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shark68
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...this is a man's world
but there wouldn't be nothing,nothing
not little thing without a woman or a girl... James Brown
shark68
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:32 am on Feb. 15, 2005
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yodsaker
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Even if Khun Lally and Mr17K walk away she has still scored some serious baht (enough for a really spiffy phone +++), more than she'd get in the rice field.
She might even have had an orgasm or two.
There are always more pla falang in the sea.
Important to remember, Thais live in the present.
Yes, she loves you/him here, now.
When you/he leaves she loves the next one she's with.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 12:37 pm on Feb. 15, 2005
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ftumch
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Quote: from bootydaddy5 on 8:06 pm on Feb. 15, 2005
How neive is this, please tell me there are none of you on the board doing this, it's so gulably pointless
I did. Sort of. Never again.
I know a TG who has a guy who comes over every couple of months. He has put her in a 60,000 a month apartment just off sukhumvit, bought her a beauty salon in a prime location, and a small bar. When he is not here she f***s around with other farangs plus she has a gik, a young thai boy (who the farang thinks is just her "friend"). Oh plus an expensive SUV.
And she is no picture.
You figure it out cause I can't. Except to say if you haven't been there you cannot appreciate how easy it is to get sucked into these things.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:11 pm on Feb. 15, 2005
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DaffyDuck
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Seems pretty obvious that Mr17K is the only one that's a real idiot in all of this - someone should clue him in.
Dr. von Quack!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 3:17 pm on Feb. 15, 2005
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Baquawn
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Sponsoring is not the sole domain of of Bar Girls, Freelancers, or other girls in the P4P Biz. "Regular" girls can work their deals also.
On a month long BKK trip I met a girl at Q bar, and wound up living at her and her friends four floor apartment for a few weeks. These girls all worked at high end stores like Gucci, and Channel. They worked, partied (Hard), and had lots of "Guy Friends" or "Pseudo Boyfriends" who would take care of them with some extra sympathy money for whatever sob story they could make up. I got to witness their tangled webs first hand.
Their system would be easy to work since most of these guys were never in town at the same time.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 3:42 pm on Feb. 15, 2005
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thailife
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ah... to sponser a girl.... only do this if you are serious with her (going to marry) otherwise, forget it. Even when you marry you will still have to pay.... that part never ends because part of the money ends up with the family. She will want security. It is ok to take care of a girl if you have plans to deepen the relationship but to just give a girl money so you can have her when you come to town is nuts and to think she will remain faithfull to you while you are away is even nuttier.
I have been married to a Thai girl for almost 2 years. It has it's ups and downs but as I became part of her friends inner circle the reality of what really is going on in terms of which girls get money from who, who they are f***in g, who they are seeingon the side.... if you are not serious about a girl (marry) and the girl doesn't see much of a future in you, you might as well forget about it.
You first test: Tell her you want her to go home to the village. If she goes and you can verfiy she is staying there, good start (unless she has a thai guy in the village she is doing, but that is another issue)
Second test: see if she seperates from her old friends.... see if she stops talking to them on her own... if she loves you she will gravitate away form the scene and her old friends... happens every time. she has nothing in common with them anymore..... if she wants to keep going out with you to bars, seeing her old friends, etc., you are taking the risk of a slip back into her old self...... my wife doesn't go out with me at night, she wants to stay home and watch tv with me, go out to dinner, etc, but we are usually home by 9 or 10 at night. She wants nothing to do with the old life and her old friends... it took some time, but just like a woman anywhere in the world, she will want to start to build a life with you. If all she wants to do is go out and party, well, you get what you get.....
Third test: She quits drinking because she knows it isn't good for her..... now, I don't exactly agree with this, but once again, do you want a GF or wife that goes out and gets sloshed, or do you want to build a stable relationship? It is hard enough considering the culture, etc., so I have always looked at it form the viewpoint that I want to reduce the risk of anyhting screwing up. She quit drinking on her own without any word form me. Not 100%, but it is a 180 from where it once was.
Fourth test: You become an equal I her family. ok, ok, I klnow a lot of people will say this can't happen, so maybe not 100%, but accepted even if you don't have money. I went through a rough time a few years ago and (she was a GF then) she said 'no problem, you come to live with us in village, we have rice to eat, we will be ok, not need money'.. she was dead serious. it wasn't about money anymore, she and the family actually accepte dme into thei lives.... a lot more to this story, but I still find this interesting....
Fifith test: if her sister is a virgin and she offers her up to you...... well, ok, her sister is a virgin and I would like to break her in, but just wishfull thinking on my part... never will happen.....
so I guess what I am saying after all this is that if you build a relationship and the girl sees a future in you you have a chance.. small chance that it will work. A woman is a woman anywher ein the world.... they need 2 things, security and love. Give them both and you might just make it. of course you can never be 100% certain about faithfullness but hell, why not take the shot, you just might find a girl that blows your mind.....
for me, I have never been happier......
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:47 pm on Feb. 15, 2005
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Ballsburstin
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thailife,
all good points. It was a little easier for me because my TGF never drank much or smoked, or did drugs. Booze always gave her bad headaches, so mai sanuuk, lol!
My TGF drops in on her old place of employment once in a while, but usually leaves around 6 pm when the doors open for business. She says she gets bored there now, since all the girls want to do is talk about their customers, and she's finding she doesn't have much in common with them in that regard anymore. I know most of the ladies at that place, so I don't see any of that as a threat to our relationship. I let her do what she thinks she needs to do in that regard; it is, after all, part of her past.
You have to fill up her life with something else, or she won't have much reason to stay with you. Being alone and bored is also mai sunuuk, so even if she loves you and feels secure (to some extent), being absent too much doesn't work.
My TGF is (after 2.5 years) finally finishing high school and should be taking her G.E.D. test in two weeks. It's been a long stretch, and not without bumps. She and I are passing our 3 year "anniversary" next week, and in some ways, I'd say our future is still unsure. She will now have time to think about what she wants post-bar scene, and post-high school. As she always says, "I cannot see future," so the next few months will be interesting...
- Balls
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:51 pm on Feb. 15, 2005
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Abrak
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Quote: from Ballsburstin on 6:45 am on Feb. 16, 2005
My TGF is (after 2.5 years) finally finishing high school....
Quote: from thailife on 4:41 am on Feb. 16, 2005
Fifith test: if her sister is a virgin and she offers her up to you......
Note to myself.... if I ever have a relationship problem, btf is probably not the best place to come to discuss it.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 8:50 pm on Feb. 15, 2005
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scobie
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I can't confirm for sure that she is gettng 200k from Khun Lally, but I've heard the figure mentioned so many times that I believe it. For sure, she's in a swanky apartment in Asoke, recently bought a brand new laptop, has a 16000 mobile phone (upgraded from a perfectly good high end phone a few weeks ago) and wears genuine brand name gear.
She always looks immaculately turned out. My GF says she sends 40000 to her family every month and saves 50000-60000 each month also.
I don't know if Khun Lally knows about Mr 17 or not. I very much doubt it. Noone would be that stupid and I think that's why Nong is getting so nervous about him spending so much time here this year.
I've never met Khun Lally but will no doubt be invited to dinner with him. I'm told he's short and fat, but jai dee. Yeah, right.
Funny thing is, Nong is no oil-painting herself.
Love is a many splendoured thing.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:26 am on Feb. 16, 2005
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