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thaiprivateeye
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Hey well done Harry and best wishes -
Sure with mixed parentage, problems will arise, but also plus's -
CC - agreed, the only reason I made a move from LOS recently was for my Daughters benefit - but had, for 1 reason or another, I been unable to assist - all im saying is to be brought up in a Thai village is not the end of the world, the kids at least are mostly healty and respectful - Guess due to the fact a large % are raised by Grandparents - whilst mother/father go to work.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:23 am on Aug. 29, 2005
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ringthebells
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disrespect?? nah. maybe just jealousy.
have a friend that has two daughters. they are swiss/thai bloody gorgeous and are actresses and models.
have another friend whos got a little boy that is already modeling, also he seems to be pretty smart. speaks better english and thai then daddy.
another friend has two sons that look absolutely thai, and speak london english. funny.
however my favourite thai girls are still the chinese and indian mixes.
rtb
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 3:44 am on Aug. 29, 2005
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thaiprivateeye
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I would hope RTB... that not too many Luk-Krung girls end up at the nana,Thermae,beer garden etc... I do know at least a few Thai- Indian/Chinese have over the years !
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:56 am on Aug. 29, 2005
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cardiffian
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having married a tbg in 1990 her then becoming pregnant then having a luk krung son,after giving her family a kings ransom in the 5 years we were married afterall I am Bill GATES atleast I am in their minds. After living in the UK with me for 4 years at least 3 of those years were hell she eventually went back home leaving me to bring up my son alone she was to mothering as Hitler was to Jews a fxxking disaster. Since she has gone back I have'nt heard a word from her its like she has'nt got a son i'll never understand her
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 1:46 pm on Aug. 29, 2005
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thaiprivateeye
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Cardiffian - Sorry to hear that Pal - actually quite rare for a TG to act like that, give up a child - probably alot more to the story, [ maybe more kids back in LOS - maybe she[or the family] was expecting Bill gates to donate alot more ! - and I do truly feel sorry for the problems you have ;
my Kiwi Pal 'Stickman' wrote similar sort of story this week - I actually disagreed with him on that, and can only say from my experience - I have a TG, she is young, yes, did do some P4P to help the family before I met her, - and it was hard for her to leave family and friends and move back to NZ with me ; but we both knew it was best for our daughter, and now my wife is away from her family, somewhat 'Farang" orientated, she still gets the calls to send $$ home, but the family now know the most the can ask for is 4-5000bt and occasionally when the need is great.
I would add, for sure, my understanding of Thai language, and more importantly culture, has also been a major point in us staying together, and the fact that now both my daughter, and I, are more important to my wife, than her family - and that is something that dosent come easy, but what you really need to have a secure relationship with a TG.
Also can add, I never spoilt either my TG, or her family, with any kings ransom - they got a gold bracelet each and a few Johnny walkers - you have to set the ground rules early ! - which also gives you some hope that the TG is staying with you because she wants to.. not just for the $$ -
End result, im sure you have a great son, who is going to end up with a decent chance in life ; and like my daughter, I hope they both appreciate it later on !
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 3:41 pm on Aug. 29, 2005
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GreenSlime
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I was blessed with a bouncing baby girl about 3 years ago with my Thai wife. Greatest thing to happen to our marriage, and to me personally.
She has just graduated her first year in school. We sent her to school with the 4 and 5 year olds because she is so big and has the intelligence to boot. She finished to term #1 overall at 3 years old, smarter than the 4 and 5 year old Thai kids. Plus, she is the tallest. Gotta be proud of that kid of mine. 
But this also comes with some bad things as well. She was voted most popular kid in the class, and won some other awards that I didn't quite understand. But this has now gotten to her, and she realizes she is different. Now when walking up to school in the mornings she looks at the other kids and says in Thai, "the movie star is here, the movie star is here." While strutting like she was on the red carpet at some awards show in Hollywood.
I guess being a sandy blond haired light light brown eyed Thai is bound to go to your head at some age. But at 3 years old, I think I am in for a long long payback for all the bad things I have done over the years.
