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arrabista
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Greeting fellow members of BTF
This is a call out to all you arse afficianados out there....
I have been a lurker on this forum for a few years with the odd post here and there..but this topic I really want to put to bed and need all the help I can get
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Dirty Guru I hope you amongst the many can answer the call...Quim I am a big fan of your posts and in the vein of your " a Gentleman post" hoping you could chip in too.....
Been a monger for a few years but never gone the arse option with P4P.
I have done it with several girlfriends on the west but only ever had one that really loved being f***ed there whilst fingering herself to orgasm...
As the saying goes "what you resist, persists..."
-I am determined that at my next visit to LOS I will put this issue to bed and scratch this itch so to speak... Ah what bliss it will be!
With regards to this I am Newbie in LOS need tips and pointers with regards to the following:
Approaching the subject:
How in depth do you get about negotiating what you want before sealing the deal? Anyone out there care to share experiences?
Besides hardened and experienced providers ala devils den and eden club how have you guys worked your around this with your average thai ladies etc???
Terminology:
Any nice way of saying it to the thai ladies without scaring them off, what's a good way to say I want bum boom boom
Equipment:
Besides lube what would you also suggest is essential 
Any other anecdotes, tips and pointers??
My current regular girl in the west is japanese and very conservative and just thinks it is an absolute no and a no go zone, closest I have ever got is a finger up there and that was after much insisting...kind of feel like giving up on this with her...
Looking forward to your responses gents...
Kap khun mak mak khap
Arrabista
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:11 am on May 18, 2011
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romeland
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As a fellow back door enthusiast, I can relate to your post very much.
Yes, this is available at Tulip, Eden etc, but it just isn't the same is it.... it's much more intense if you have been with the girl at a club beforehand, or out somewhere else, and then if you manage to pot the black, it's much more pleasureable, as you have been building up to it and thinking about it beforehand, as opposed to going into a room with a lady you have just met.
From my experience and knowledge, if you start talking about bum boom boom during negotiations, you won't get very far, and any lady offering this service will either take you for a ride (saying you are too big, or try and make you cum before the deed or anything else to avoid it), or, will be pig ugly.
I estimate about 20% of my conquests have done this deed, and from that fact, I would recommend that you just hook up with as many lookers as you can and try and make them like you, give them sanook... that way they are more likely to enjoy being with you in bed, and accordingly, more likely to do this act. Give them plenty of foreplay, I love licking their arses for as long as they let me, and chances are they won't have had that done to them before..... lick their pussy, same time fingering their star of light, and if they are enjoying that and you are at this point, then anal will be easy.
In short, unless you want a mechanical anal experience with no feeling, I would not recommend talking about it first. And funny enough, it is not always the tatooed covered slut looking girls that engage in this, it can be the sweet looking ones with a twinkle in their eye...
Equipment - KY or baby oil and your dick - what else do you want ??? Dildos are not that common in BK, unless you want to bring one in your bag.
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Posted on: 3:51 am on May 19, 2011
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Bimlee
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I never did it. But curious to know about it. Again, I am not sure, if time comes and some cuty ask me to do it, I should know the art of doing it. I personally feel it may not be hygenic, thats all. Though I don't hate it. I heard a refusal note from many girls when I said (Jokingly) I will f*** your ass. I never tried or moved forward futher.
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Posted on: 2:23 pm on May 19, 2011
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arrabista
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Romeland
thank you so much for your insights and advice it is really much appreciated...I think you pretty much summed up what I was going through and my desire not to have mechanical anal sex at somewhere like eden club etc..
I am seeking a much deeper experience with regards to this and I agree probably not talking about and just enriching the rapport wit the girl will increase chances and make them more relaxed and trust you more, I joke a lot with them and often find that humour is also a great way to dispel those nerves...;)
Quack quack thanks for your post ; you ask us what is so attractive about anal sex?
I will reply by saying its the same thing that drives the attraction about oral or vaginal sex...pleasure....pure pleasure
For me with past girlfriends it was also about a woman giving herself to you completely...everything....
In my early twenties I had a long time girlfriend who was mad about anal sex...she initiated me in to this world and I can tell you I have never heard sounds of a woman orgasming with pleasure as I f***ed her arse and she fingered her clitoris.... It was an amazing experience I will never forget
It is an errogenous zone for them too....
Just so much taboo about it with people....
As for the hygiene issue I would like to reassure you that I am pedantic about cleanliness down there
Nothing like sharing a shower with a girl and soaping up her body...running your hands along her neck..the nape of her back...her breast...her pussy...making sure they are soaped up and clean and then finally soaping up her butt and gently putting a finger in their arse to make sure it is all nice and clean for you to enjoy......and the night is an open canvas...
This usually builds my anticipation, romeland spoke about licking their star of light... Most women I have been with find this extremely pleasurable...your tongue around those nerve endings down there... and believe you me their pussies can also get very wet from doing this in my humble experience quack quack......
Please do not get the wrong idea that this is the ONLY thing I am looking for with girls in LOS...just something that I find gives me intesense pleasure too..
As for it being disgusting...well let's just say it is tied up with each persons perception and attitude to this! I agree to disagree!
Bim lee I think I answered some of your questions in this post...go off and explore my friend..
Cheers gents
Arrabista
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Posted on: 10:04 pm on May 19, 2011
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Ghatotkach
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Anal sex is, as has been mentioned, different for different persons. I remember being intrigued by it a few seasons ago. Again, it was more of curiosity than an actual desire. So, there I was at Tulip's one afternoon and casually mentioned to the girl I was with that I had never tried anal sex before. She looked at me with a shocked look, if I might use the term, and literally shouted at me "so you're an anal virgin?" Next thing I knew, she had me in her ass-hole and rode me to completion. That has been my only anal experience and I have really not felt the need for it. But then, to each his own!
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Posted on: 11:29 pm on May 19, 2011
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oreally
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It is tighter, in most cases.
Once that pussy gets loose, it is time to look elsewhere.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:13 am on May 20, 2011
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Bimlee
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It is indeed very well written by arrabista ! I do agree and admit that while taking shower, you know how to clean your self and how to clean your partner. This goes without compromise. For me, almost all the cases, partner cleans me up all holes, so do I.
But "..... Most women I have been with find this extremely pleasurable...your tongue around those nerve endings down there... and believe you me their pussies can also get very wet from doing this in my humble experience....... "
I have not tried this. I could not reach up to this stage.
Very truly arrabista mentioned that a man tries all holes in a female body. Well, so far I have tried and successful in two holes only, no experience about the third hole. Having said that, and reading all these interesting articles, I think, I am bold enough to make a positive attempt in Tulip in my next visit. I am searching for some good names on this partcular subject. Thanks arrabista for informative write ups.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:56 am on May 21, 2011
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