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ThaidUp
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I see a lot of bros jumping thru hoops juggling wives, GF's, BG's and mistresses.
With the infamous Thai network and that was before cell phones, How many really think the others don't what going on with outside liason's?
It all seems like a house of cards and sooner or later it will come tumbling down. Comments anyone?
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:08 pm on Sep. 25, 2003
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S05
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Correct call ThaidUp, those tom toms are very good on letting the other half,tgf ect find out about ones naughty moments. 
S05..
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:06 am on Sep. 26, 2003
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bound4bangkok
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hello all
NO wife or girlfriend here so me can be bad boy all I want with no worrys.
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Posted on: 12:10 am on Sep. 26, 2003
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Meatywsg
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Keep is simple, i'm married and happy, i indulge in the forbidden fruit once every couple of weeks, i never go back to the same girl twice, i keep behaviour clean and respectful in bars, so BG's have no reason to add BS to the fire should a fire start. I dont use a mobile, i never get BG mobiles or give out mine, i always agree price and service first and pay as agreed even when service is shite. I tend to use more Mp's than gogo places, and i am very clear in my own mind what i am doing, i love my wife, i care about my wife, and i shall always provide for and take care of her, no matter what, death do us part and all that. Outside of that i have infrequent sex with strangers for money, strangers who i have no interest in discussing there family lives, understanding why they do what they do, going to discos or restaraunts or anything other than a few hours having sex. End of.
I strongly believe that sex is not love, and that one can devote onesself to someone he loves but still have sex elsewhere so long as it does not form a realtionship which i class as cheating. To me ST is not cheating, a one off 2 hrs of sex with a stranger up against x many years doing a whole range of activities other than just sex with someone for whom you have great feelings, different ball game, different field, different players.
Than again maybe i've been in LOS too long and forgotten the real world, whatever!
Peace
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 12:14 am on Sep. 26, 2003
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fastmover
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Good M.O. Ever thought about being a politician?
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:15 am on Sep. 26, 2003
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thaiprivateeye
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just from my records, ;
Guy thinks MAYBE his TG playing around, 5 times out of 6 she is-
Wife thinks MAYBE LOS based Hubby playing around, 10 out of 10 he is 
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:36 am on Sep. 26, 2003
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NaughtiusMaximus
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Hey Meaty, almost an exact mirror image of me goodself.
Keep is simple, i'm married and happy, i indulge in the forbidden fruit once every second day, i never go back to the same girl more than 5 or 6 times, i rarely keep behaviour clean and respectful in bars, so BG's have no reason to add BS to the fire should a fire start. I do use a mobile, i sometimes get BG mobiles & give out mine, i sometimes agree price and service first and pay as agreed unless when service is shite. I tend to use less Mp's than gogo places, and i am very clear in my own mind what i am doing, i love my wife, i care about my wife, and i shall always provide for and take care of her, no matter what, death do us part and all that. Outside of that i have frequent sex with strangers for money, strangers who i have no interest in discussing there family lives, understanding why they do what they do, but sometimes go to discos or restaraunts but anything other than a few hours having sex, is unimportant. End of.
I strongly believe that sex is not love, and that one can devote onesself to someone he loves but still have sex elsewhere so long as it does not form a realtionship which i class as cheating. To me ST is not cheating, a one off 2 hrs of sex with a stranger up against x many years doing a whole range of activities other than just sex with someone for whom you have great feelings, different ball game, different field, different players.
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Posted on: 12:45 am on Sep. 26, 2003
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Scout
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Hmmm says if a wife sneaks around screwing some guys occesionally, It should not matters. Since sex is not love and vice versa. Just never shag to the same guy twices and no need giving out number or neither getting ones. Beside loving caring and cherish her husband and all that craps as a wife should, she just have sex elsewhere as long as it does not form a realtionship which class as cheating, that's all... Just having orgasm with another guys wouldn't hurt a spouse, would it?... fun fun fun my man
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:39 pm on Sep. 26, 2003
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Arcadius
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I think the big difference between Thai women & others is that they KNOW guys play around. They don't approve, of course, but tend to just accept it one of those things like cars & football - this is the way guys are and that's life. On the other hand, they want to put this knowledge to the back of their minds and pretend otherwise. Your job is to make this possible for them.
So the rules are a bit different. You don't need to be guiltless, but you do need to seem so. The emphasis is on discretion - not rubbing her nose in it, and especially (as you value your wedding tackle) not causing her to lose face. Excuses and alibis don't have to be 100% convincing, as in the West, but it shows lack of respect and consideration if they aren't at least plausible. Roll up with 4am with some pitiful excuse you drunkenly dreamt up in the taxi, and you can expect at least a week of hell from a Thai wife, GF or mistress. And don't think that being technically guiltless for once will save you - you are guilty unless proven innocent.
Interesting that the same rules seem to apply all through the spectrum from wives to BGs. Of course, no BG imagines for a second that you don't fool around with other BGs. But try butterflying under her nose (let alone her friends' noses), and you can expect a few stiff-arm punches you won't forget in a hurry.
In general, I think all this belongs to the same ambivalent world as the GFE and the katoey. Why live in a world of uncomfortable realities when plausible illusions are so much more enjoyable? It seems to me that Thais are exceptionally good at this kind of double-think. Farangs aren't nearly so good at it, and we get into trouble when our clumsiness makes their illusions impossible too.
On a different subject, I would be very careful of terms like 'cheating' and 'unfaithful'. If you buy into the West's serial monogamy rule-book, then fine. Otherwise, why employ enemy terminology?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:59 am on Sep. 27, 2003
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