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Ringwormer
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When I was lounging around the MPs in HK, approx. over half the guys in there are married. I mentioned this to the guys and they just brushed it off as if their wives don't mind. I guess visiting brothels seems is not considered cheating in China.
My coworker who's a married thai guy, goes back to BKK and apparently seek the company of ladies. His wife who's also Thai, knows what he's up to but never confronted him. He just take the stance of don't ask don't tell and everyone's happy.
On a few occassions when I discussed my infidelity (by western standard) to my TGs, they just said "oh, that's ok. as long as you're just having sex. but you cannot like another girl".
So if I take on the above standards, could I possibly use it to justify my actions on LOS?
I am only asking because I am heading toward a serious relationship in US yet cannot seem to have enough of debauchery in LOS.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:27 am on Oct. 27, 2003
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Vancouver Jay
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It's infidelity as soon as both parties in the relationship define it as such, whether that definition is tacit or explicit. You can't use the Asian rationale if your partner in farangland is not in agreement with those values.
Don't equivocate: find a girl who'll be okay with your Asian adventures; give them up entirely; or live with the possible consequences of subterfuge.
You can't have your cake, and Edith, too.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 2:37 am on Oct. 27, 2003
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Arramsey
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Quote: from Vancouver Jay on 3:37 pm on Oct. 27, 2003
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You can't have your cake, and Edith, too.
VJ ,
I like that one - I really do . I haven't heard that one before and I haven't stopped chuckling .
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:44 am on Oct. 27, 2003
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JR
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Ringwormer,
I had the same experience speaking to some BG's recently in LOS.
One of them told me that while she was pregnant she actually gave her husband $$ to visit brothels, since it was her first baby and she did not want to have sex until after the baby was born. She told her husband that so long as it was just to satisfy his 'urges' than it was OK. The husband made the mistake of falling in love with one girl and thid BG kicked him out...as a result she is workinng the bar scene in BKK.
Is the the norm...for women to think like that...I really don't think so...my wife is Thai and if she ever knew I indulged in the P4P scene she would kick me out as well.
Certain women put up with it so long as the huband provides and takes care of the family....but I strongly believe that this is only common only in a few Asian cultures.
Best to keep your 'debauchery' private...TG's may only tell you its OK coz they got nothing to lose and much to earn...$$$ 
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 3:03 am on Oct. 27, 2003
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neuasot
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Well, if you are ever asked, you can always use the line,
"Honey, when we do it, it's making love. With her its just f*cking."
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 5:05 am on Oct. 27, 2003
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