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ThaiPrivateEye II
There is nothing worse than a short fat Eingedeutched (spelling anyone) TBG with a German attituide who is now probably hooked on Weizen beer and Bratwurst's and is well past her sell by date.

TPE II


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Posted on: 11:49 pm on Nov. 28, 2005
barrafish

Quote: from scobie on 12:20 pm on Nov. 29, 2005
Even more stupid are the stories of guys who marry the girls and then go home. HUH? How the f*** can they marry someone in a different continent.

Regulars will recall my story of a girl being sponsored 200,000 baht a month by an American, while she was living with and shagging a young Danish guy here in Bkk without him knowing.

An update. She pressured the yank into marrying her. She told him her only parent alive (and this is true) is a monk, so any sinsod goes to her. She's suddenly increased her bank account a cool million as a result.

He comes over a few weeks ago to marry her. Me and GF boycott the wedding - I can't face it through fear I would let the cat out of the bag.

He then goes home, back to Lala land. So now Mrs Rich Guy is alone again back in BKK, and moved back in with Danish guy.

Life is great, isnt it?



Scobie,
Tell me you are joking, no one could be that f***en stupid, no-one.... could they ?? If he has that much money to throw around, surely he must have a few brain cells, shit,I have just answered my own stupid self haven't I.

His brain cells must be in the nuetral mode when he leaves U.S. No wonder you did not go to the wedding, I would have been cringing all the way through the ceremony...yikes.

Barrafish.



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Posted on: 5:17 am on Nov. 29, 2005
barrafish
I do hope that is the only scam I hear about. Surely there could not be any others, I mean we are from first world countries and these are just TBG's..right.

We are smarter than the TBG, and can pull the wool over their eyes. That bloke from USA must have been in one in a million....nobody else is that stupid eh, oh yeah the man from Germany, so there must be only 2 of them,
Tex and Adolf, no more, could'nt be.....


Barrafish.


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Posted on: 5:26 am on Nov. 29, 2005
ringthebells
looks like the danish rule. scobie, wasnt that "girl" even of questionable gender??

rtb


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Posted on: 5:45 am on Nov. 29, 2005
Minder
A couple of years ago now I was in Phuket and at Promthep Cape at sunset. Got talking to a nice guy, mid 50's or so, a countryman who had arrived in Thailand the day before for the first time on a week long trip.

He loved the place and the people were wonderful, he said. I took one look at his two Thai tour guides - a man and a woman and thought some are but these sharks ain't!

He went on to tell me about the little bit of trouble he had had the night before, his first night in Thailand and his first night at the bars. He had got drunk, got arrested and spent the night in jail - the police chief was a lovely fellow though - left the cell door open and took him to his own home this morning for a meal - seems an assault complaint was filed by one of the bar girls - but he had paid the 10 thousand baht fine and now things were sorted.

Yeah, he loved the place and was already planning to move to Thailand - his guides had already shown him property that he was thinking of buying. At this stage I said something like "Mate, be careful. We can't own land here. Get some real advice first." The female shark then called him to look at something and the male shark placed himself between us - I got the message and moved back to the TGs I was with.

That guy had been in Thailand less than two days at that time, had clearly read nothing, knew nothing and was telegraphing to all that he had money - some sort of early retirement payout.

I don't doubt he could have "married" before the end of his trip to. Enjoy.


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Posted on: 6:25 am on Nov. 29, 2005
DaffyDuck

Quote: from Minder on 8:03 pm on Nov. 29, 2005
That guy had been in Thailand less than two days at that time, had clearly read nothing, knew nothing and was telegraphing to all that he had money - some sort of early retirement payout.


Clearly, now totally gone... I think some of the puddle jumpers in Pattaya are now far more clear...

Honestly, those kind of guys just deserve it.


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Posted on: 11:32 am on Nov. 29, 2005
hypershade

Quote: from ThaidUp on 12:22 pm on Nov. 29, 2005

Quote: from Bangkok Chang on 11:58 am on Nov. 29, 2005
The best one I hear of took ten years in which a TG got her German husband to send money back to her "family" in Thailand. Once he'd finished the payments on what turned out to be her Thai husband's house did she leave the German and come back here to her real husband.
Land Of Smiles. My ass.
Land of Sneaky c***s seems more appropriate.


