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Frank La Rue
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Quote: from DaffyDuck on 4:06 am on June 4, 2009
Posted on 4:06 am on June 4, 2009
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Quote: from Frank La Rue on 11:45 pm on June 3, 2009
DD has not answered my question yet, would a heterosexual father prefer and hope for a gay son?
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... A well-adjusted individual would not care either way - furthermore, a well-adjusted father would not worry about his son being gay.
He would have properly raised his child where that would not even be a possibility.
If you are worried about your son being gay, you should think about what 'mistake' you might have made, to encourage this, instead of blaming a teddy bear.
I didn't state a "well adjused father" I stated "a heterosexual father"
You keep on sidestepping the question by redefining the premmise.
I ask the question as a heterosexual father, I feel well in my skin and have no reason, moral, practial or legal to measure if I am "well adjusted" to some other goal post then mine.
If the teddy bear is not well adjused to my goal post I'll throw him out.
You still have not answered my question. Peronally, I think by now you never will.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:46 pm on June 3, 2009
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DaffyDuck
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You have received all the answer you will ever get -- as I won't play into your obvious homophobia.
I feel sorry for your son.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 2:42 am on June 4, 2009
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seajohn
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Quote: from Frank La Rue on 11:26 am on June 3, 2009
Thais have a thing with giving each other bears.
I think the situation is under control.
"Bear" in Thai language is mee. And this a very popular youth culture slang for pussy here, kind of like beaver. For the hair, of course, but also because it rhymes with hee, an impolite word for pussy.
So, yes, they do like to give it.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:40 pm on June 5, 2009
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expatchuck
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Frank:
I DO NOT feel sorry for your son.
Just for the record, I hope Cane grows up with the same sense of humor you have. Keep it up.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 12:26 am on June 6, 2009
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S M E G M A
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Quote: from DaffyDuck on 3:06 am on June 4, 2009
Quote: from Frank La Rue on 11:45 pm on June 3, 2009
DD has not answered my question yet, would a heterosexual father prefer and hope for a gay son?
1)... A well-adjusted individual would not care either way - furthermore, a well-adjusted father would not worry about his son being gay.
2) He would have properly raised his child where that would not even be a possibility.
3) If you are worried about your son being gay, you should think about what 'mistake' you might have made, to encourage this, instead of blaming a teddy bear.
Interesting reply from DD.
BTW, I added the numbers above so as to reply referring to them.
I also highlighted the words "prefer" and "would not care either way" by making then bold.
1) FLR said "prefer". I understand then that as per DD's reasoning having a "preference" on the matter as a father means that such father is a maladjusted person? Does that apply to sexual orientation preference only or to any preference? Would a father liking (I use liking interchangeably with "prefer" ) his son to be smart as opposed to dumb mean that he is maladjusted? Would a mother preferring her daughter to be tall as opposed to short mean that she is maladjusted? Would a father liking his son to be fit as opposed to fat mean that he is maladjusted? I do not think so. Now, if they react badly to not having their preferences fulfilled, and raise the child in a form that he/she is traumatized, ok, then maybe we can talk about being maladjusted. But for liking something over something else, I really do not think so.
2) So if the child turns out gay, it is the fault of the parents? Interesting. One one hand, DD says that a well adjusted parent would not worry, but then says that if the unthinkable were to happen, then it means the parent didn't raise the child properly. I see a contradiction there that doesn't make sense.
3) Worrying about how children turn out means that parents are making mistakes? Ok, all parents make mistakes.... but does a mother worrying about the well being of her children when out at night mean that she already made a mistake? What if she doesn't worry, then it means she has done everything ok? Some parents worry more than others. I do not think it means they make more mistakes. Some worry about some things and some about others. It is a matter of personality. Actually, I think that at times it is the other way around, not worrying is a sign of a problem on the part of the parent.
It is difficult to judge and understand the feelings and responsibility a parent has for those people that never have had children to raise under their wings.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 2:56 am on June 6, 2009
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S M E G M A
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That is your best post ever: short. Next time, better if you do not even post.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:20 am on June 6, 2009
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expatchuck
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Smegs:
Yeah, that was one of his best.
Besides, why debate child raising with somebody that claimed he has never had any children?
Dr. Spock, he ain't! 
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:22 am on June 6, 2009
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cheapcharlie
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My son is 9 and also half thai he is not gay.
This is something you will know by this age already.
I thought about this for a second when he was a baby, how I would react if he did turn out to be a bum bandit.
Apart from the initial disappointment he wont be shagging pussy in a few years I cant say it matters.
I would love him however and whatever he does.
This is totally different from my parents who only loved me if I was the way they wanted, when I realised I could never live up to their expectations I left never to return. I spent most of my life alone just with different bietches and wasted for a big part to numb it all out.
Thats not something I want for my offspring.
As im a liberal and a total believer in personal freedom
right to be gay, legalised drugs etc id be a bit of a hypocrite if I became a prude just because I had produced a gay son. but as I say this is not something that worrys me.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:46 am on June 8, 2009
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