Your Friend,
GreenSlime
p.s. congradulations TPE on the baby. Good on ya mate!
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:51 pm on Aug. 29, 2005
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Alifco
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I am blessed to have three of these little darlings.
My world evolves around them and everything in my life is aimed at their existance, future and present.
I do not believe that having a child with anyone to help save a marriage is the wise path to take. As always, it is completely up to the individuals and how they handle it.
Just imagine if the British ruled this land at anytime in the past, just imagine the number of absolute angels that would be roaming the streets of Thailand now for us to admire and pluck.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:10 am on Aug. 30, 2005
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cardiffian
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Quote: from thaiprivateeye on 9:09 pm on Aug. 29, 2005
Cardiffian - Sorry to hear that Pal - actually quite rare for a TG to act like that, give up a child - probably alot more to the story, [ maybe more kids back in LOS - maybe she[or the family] was expecting Bill gates to donate alot more ! - and I do truly feel sorry for the problems you have ;
my Kiwi Pal 'Stickman' wrote similar sort of story this week - I actually disagreed with him on that, and can only say from my experience - I have a TG, she is young, yes, did do some P4P to help the family before I met her, - and it was hard for her to leave family and friends and move back to NZ with me ; but we both knew it was best for our daughter, and now my wife is away from her family, somewhat 'Farang" orientated, she still gets the calls to send $$ home, but the family now know the most the can ask for is 4-5000bt and occasionally when the need is great.
I would add, for sure, my understanding of Thai language, and more importantly culture, has also been a major point in us staying together, and the fact that now both my daughter, and I, are more important to my wife, than her family - and that is something that dosent come easy, but what you really need to have a secure relationship with a TG.
Also can add, I never spoilt either my TG, or her family, with any kings ransom - they got a gold bracelet each and a few Johnny walkers - you have to set the ground rules early ! - which also gives you some hope that the TG is staying with you because she wants to.. not just for the $$ -
End result, im sure you have a great son, who is going to end up with a decent chance in life ; and like my daughter, I hope they both appreciate it later on !
[Thaiprivateeye thanks for your thoughts
Perhaps I can explain my situation a bit more on arriving in the LOS for the 1st time in 1990 with my friend,by the way it was a toss up between the footy world cup in Italy or a month in LOS anyway after 3 weeks massage/bar hunting we turned up in a bar near the Mandarin hotel called Barjasmine. I met my 6 month later married wife there,went for the visa she was turned down even though she was pregnant. While we waited for her appeal I went back and forth from the uk 6 or 7 times can't remember as I had my business to run in Cardiff UK in this period she started to have second thoughts about going to the UK and she was getting silly ideas from friends and family including she was about to become my mia noy and that you can't get rice in Falangland.She came from a broken home and her and her sister are like chalk and cheese her sister being a great mother,i think she had a pua noy back in LOS, she did'nt have any children before I met her' but I bet she's got one or two more now but its still strange to me how she could forget her son who by the way is doing alright but I think he hides his feelings for his mother deep inside p.s don't know if all luk krung are the same,my son's skin colour change's so much in the summer he looks like a thai from Issan then in the winter he change's to a whiter than white falang like his dad never seen someone change so much cardiffian/jeff
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:43 am on Aug. 30, 2005
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thaiprivateeye
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All interesting feedback for me Guys -
GS - yes, can relate to the 3yr old !! - I do think they are above average intelligence wise in many cases.. Not sure how good your Thai is - But I suspect the in-laws are encouraging her to think she is a super star already - and in any case, a bit of confidence goes a long way in thailand !
Jeff - yes, hindsight a great thing - I know if my wife and I had have got together, and had Nat after I had been in the country 5 mins - things wouldnt have lasted, but learning more about the ways / culture etc, certainly helps things. Who knows - maybe you will find a TG someday that [ like most] does love kids, but cant have any of her own !
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 9:42 pm on Aug. 30, 2005
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