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Interesting point about this "is she really her?". I got likened so much to this girl that I started to have healthy doubts in my mind if she was at all possible.
The pics she send me (or had online) were very appealing to me but I started thinking why she sometimes sais "I'm ugly", "don't get your expectations too high" or things like that. I got really worried if I had been had.
But it was all in my mind. She just felt she hadn't been truely appreacited and sometimes had issues with her mood (self esteem) that could chnage quite quickly.
I even mentioned her about this reality thing and she just laughed: Ofcourse it's me in the pics. And I thought so all along but thought: either it is not you or you are wrong (hence "you are beautiful").
And as it turned out (she only got the cam a few months ago), she was even more incredable online than in the pics and I just tried to make her feel comfortable to see more of that cutie smile. It really was her.
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Posted on: 2:26 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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chickengeorge
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Something strange is happening to me....
I...um....yep it's true, I actually agree with the Doc ***THUD**** <George falls off his own chair>
Ok, sure he takes the term pedantic to new previously unchartered territories, but now I now know that that is his appeal. The two chaps' over-the-top retorts to his quite acceptable questioning makes me think maybe they are not so sure themselves. Thou doth protest too much...as some would say.
Internet initiated relationships have some fundamental differences to 'real life' relationships. There are many who assume vastly different personas online than they have in RL. To castigate him out of hand because he suggests that the person you beleive you know so well may not in fact be the person in your mind and dreams is a take a foolhardy position.
Their tirades are disproportionate to the line of questioning from Dr Love. Ahh well, nevermind, Chaps, if you find teh love of your life online, good luck to you but there are risks. You would be wise not to dismiss them
Ok. Moment over. Doc, I will be back to my comfortable opposing position in due course... ;->
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Posted on: 2:48 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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DrLove
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The time that you two take to answer my opinion (in obviously what you think a clever way) is amusing in itself.
Oh, yeah, Hugh, this one was also very funny:
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'We are in touch daily and she says that she loves me.'
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That's what some girls said to me within 2 minutes... and then even when we really met!
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As I already said, she told me that she had 43 guys email her, but chose me.
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Have you asked her why? Did you offer the best prospects or was it the amount of Brilcream in your hair?
You two are typical examples of frustated guys sitting in your homes (outside LOS) and dreaming about true love and respect while jerking off?
CG, are you on the RT tonight. Afterwards we might experience some real flesh instead of CC's and HJ's cyberflesh...
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Posted on: 2:55 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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CiaoCiao
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Dr L,
If it would salve your damaged ego to think such, having lost the argument at the outset and displayed your ignorrance thereafter, then fantasize on. 
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Posted on: 3:14 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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DrLove
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If it would salve your damaged ego to think such, having lost the argument at the outset and displayed your ignorrance thereafter
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Can somebody clear this up for me... I am at a loss.
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then fantasize on
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Fantasize about what... real pussy every night?
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Posted on: 3:20 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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chickengeorge
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Quote: from DrLove on 3:10 pm on Sep. 17, 2004
CG, are you on the RT tonight. Afterwards we might experience some real flesh instead of CC's and HJ's cyberflesh...
Doc, no not tonight. I was actually gonna attend for the 1st time but alas have another real life appointment myself.
btw must change my name CG is seemingly reserved for ColoradoGuy......<synapse snap> you were talking to me were you not?
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Posted on: 3:22 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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babysnake
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Internet initiated relationships have some fundamental differences to 'real life' relationships. There are many who assume vastly different personas online than they have in RL. To castigate him out of hand because he suggests that the person you beleive you know so well may not in fact be the person in your mind and dreams is a take a foolhardy position.
There are no risks marrying a BG? There is no risk crossing the street? Jeez!
I'm not about to marry anyone. Why does there have to be so much analyzing about everything? Ofcourse she might be different in reality, so what? Then we will see.
Just go with the flow, do what you feel is right and don't look my back. Life is about choices, experiences, taking risks! Not hiding and only trying one way approach all your life and calculating what might be and what might not.
If nothing else, the chattings and emails spice up the day enormously and although I'm very aware how much there are differencies between us, if it's been fun for 1,5 years, there must be some spark? I know, hope is dangerous but what fun is there to be a cynic and pessimist about things? Trust me, I have a little too much of experience about that.
Sounds like some ppl are afraid to get burned, don't trust themselves and are "scared of the internet".
CG,
IMO if you have found someone interesting that isn't from your own country or from the country you are often visiting (LOS here) why limit it only there? There are so many interesring women out there, why limit the confrontations only to real-life?
AND HJ My hat off to you!
I actually had not been able to imagine a 55 year old person to have cyber sex, I guess it isn't only the young and youngish who do it 
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Posted on: 3:39 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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I usually disagree (and most often dislake) DrL's posts. But this time I think he is not making as much non-sense as the replies he is generating would seem to indicate. I guess some may be taking his posts with more emotion than they diserve. And this may be an indication that he is not so far from making some sense; i.e. you may be having too high expectations.
While I do not doubt that some may have good experiences with cyberdating, lets get real, the stats are against all the parties: both the guy and the girl. So better to keep expectations in check. Wait until you meet the girl and then count it as a success if she really turn out to be close to what you expected (and same applies the other way around).
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Posted on: 3:44 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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CiaoCiao
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chickengeorge:
cg: Internet initiated relationships have some fundamental differences to 'real life' relationships.
CC: Couldn't agree more. And have indicated nothing here to the contrary.
cg: There are many who assume vastly different personas online than they have in RL.
CC: You will get no argument from me on that. (While I may appear to be an axxhole at times online, most people [except axxholes] find me a pleasant person in RL). But months of personal correspondence with a girl, especially by IM, all with the objective of meeting, have a good tendency to sort that out.
BTW there are just as many 'who assume vastly different personas (face-to-face - Dr L's ONLY character test) than they have in RL'....
cg: To castigate him out of hand because he suggests that the person you beleive you know so well
CC: Not so. Castigation was not because of anything Dr L SUGGESTS, but because of his TOTAL DISMISSAL of something he obviously knows nothing about.
cg. ...disproportionate to the line of questioning from Dr Love.
CC: Not a line of questioning, but a line of ignorant statements. A big difference?
cg: there are risks. You would be wise not to dismiss them
CC: No on here has indicated otherwise. There are risks in any relationship, and cyber relationships bring their own unique risks. But then BG relationships, cross-cultural/religion relationships, and even intercultural relationships also have their own unique risks, n'est-ce pas? Nothing ventured, nothing gained!
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Posted on: 4:03 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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chickengeorge
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CiaoCiao
Then dont worry about it. If your main beef is with the Doc's refusal to agree with your opinions then maybe take a step back, take a moment, compose yourself and ask yourself why that matters to you.
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Posted on: 4:12 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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