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Posted on: 1:27 pm on Nov. 29, 2005
hypershade

Quote: from barrafish on 7:04 pm on Nov. 29, 2005
nobody else is that stupid eh, oh yeah the man from Germany, so there must be only 2 of them,
I sincerly hope you are being sarcastic. 99% of present humanity would have never made it though natural selection.


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Posted on: 1:40 pm on Nov. 29, 2005
Golden Star
"nobody else is that stupid eh, oh yeah the man from Germany, so there must be only 2 of them"


If you spend no more than a few minutes perusing readers' submissions on Stickman's website, you will see that there is a new sucker born literally every minute. One of the reasons why I stopped reading Stick is that it just got way too depressing. Too many "I got stuffed" stories. Mind you, in most of the cases, the guys asked for it.


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Posted on: 2:13 pm on Nov. 29, 2005
dirty guru
These are the steps I took.

Married twice (both wifes were great and committed)
The stories here about few Bar girls working out in marriages are also a little judgemental.
Half the farangs north with homes are into 10 plus years marriage with ex bar girls happily.

Sure you will hear stoies.
Just go to http://www.pattayapeople.com and then click the pattaya pictures and stories on the right.
Theres a cut one about a retired German (they must be the silliest) who after marrying a bar girl, tolerated her cousin moving in * (a male)
No points for guessing how this one ends.

Me?

Well ironically it was my butterflying in both cases. (that eventually ended both)

The steps to ensure things present a chance of success is usually common sense.
Ie dont do what I did and be committed, and find a girl with a desire to quit work.
Tell tale signs are their devotion to family and Buddha, and an honest reaction to oppurtunities.
Send them home but keep the financial support to a reasonable level.
Having lived north I can tell you that 3000-4000 would be her normal pay there for markets or field work.
A bank teller earns 7000-9000 a month.
Even a nurse just 10,000.
So the acceptable level of support should be agreed at about 18,000 with an additional few thousand occansionally to cover communications.
If she is true to this and really shuns the lights to follow her dream of marriage, and devotion, support the concept if she is in your heart.
Like the wise have written here :""time is the measure"
But location is also.
Under no cirumstances is it acceptable to support her while she is working/Or in Bangkok /Pattaya.
After a time north and your regular meetings with family, * (at least 12 months) The plans to marry could be considered.
There is no denying the family are driven by gain as well as hopes for their daughter.
Again token jestures like helping fix a water pump, or leaking roof, is as far as your support for them should go.
The reason being is 50% of your cash is feeding them and buying beer for father, and card money for mother.
Welcome to Thailands realities.
Drill it in her head (your not a cash cow) and until married and settled and 100% secure, no qusetions involving money should be asked.

This wont stop them but lighten the load.
When you marry a Thai girl you marry the family.

I navigated this fine.

Ironically it was the girl I didint marry who I finanically committed to most.
Remember divorces in Thailand are $10.
And at home, well we all know that one.

Bar girls go through stages.
If you get them when they are still starry eyed and hopeful, and less programmed to play out scams and routines, theres a possibility, theres nothing more they want also.
Time and care nurtures the devotional side.
I had happy years, but my dick lets me down, and so it goes.
But I know guys who have cultured and groomed ex Nanna (circula 1990) girls into fine wifes, with a measure of grace. You would never guess that the most likely have had a hundred yards of cock up their arse and two miles of it up their pussy in the past.
Horror stories abound, but so do good ones.
::
I remember the number of ordinary woman North who were interested in me, while I lived near a small country town.
It would be relatively easy to fly to a place like chang rai, or chang mai, then select a town an hours drive away.
Live there a couple of weeks and chat alot to store woman, nurses, and /or any female in your path.
They might not hook per sa, but the common sense oppurtunity (no farangs about) to seduce you is iresistable.
One of the best memories I have Far better than Pattaya or Bangkok whoring, was a chemist girl in Phan that was a 10/10 and unbelievable attractive and 20 years younger than me, throwing herself at me, asking if I was in town long and could she have lunch in 20 minutes with me.
After 20 years and 2 marriages and 7 failed relationships there.
My advice to anyone looking for a prospect wife is to get a regular babe.
Often theyt already have a job, and dont cause sleepless nights.
The embassy guys havent so many reservations, the support is less required $$, and they are really dead set on the whole trip (marriage etc)
But bar girls are possible.

But eventually when my butterfly days end, it will be north that I go to live, sound in the knowledge its easy, and very real, to secure a realtionship and life, with a desirable nice "'ordinary woman"
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Posted on: 4:15 pm on Nov. 29, 2005
     

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