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dirty guru
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I am still thinking about this one ten years on.
There are bad stories and triumph stories.
There are stories of support in general for the poor.
Our money doesn't often stop as we know with the woman we engauge a service with.
And who can agrue poverty and it's merits as opposed to the girl that decides to sacrifice for family?
It's easy from a place that is comfortable to judge.
The basic truth is woman often end up better.
After many years....I wonder still.
But see results with many girls who took their chances.
The rice fields hold only so much promise....
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:27 am on April 13, 2012
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magnum
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... I went back and read thaiprivateye's reply on page 1 of this thread... 10 years ago... he could have written it yesterday, and it would be just as relevant as 10 years ago.
... nothing has changed in a decade... a Thai cultural value is to resist change... makes for a nation of victims.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 6:50 pm on April 13, 2012
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dirty guru
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Here's what he said
just to add, seems the majority have had a sister/relation working in the business, huge percentage have been married and or had a child in the up-country village at a young age, 17-20, and then the husband has left, - remember no social benefits here, you take care of yourself, which is why girls understand that their Mother always comes first, then family, then Husband/Boyfriend - as he can come and go, - the family are always there ! I think the majority also come from small villages, we are talking dirt roads, no Hot water or aircon- basic 1 room house, all the children sleep together, often the father absent, over half of Thai families live apart - the father either left, or gone elsewhere for work, a big reason I figure that some young boys are very pampered, and any "Katooey" traits that are there, are brought out ! - usually just a wooden house, with tin roof, average village may have 200-500 people, and 20-60km. bus trip to the nearest city occasionally for supplies. Hence once use'd to the bright lights, and a life of drinking / eating / sleeping / watching TV, and perhaps hanging out with a farang or three, obviously is a much better option than being in charge of some buffaloes or planting rice ! - sadly, many let countless opportunities go by, and suddenly are 30 odd, a stream of fresh, young girls are on the scene, - so unless they can grab a farang quickly, they often end up back in the village - but at least with there activities in bangkok, they have usually managed to upgrade the family home by then, if nothing else ! Because of the background/education - boys may be helped, but generally girls have to leave school at 12/13 in poorer families, and the fact also, that although not evident, Thailand has a very prominent class system, these girlds, no matter how good looking, have no hope of marrying some Thai from a wealthy family, at best they can be a "Mia noi" while their looks last, - so their only real hope of climbing up the financial and perhaps then the social ladder, is to marry a Foreigner. Hope this gives you some ideas, - not that I am any authority, its just that in my travels here, I've experienced most things, and been able to mix with people from all levels....
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'If you have a TG, she will never leave you ; you just sometimes lose your place in the queue'
Posted on: 4:43 pm on June 6, 2002
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:54 pm on April 13, 2012
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madfrog
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What DG describe is how I see it also.
The only weird thing is that since the foreigners are the only way out of poverty for those girls, they should be sort of gratefull when they meet a man who is nice and honnest to them and treat him well.....but NO, most of them have a superiority complex and will treat him like shit and scam him (get him killed?) given any opportunity...
They have this sense of entitlement, that whatever a farang own belong to them and is granted, and that they have to give as little as possible back...
No wonder many many "love story" in Thailand between foreigners and Thai girls end up badly...and I m NOT speaking about story between bargirls and ageing sex tourist here...
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 4:09 pm on April 19, 2012
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DaffyDuck
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Quote: from madfrog on 4:09 am on April 20, 2012
No wonder many many "love story" in Thailand between foreigners and Thai girls end up badly...and I m NOT speaking about story between bargirls and ageing sex tourist here...
This is soooo typical, blaming it all on the girl -- in almost all cases of failing relationships, it is invariably the fault of the guy, unable to grasp that his girlfriend or wife are from a different culture and holds different values, and the guy failing to adapt.
There's very few exceptions, and the kind of guys that invariably fall for the hooker sharks are more the minority of these kind of idiots.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 8:57 pm on April 19, 2012
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madfrog
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One more typical case of a foreigner becoming more thai than the thai, "farang no understand thai culture...blablabla"
I m all to blame the guy who marry thai girls and treat them like shit, cheating on them and coming home drunk day after day, but the "thai culture" stuff is mainly BS, just an excuse to steal money from the farang
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:47 pm on April 19, 2012
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