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bandit
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Laidback,
If you have never before been away from your family for such a long time without saying where you are going, I think that your task might be difficult.
Whatever you do, I would advise you not to say that you are off to BKK. In the eyes of many females, single males travelling to LOS are only going there for sex.
Why risking your marriage only to get laid a few times in LOS, I cannot see the point.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:55 am on Nov. 7, 2002
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PussyLover 69
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laidback,
I don't think it would be wise to implerment Bandit's suggestion. What if your wife check your passport after your return and find 'Bangkok, Thailand' stamped on your passport. How would you explain to her then ?
Regarding Chrisboy suggestuion it is quite ingenious but there is one drawback. He mentioned that you should tell your wife that you have won a lucky drwa for an all expeneses 10-days trip to Bangkok for ONE PERSON. Okay, what happen if you wife says that she would kie to come along and nag you to buy her a return air-ticket for her to accompany you ? After all, she can share the hotel room with her.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 9:22 am on Nov. 7, 2002
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X
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Can only speak for myself Laidback...
I could handle my S.O saying he needed to get away for a break or whatever... but I would need to know where he was. (as in hotel city country... not as in, every moment of the day). But on the other hand if I did the same with him (needed a break), he'd want to know the same details.
I don't think you should lie too blatantly.... I mean lying about being in Thailand. I just can't imagine my S.O pretending he was in Burma and really being in Thailand. I'd spot it a mile off.
Perhaps saying you are going to some outlying district of Thailand where it's really quiet and you have the space/time/tranquility you need to 'think things through'... yada yada yada... then going a day trip there, taking tons of pics and buying souveniers or what not from there, sending a post card postmarked from there... and spending the other 9 days in BKK. I'd most likely buy that.
I think a hell of lot of this depends on how ??? your wife is (can't find a better word than 'gullable'. sorry. I really don't mean it disrespectfully).
Plus don't forget things like caller I.D when you call her from BKK... or I.P addys from an email if you email her from BKK... or some programme being on TV showing whatever site in BKK and you blurting out, heck that's much bigger in real life than it is on TV.
I think what I am trying to say in a very very longwinded manner is: if you have to lie... stay as close to the truth as possible.
best of luck.. enjoy your trip!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:25 pm on Nov. 7, 2002
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ABC
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laidback:
Since it sounds like you are not able to inform your family of your trip without getting into trouble, my opinion is:
The risk of getting caught is not worth a trip to BKK.
** This is just an general opinion since I do not know all of your circumstances. **
Now .. others I am sure will disagree, but why potentially sacrifice what you have at home for 10 days or so-called pleasure. I mean so-called since pleasure is to be determined by the one it's happening too.
You will also have to come up with some "woping" story to cover all your basese.
An example would be .... I am not sure how your household fiances are set up, but if she has access to all the credit card statements, then that alone is a big problem Since many hotels require a credit card to stay there and will pre-charge the amount to make sure a guest can not skip town. Thus, she could randomly or by accident check and then you are S.O.L.
If you have to get away, then go to Las Vegas. Much easier to explain, but ofcourse more expensive.
But ..... if you must go to BKK, then I agree with "X's" comments. Stay as close to the truth as you can.
One more thing about going and not telling her. If you do decide to go, then take extra precautions regarding sex. I mean. You can not go home with something you never had before and what you wife does not have and explain that away very easily.
Good luck and I hope I did not "pee on your parade". Just my opinion.
Bkk is great, but if it might cost you your marriage, it's not that great and definitely not worth it!!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 5:33 pm on Nov. 7, 2002
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I think people have made the unwarranted assumption that Laidback is married and possibly has kids. It is possible, if not probable, that he was just referring to his parents and siblings when he said family. He does not want them looking down on him for his self-indulgence.
This is all now a hypothetical question, but ...
If you were married (and with kids) I agree it is ill advised to lie about which country you are visiting. You might be able to use a slight deception, like keeping it a secret that you went to Pattaya, but that's it.
First, it is grossly unfair to your wife and kids that they don't know your general whereabouts. In the case of an emergency (either yours or theirs) this information is crucial.
Second, such a blatant lie does neither of you any good. If you really are planning on leaving your wife you should be up front about it first. If you just want to go off and live a little bit, get the kind of wild adventures you don't get at home then that is a different thing. If it's the latter, be honest with your wife that you just want to travel by yourself and take a break from your hectic life. You don't need to tell her the details about your sexual exploits. If she loves you and wants to keep you (and vice versa) then she will not question you too much and try to trap you in a lie. Let her have the dignity of not knowing those details. If she is jealous and needs to know everything, then either you have to suffer with just her, or get a divorce.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 5:54 pm on Nov. 7, 2002
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sandiegon
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Laidback,
Why don't you hire me and tell my family that you need me to go to bkk with you for big IT project and I will do the same 
Another execuse is
tell your wife Osama was spotted shagging some thai girl in bkk and you want a go and hunt him down for $25 million reward so you can buy her a mercedez and rolex and big house in south hampton. Whatever method you use just let me know and I will do the same
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:53 pm on Nov. 7, 2002
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Kris
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Isn't it time laidback informed us whether he is married or not?
If he is, I think x has the right aproach. He has to stick as close as possible to the truth.
And ofcourse ABC is spot on with his comments. Is it worth the risk.
Kris
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:44 pm on Nov. 7, 2002
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oldhand
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First time I came to Bangkok was on a 3 day
convention in 1987 my wife at the time gave
me hell for the three months before I came and
six months after I got back. Years later when
I had the chance of a job here she refused to
move........................needless to say she stayed
and I started the best years of my life. So my
advice to you LAIDBACK is book your ticket
tell her where your going and if when you get
back from your 10 days you have not been
won over by Thailand you will have a stronger and
better relationship or like me you might start
your life again!
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:22 pm on Nov. 7, 2002
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Packripper
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*hands in prayer position*
'I'd like to first thank the lord for allowing me to stay a single and free man. And even though you might not appreciate it, (I think you really do), I'd like to offer this Red Fanta and bowl of oranges as a show of appreciation.'
amen.
;)
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 2:52 am on Nov. 10, 2002
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laidback
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Guys:
Thanks for the advice.
I am married and have one child.
I am going to do some thinking. But you know - after I read all this post on this board - I can't resist.
God! it seems like so much fun - every day sex - every day new girl - every day new fantacy. Wow!!!
You guys are SOOOOOO LUCKY.
I am thinking and will let you know what I am going to do. Even if I decide to go it will be in 2003.
If you have any new ideas please let me know.
Thanks
Laidback
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:29 am on Nov. 11, 2002
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