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kurtnilsen
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Hi, sorry about your mother! I think that a good mother would understand that work/money is important, you shall after all live in the future. Holiday starts around 01. august in S-K I think, and depens on what ticket you have, is it a rebookable ticket or not? Also is it important too have a good relationsship with your employeer. But the employeer should also see if there is anything they could do too help you in a situation like this, but then again I know that work conditions etc are a bit different in asia then they are in Norway. So take day by day and keep close in touch with your sister too see what happens.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 3:57 pm on July 25, 2005
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LiamOZ
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MD, Sorry to hear about your mother. I live along way from my mother also, and one day I may be in the same situation - I hope not. Anyway, last time mine had a health scare I really gave myself a bad time, because it had been nearly twelve months. However, when I put it in perspective, ie: there were letters, phone calls, and a lot of the time if I was there she would have been doing other things - I stopped beating myself up. Love & respect can conquer distances. You do not always have to be somewhere physically to be with someone. FWIW I think it's best to weigh up your circumstances & do what you think is the right thing, but please don't beat yourself up about your choices past or present. Life is too short. Liam PS: Also, it is sometimes surprising how your employers & colleagues can be flexible in these kinds of situations.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:13 pm on July 25, 2005
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BigDUSA
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You feel this way because you know what your doing not right and the money more important then your mother. You have one of two choices. Suck it up and don't whine or get on the f***in plane and do what's right. Sorry to hear about your mom.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 6:25 pm on July 25, 2005
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bkkfella
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I do not see why you cannot find a substitue teacher to stand in for you so you can leave immediately. Offer enough money and they will line up. Your mom will only die once; you will have to live with your decisions forever. As CG said.... get your priorities straight and get on the plane for heavens sake. I think you are being self centered. Money comes and goes. Mom's do not. And if your employer is not accomodating, do you really want to give them your best years ? They have loved ones too. They should understand. Good luck
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 7:02 pm on July 25, 2005
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Triyclops
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EDIT and shortened for clarity Parents are, and should be the most important bond in a family. Surpassed only by the love and commitment to your own children. Who will (hopefully) return that love and commitment to you when it is your turn to lie there dying in pain in a hospice. Ultimately you must make the decision and live with it. Live with it until it is your turn to die then just hope that your children do not ignore you in your time of need. GO TO SEE HER NOW BEFORE ITS TOO LATE.... Find a substitute teacher the students will understand and respect you for it... If not then quit the f***ing job... I have had many jobs but only one Mother... TC
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:56 am on July 26, 2005
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JackRabbit
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JackRabbit present... Too bad about Your mother, hopefully You get there in time. Life is a chain of decisions and living with the consequences. You make the moves, You pay the dues. JR
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:28 am on July 26, 2005
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DrLove
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Perhaps this would have better fitted on a 'Dear Abby' board than on a pussy board full with whoremongers. Edit: As you removed your post, you probably agree. My advice: - Quit your job immediately - Take the first plane out before you're sorry. To get rid of your sorrow, don't visit Thailand ever again.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:39 am on July 26, 2005
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BIG BEEFA
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Sorry to hear about your Mother, why don't you put your mother on a plane to Thailand, I hear that Bumrungrad Hospital is good and while she is in bed getting great service from the nurses, you could be giving great service to another nurse in the bed next door, everyone's happy. Otherwise go to your Mother, or you'll be regretting for the rest of your life. A lot of people don't get the opportunity to say good-bye face to face to their loved ones before they go onto the next life and you are trying to decide on what to do, what is wrong with this picture. Good Luck Beefa
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 2:24 am on July 26, 2005
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scobie
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with all due respect Big Beefa, that is about the most stupid and f***ed up post I can remember seeing on this board for some time (and the competition is great).
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:26 am on July 26, 2005
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