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pinga
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Never crossed the path with a B-girl/GG-girl/Hi So disco/TG-freelancer requesting me to pay up-front.
I always pay at the end of the session/day and I thought it was almost a feature in all the Thai darlings....hmmmm
It was maybe a coincidence but I was requested only by the Russian cuties to pay the agreed lump sum just few minutes after I stepped in the hotel room....
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:30 am on Jan. 24, 2003
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blade
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with BGs i always pay after (since we have already acquianted w/ each other upto some degree) while
FLs usually ask payment upfront which i do not mind
at all.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 12:56 am on Jan. 24, 2003
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MrJoe
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B4B:
Actually as far as I'm concerned it's the girls who set the price. Do you think it's the guys? Why? It's her body, she can decide what it costs to rent it.
If I ask beforehand how much and it's too expensive then I just say "no thanks" and move on. IF I haven't asked and then find out her fee is too expensive for me then it's my fault for not finding out beforehand -- and like I said if it's not too extreme I pay it.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:06 am on Jan. 24, 2003
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MrJoe
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B4B,
I just re-read your post (because I admit it was bugging me) and I realize I don't think I agree with it at all. How is it that YOU decide what is "the right price for her"? How is that "she should accept it" just because you say so?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 2:35 am on Jan. 24, 2003
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pinga
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B4B,
"....Cause thats what I feel is the right price for her. Hey I am sure if a guy offered her 10000b she would take it But thats not the point. The point is 1500 is a fair price and she should accept it. After all which side makes the Prices the girls or the guys????
Don't agree with this comment. In fact, the girl is the one who sets the price. It is up to you to take her or to try another girl....
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 2:58 am on Jan. 24, 2003
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bkkz
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The price for the service varies depending on where you pick them up. If you got a girl from Spasso, you'd be looking at 4,000B - 6,000B. A girl from CM2 may ask for 3,000B - 5,000B for the all nighter. And a girl at the Grace Hotel Coffee shop could ask for 1,000B - 2,000B.
If the girl feels that what you have given is too little, just increase it by 500 B first until you see a smile. 
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:39 am on Jan. 24, 2003
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Skip
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Though I have not read this entire thread I would like to offer an option which insinuated itself into my head between my first trip, in Oct. and the second trip over the X-mas 2002-newYear 2003 holiday season.
This forum has taught me a great deal since it's discovery by myself in Sept.02 and by reading up it allowed me to venture further, find greater happiness, waste less time (non actually) and return home with virtually no regrets whatsoever. I journeyed far more extensively into the delights of Bangkok and the Thai P4P experience in my first trip of 9 days than I could had I not read the forum prior to leaving.
I am very grateful to all those who've contributed to our collective wisdom here (acrimony and all), but in between trips, and while continuing to read the forum a thought occured to me that I decided to try on my second, and which I imagined might be very successful indeed. Given the endearing nature and sweet dispositions of the average bar-girls and free-lancers that I'd become familiar with in my first foray into the scene I resolved on the second trip to make it a point to NEVER discuss money upfront with a girl I'd chosen. Never, not at all. I was curious if it would be amenable to the ladies but also came to the conclusion that it could set the tone for a far more favorable tone of our trysts and was thus worth the effort to at least 'study'.
Was I right? Did it work? Was it successful? Did the ladies thwart my plans by bringing up the 'money card' before we made it to the room? Yes, yes, yes and almost without failure, no. But why bother? Because Iwanted to keep it humane, 'real' and was of the mind that this ideal illusion of the temporary GFE that we buy into for our cherished 2-72 hrs of joy would be compromised, were we to at first define it, collateralize it essentially, by making it into a 'transaction' from the start. Why prejudice this unneccessarily so If I didn't have to? Why indeed. Did I 'see' a difference? Yes, I think it worked extremely well, and of perhaps nine women I entertained only the first who was pulled out of a traditional massage establishment named her price upfront. Other than that the only other time money was discusssed upfront (by them) was in CM2 with a girl who I'd met in front of the Ambassador beer garden and her only mention, once it was finalized that yes, she would accompany me back to the hotel was a simple, "In the morning you will give me some money. Yes, please?" Honestly, it was as quick, candid AND vague as that.
The performances and experiences varied widely (YMMV) as did my morning tips all the way from 1000baht 3000baht. What I gave was based far more on how we clicked and related than the actual performances, however and in all cases it always 'seemed' right, and kept things personal, as opposed to businesslike. Not once did I hear a complaint or challenge to the matter as it was settled, but I also, in almost all cases, slipped the cash casually in their pokets or purses in the morning.
Lesson learned: Keeping the money talk out of the dialog upfront keeps us all far more human and 'real', and in the end, if we're honest with ourselves, and not cheap charlies, and show them our respect we'll both go away happy people.
In hindsight, I should add that I tried this on free-lancers primarily and took out no go-go girls per se. So try keeping the money talk OUT of it, you might be very pleased by your results.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:05 am on Jan. 24, 2003
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MrJoe
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Well not everyone necessarily wants the GFE. Some just want straight ahead sex. As a matter of fact, I personally never ask first for the same exact reasons as Skip mentions and I think he gives some good advice --EXCEPT:
If one doesn't ask and has the misfortune to wind up with a girl who asks for more than what you intended to pay, you have little choice but to pay it or try to work it out w/ the girl. So given that, if some people have rigid ideas about how much is the most they are willing to pay -- it might be best to ascertain first that your maximum meets her minimum.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:40 am on Jan. 24, 2003
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ringthebells
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hi all.
hi all.
I think that 1500 per day is fair and enough. pay at the end unless she asks for some expense casch (maybe a thousand) upfront. pay for food. if you like her, give her a tip.
plus the barfine, if she is BG.
but discuss the arrangments before you go for it
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 5:04 am on Jan. 24, 2003
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BoomARang
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For what it may or may not be worth,,,
From the girls' perspective, at least the ones I am friends with, Skip is their kind of customer! None of them are, or even could become "hardcore" and they don't especially like having the money aspect highlighted either. All have said they enjoy their time more if it can feel more like a date.
But, each of them have said that there have been times when they haven't gotten as much as they would have hoped for and didn't even consider asking for more just as some guys might find other women asking for more than they were prepared to pay so it maybe averages out.
But, these are all women who never go ST and prefer longer GFE times if possible.
On the other hand, if one is only in it for the ST or even LT without "all the hassles", agreeing before hand may be better as it will help to let the girl know what is expected, straight sex or GFE.
So, to make a "short" story just a little bit longer, if going for the GFE, after is better.
Your mileage may vary all over the map which would then bring BK's suggestion into play, which is a great suggestion, btw.
Ichi
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:56 am on Jan. 24, 2003
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