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lesdunbar
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Got a phone call from my girlfriend yesterday.....saying we are finished. We have been an item for a year now and she,s 7 months pregnant..
Iwent to a lot of trouble, and finally got her a Visa to go to Australia to have the baby.. Brought the airline tickets, supposed to fly out next friday afternoon..Now she tells me I have no heart and she wants to break up because I yelled at her last month, for asking her if she had a boyfriend up in isaan (where she is now) I,m in Hong Kong until next wednesday.
The reason I yelled at her; She hocked my Nissan BigM pickup for B.50,000-00 to a loan shark then either gave the money to a boyfriend or gambled it away..
I,m dumbfounded.?
The only thing I can think off, Is the baby mine..? (What could make her flip 100% so close to our flight to Australia?) I was with her almost all the time she conceived..we were in The Philippines for a holiday at that time. Then back home to Roi Et.. We took a taxi to Isaan, but we stopped in her Amper., I waited by the taxi while she went shopping.. she dissapeared for about 1 hour, tried to call. but she said she had a flat battery, and she was only buying soom food for the family.???? So she might have done the deed then..???
AMAZING THAILAND.................Any Thoughts..?
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Posted on: 1:28 am on May 16, 2005
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LocalYokul
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Quote: from lesdunbar on 1:22 pm on May 16, 2005
Any Thoughts..?
sounds like your worst suspicion may be true
either way, she's not worth a dime if she's doing ignorant shit like selling a truck for about 1/4 of what it's worth
probably lying about that too. She probably let her TBF borrow it and he sold it, or took a loan out with the truck as collateral
forget about that witch, and start over with someone else, or just don't get involved this far any more
maybe the child isn't yours, maybe the truck really didn't get sold, but is instead the new family car, their family (not yours)
was having this converstaion with a young lady just last night. She's seen plenty of Falahng get ripped off by chicks who were already married or had sponsors, just reeling them in for more money
said it can get pretty nasty too if another lass (single) gets in the way of the gold digger from reaping her rewards (ill-gotten)
how convenient that he battery was dead while she was "shopping" in the market. Did she bring any food back ?
why didn't she take you with her ?
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Posted on: 1:39 am on May 16, 2005
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Hugh Jardon
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Obviously you love this girl and are deeply upset, otherwise you wouldn't write about it on the forum. But whether the child is yours or not, you need to distance yourself from the heat of the current situation and try and think things through coldly and rationally.
What would you like to happen long term? You marry her, live together in Oz?
Because she was the one to take the step of walking out on you, you can now assess this solely from your own position. If you did get back with her and marry her, wouldn't you always be nervous about whether she would do such stupid things in the future; that she might carry on gambling and sell or pawn other of your possessions?
As for the child when it's born, although it sounds probable that it's yours, would you feel a moral obligation to pay for its upkeep even if the two of you had parted? If she chose to leave you, then why should you?
Was she involved in P4P when she met you? If so, then I'd say get out of it and forget her, whilst you still have a shirt on your back.
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Posted on: 1:55 am on May 16, 2005
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lesdunbar
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when she returned to the taxi, she only one small plastic bag of raw pigs kidneys (yuck) doesnt take an hour to buy that... Thats what made me become suppisious..
And lots of times i,ve called her and got no reception. she laster saying......visiting her school friends at her Amper and there is a black spot for mobiles.
..Well I first met her in Soi Cowboy, maybe that explains a lot...???? But she was pretty new to the game then.. must be a quick learner.......lol.
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Posted on: 2:00 am on May 16, 2005
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MadStockBroker
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I guess most people are going to tell you the same thing here....
You are a lot better off without her !
Break off all contact with her...change phone numbers and email etc and stay out of Thailand for the next 2 months. She if she has wised up after the baby is born.
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Posted on: 2:02 am on May 16, 2005
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Ballsburstin
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lesdunbar,
Being a newbie at Soi Cowboy doesn't necessarily mean she has no role models for this kind of bad behavior back home in her village. In may TGF's village, there are lots of "retired" Bg's in their late 20's to early 30's. These retiress constantly talk with their lady neighbors and friends who are either back from the bars for a short visit or have also recently reeled in a farang.
From what I've seen in my TGF's village, many of these "retired" ladies do a lot of coaching, and not in a way that is advantagous to any relationship you may have with your TGF. Moreover, you will see them coaching the parents of your TGF, and believe me, that is DEFINITELY not to your advantage.
I had mentioned in a post a few months back about doing a FR on the "retired BG" community in my TGF's village, but haven't had the time (and I'm lazy, too). Nonetheless, all the advice given by the bro's here is good. Get the hell away from the lady as fast and as far as possible. If you are married in Oz, a divorce years later will be far uglier than one in LOS. And it's not beyond the pale to believe that she wouldn't string you along until she had an even bigger financial advantage to be gained from divorce. Keep in mind that her coaches and mentors in Soi Cowboy and in her village are pros, and you are an outsider to much of that discussion, no matter how well you know her.
Paranoid thoughts? Perhaps, but I think you need to find a better lady.
- Balls
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Posted on: 2:16 am on May 16, 2005
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scobie
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She's a hooker. Forget her. There are millions of better girls in Thailand. Soi Cowboy, Nana, Beergarden etc are sources of cheap and easy sex. They are NOT sources of cheap and easy love.
There is an important distinction.
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Posted on: 2:24 am on May 16, 2005
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shoke
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She's an Isaan amateur.
She should have gone to Australia, married you, had the child there. The child would have got citizenship which can be dual.
Then, since she thinks she can lie well, allege you have become abusive and file for a domestic violence restraining order.
You're out of the home, her visa continues, she waits one year and files for divorce. With a child, she gets a good amount, let us say half, maybe more, perhaps even your house outright.
Wait a little longer, if she wants she can automatically get Australian citizenship, which can be dual, after just 2 years living there. This gives certain lifetime government benefits including right to return visa free any time she wants. She has full access to all Australian social security benefits.
Next, return to Thailand. A couple years all up, not working and very profitable thank you so much.
She's played her hand wrong settling for too little, and you're perhaps naive but lucky this time.
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Posted on: 2:25 am on May 16, 2005
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lesdunbar
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Booked on QANTAS. we only needed a letter under 7 days old from her Doctor. She got that last saturday from her Doc. in Roi Et.
Qantas said with a letter she can fly up untill her 36th week. now shes 32.3 weeks.
It seems that you all know whats going on with their scams..... Thanks for all your advise and to all of you who have posted a reply..
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 3:03 am on May 16, 2005
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caronte
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You booked the flight on Quantas???
So you are going ahed with this story then.....so what about all the advices of the other bros???
Why didn't you come to LOS for a few days to check the situation before taking such a step???
I mean, the issue of the pick up is very important as it's showing very clearly that she doesn't even think twice before disposing of your values to benefit her family!
C'mon guy, get a grip and flush her away before it's too late!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:53 am on May 16, 2005
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