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Quote: from Mel Gibson on 11:08 am on July 18, 2004
6,000 BHT to was keep her and family eating,, she left highly piad jon in OM NOI to spend time with me.
As it works out we are happily married ( 3 years now ) and first child expected in December,,,, yes I still send 4,000 bht each month to help parents
Mel,
Most of the bar girls I have met have more than one sponsor so this was just a general statement which of course (from your comments above) does not apply to you.
best.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:15 am on July 18, 2004
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dirty guru
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And remember mel, is er happy..right mel?
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 5:18 am on July 18, 2004
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ThaidUp
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Quote: from Abrak on 4:45 pm on July 18, 2004[br (Seems to me that Thaidup has the right approach to sponsorship - send them to school, send them uni - then when you dump 'em at least you feel you have given them something worthwhile and a future)
Actually, this girl is already in her third year at the uni. I found it very rare, in fact this is the only one that I know of that is actually going to a university while atthe same time working in a bar. She was smart enough on her own to realise without a proper education she would be on the path to nowhere.
So I just took over the payments. She saw that working until 2:00 > 3:00 AM then going to school at 8:00 AM was going to physically destroy her fast and jumped at the opportunity.
She was out of that bar faster that I could pay my bill.
The surprise for her was she thought she had made some good friends in the bar (over a year) that she worked and wanted to keep up the relationships. At one point she needed to borrow a small amount of money from her close friends who she had previsously loan large amounts of money to. None of them offered to help.
Another close friend said she was staying with a friend nearby when in fact she had her own room nearby, but lied all along.
And when I mean close friends, I mean intimate times as she is bi. So I had to be her shoulder to cry on while her heart was broken. Now whe just wants to associate with her uni GF's and family in BKK.
So even some of the BG's are victims of these scheming BG's it all comes down to the baht.
If local natives who speak the language fall into these traps, do we as outsiders have a fighting chance. I think not. The only way is to set you own rules and once they are violated twice (Everyone deserves a second chance) cut the cord.
My only problem is that she is super busy doing homework. (I have already verified her story through other sources) that she has little time for me. Oh well that is why it is great to be in this country a nice MP is just down the street.
So maybe I found a diamond in the rough and maybe not. I am still polishing and may find a fatal flaw, but I have learned to enjoy the moment, I am a old fart with a university girl.
BTW the average earnings for a Nana BG is around 20K THB, hustlers and stunners will make a bit more, but very few are > 40K. Don't expect your 10K to cut it.
Lastly, while I am away on Singapore Uni Girl will be coming on weekends as I seen the sorry selection of TG's in Singpore and the prices they charge are outrageous. It is cheapre to fly my own talent in.
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Posted on: 6:14 am on July 18, 2004
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DrLove
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she left highly piad jon in OM NOI to spend time with me.
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Is that your translation of blowjob bar? (OM NOI - Suck me for a while).
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 7:12 am on July 18, 2004
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LocalYokul
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and what does it matter what the "jon" was getting paid ??
what was the jon paying her ??
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 7:16 am on July 18, 2004
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macaler
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Aha....So this thread turned out to be ALL about sponsorship.. OK...
I think it was Dirty Guru who said...
"Theres a side to all of us that is not revealed here (to the right lady) "
yes.. I agree.. BNot all has been told here..
Abtak.. U seem to be the most "Devils advocate-ish" to say the least.
There ahs been a whole lot more here than meets the eye..
the point is.. This is where it is now.
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Posted on: 10:31 am on July 18, 2004
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Kryptonite
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I have said this before and I will say it again.........
Women are like postage stamps,
Lick 'em, stick 'em, then send them on their way!
Krypto
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Posted on: 8:08 pm on July 18, 2004
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silentbob1234
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Quote: from Mel Gibson on 3:30 am on July 18, 2004
Black mail,, Politically incorrect,, same as man hole cover is now known as person hole cover....maybe dark coloured mail??????
As a black mail (well...partly) I am offended by the contextual musings of this thread. The whole thing is silly...Silly I tell ya's 
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Posted on: 7:35 am on July 19, 2004
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jack attack
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Macaler,
I feel for you bud. I know inside you would like to tell her to hit the road but you have some emotional investment there too.
I tried to sponsor a girl a few years back from Soi Cowboy. She wanted to stop the bar life but had no education past high school and just wanted a regular job. I tried to find something for her but it didn't work.
It really hit me hard when she told me that she didn't want my money anymore - (Bt 10 - 15 K per month) and that she was going back home to Issan.
Yes, I knew I was not going to marry her and she never intimated this was what she wanted. I didn't think she was throwing me over the side because she found a better pay day. It would have been very easy for me to just keep sending money as I never asked nor did she say where she was or what she was doing.
The last day we had lunch and she walked off into the sunset. I couldn't believe it but I really did feel sad. She was pretty but there were/are thousands more beautiful. There were/are better 'rides' so I can't really explain what happened and why I liked her so much.
Fast forward a few years and I got her mobile number (back then she didn't have a mobile- none of them did) from one of her friends from the bar. No sh-t, I called and she was working in a factory upcountry!! It was two in the afternoon and I could hear the machinery. I asked if she was happy and she said yes. Asked if she needed money and she said no!
Whenever I would see her friends they all would tell me that she was such a good girl and they thought I should marry her. Maybe she was/is but for sure the gulf between us culturally was about as wide as the ocean. But I am very happy that she has a life whereever with whomever.
One thing in your story that I think is a huge issue; your girl isn't doing anything and she has really bad freeloaders for a family. That sends off warning signals loud and clear. It could be she has hooked up with some local scumbag in Issan and he is milking her.
I am a firm believer that if any girl is going to truly leave the bar scene, they have to have some work to keep their minds off all the bad stuff. And going to school to learn english doesn't count IMO. These girls have, in many respects, been the big bread winner for the family and now suddenly their position is reduced because everyone knows they are not 'working' and just collecting "social security" from the "Bank of Falang". I think if we were in their shoes and accustomed to making a living but suddenly just hangin' around collecting pay for doing nothing, we would lose a bit of our own self respect and that of others.
As was said previously, IMO if this isn't going anywhere on your side, send the severance notice and pay pack. You'll feel bad for awhile but it is best for all concerned.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 7:50 am on July 19, 2004
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jack attack
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PS- in order to maintain absolute political correctness, I offer "extortion" as an alternative.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:55 am on July 19, 2004
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