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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CiaoCiao
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Dr L:
(This might or might not interest others).
Dr L: Anonymous - 'Having no distinctive character or recognition factor'
CC: ??? If you refuse to understand that "extended correspondence, with names, phone numbers, addresses, photos, and considerable personal information" constitute "distinctive character or recognition factor" then either you have a serious problem interpreting language, or you have a strong need to remain ignorant.
Dr L: As there as been no visual contact, real identity cannot be accomplished, so for me anonymous.
CC: LOL The key words are "for me". You persist in living in your own dream world of ignorance and thickheadedness - bad combination. If you weren't so happy to walk around with a closed mind you might just understand that you can get to know someone FAR better from all that I mentioned above, rather than by simply having 'visual contact', your own simplistic and flawed sole test for knowing someone.
Dr L: She might send pictures of someone else or even have a 'ghost writer' to send her emails.
CC: True. She might even have someone sitting in her chair, or even on her lap, typing her replies in live personal IM chat sessions.  She might EVEN have someone meet you, someone who matches the picture and handled the correspondence. But then only a dummy would do as you suggested above, and only a dummy would even think that it would make sense to do so, as the objective is to ultimately meet. Duhhhhhhhhhhh!!!
DR L: BTW I think a matter already discussed, what would a nice looking young girl with a job be looking for in a 55 year old git. Love and/or respect? Get real, you two!
CC: They would be looking for exactly what the dating sites offer: friendship, love, and possibly marriage. The same thing that any other young girl in any other country looks for in an older man: maturity and security, and their own desire to get out of their dead end job and possibly into a stable relationship, home and family. All of which are considerably more important to TGs than many others given the oppressive lack of opportunity for many of them. But then surely you knew that? Or were just too hardheaded to admit it being wrong.
Keep it coming. It's fun knocking back increasingly foolish statements (especially regarding sex and TGs), given foolishly to justify misguided thinking and hard-headed ignorance.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:56 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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Hugh Jardon
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Oh dear, Dr. Love. I do feel sorry for you. Love must have hit you really hard in the nuts at some stage of your life to make you that cynical. Perhaps you spend too much time with the BG's and are too ready to tar all Thai girls with the same brush.
By selecting that particular Oxford dictionary definition of anonymous, you hoist yourself by your own petard. I think that you should have stuck to the other definition, the one that applies to authors or others of that ilk. I'm sure that both Ciao Ciao and me would both say that our girls have distinctive character and recognition factor in spades. We have taken the trouble to find out all about them.
As for your assertion that these girls could actually be sending pictures of others or use "ghost writers", that is absurd. So who will I meet on December 29th? The author of the emails and MSN Messenger chat, the person whose photos they were, or the the person whose voice I hear when I ring her mobile phone number? Perhaps I'll get lucky and meet all three! If you honestly think that there is any point in someone carrying on a charade like this for 6 months, when it would be exposed immediately at the first meeting, then I must call into question your mental processes.
As for the question about why a lovely 26 year old girl might be interested in a 55 year "git" like me, perhaps you might like to suggest the age of Thai girl that would be just the right age for me. Be precise, mind you. I wouldn't want to waste any more time than I need to, chasing young skirt that will not work out.
As I already said, she told me that she had 43 guys email her, but chose me. I've discussed the age thing with her several times and she couldn't care a toss. She is beautiful and young and could have taken her pick from any of the other guys. We are in touch daily and she says that she loves me. Why the hell shouldn't she want love and respect? I thought that all of us wanted that, except for those guys that don't want to complicate their lives with any sort of emotion or feeling for the girls that they pay to screw and then move onto the next one. If that's what you want for the rest of your life, then good luck to you.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 2:09 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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babysnake
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As there as been no visual contact, real identity cannot be accomplished, so for me anonymous.
Seems like someone has had bad experiences?
I've known a certain Sao Paulo girl (an honest good girl going to uni) for about 17 months now.
Meeting in icq, just looking for friends and she being interested in foreign nations and languages.
Since then, we have been exchanging emails, even letters and also been talking in icq and messanger, also with a webcam.
And she has showed me loads of pics and it's easy to confirm she is the same girl, every time speaking with her same style/enthusiasm.
Not so long ago, we've had a couple of cybersex sessions (no webcam here, I think she would be too shy for that).
She's one of those decent "innocent" girls. Very cute (shyish ) smile and a very warm and pleasing person.
She has had only one bf before and wasn't very experienced about sex. We talked about it often. She could be talked with about anything, very open and receiving person. Took things with a smile and very good humoured, even in a perv way. *hmm must go to brazil must go to brazil*
So I told her some things I liked and she asked and was curious. I even game her some links to sites where there all guides on how to perform various things.
So this one night (my time, time difference) she came home and said "I've been thinking about penisis all day".  Now this sounds weird I know but sometimes she is so happy and enertegic that she just keeps on babbling (normally I hate that but not with her) and because she knows she can tell me/talk with me about anything she knows she can be staright if she feels like that.
So we kept talking about sexual things and she mentioned she had a tought day and it all started with me saying "Do you want to rest your head on my chest?". She happily did and then some caressing and off we went.
I was very surprised at the way she had adapted very many tricks to her storage and spoke with detailed knowledge what she was doing and how. And she was doing all the things she knew I liked. And I tried to show her as good time as I could, being a gentle lover for her.
I was sold and we both enjoyed the session very much and the next day we spoke "how happy we were it happened", it felt like something really had happened! In a way we crossed a certain line and I think, because it was not planned (now or before), we both were happy that either of us felt nothing was lost from our relationship, but gained.
Btw when me met (she found me) she was only 16... I feel good (even if it has been cyber) nothing happened before she turned 18. I was 21 back then.
After the first few months talking to her, I've had this dream that I'll see her some day and I'm still holding into it. It would be a great episode on my life and a great experience, also getting to know the country and culture.
WELL, drifted a bit here.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:16 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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