Thank's for all the comments about this. Then i was not informed well. Got a e-mail from a friend from switzerland he lived 15 years in Chiang Rai and told me he was almost laughing himself to dead when i asked him this question. Go to the beach and look for a diamond in the sand you will have more success. I think everybody is doing a little different when it comes into the midlife crisis.........! And the opposite and sexual dreams after and still beeing married since 12 years with a beautifull and very nice person and my best friend was this virgin story.... was! But the thinking gave me a good sanuk ......! So maybe I'm concentrating on almosts virgins........ to put it after to the agenda and live my life as it was the last 12 years and it's a good one. Thank's and I'm looking forward early july to go in the Land of Smile where i could take 4 days for myself with some friends from switzerland who live there. Poseidon also sounds good!!!!!!!!!!