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Recoil111
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Hello Brothers!
My "TGF" asked me for the first time for money (10000 Baht).
I knew her since october last year. My second trip to BKK was in december last year. We had a great time together. My next trip is in february for 16 days. I wanted to spend the whole time with her (including a trip to the upcountry to her family).
But this night I called her and she ask for money. But I dont want to be a sponsor!
What should I do? Pay her the money or fly to BKK and find some other girls? Is there a possibility to find a girl who likes to come with me to pattaya (because I already booked a hotel?) I must pay 1500 Baht barfine for my TGF per day!
Ok, when I decide to lose her, here is my problem: she knows in which hotels I stay and also the flight I arrived, because she wanted to pick me up from the airport. I also booked the hotels with her name beside my name. What can I do?
Thanks for your answers!
I know I am really a newbie!!!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:24 pm on Jan. 17, 2005
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derman53
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DO NOT SPONSOR. Read some of my posts about Fao. Your TG may have multiple sponsors and you are just filling her coffers. If she truly loves you she'll be there when you refuse to send her money. If she's not then you'll know.
Derman
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 5:40 pm on Jan. 17, 2005
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LiamOZ
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1500 baht per day barfine! 1500 baht per day bafine! I think that's reason enough to speak to the bar or look elsewhere.
How much do you give her a day for herself. Maybe I misunderstand and this is part of the 10,000 - in which case I think 1,000 per day plus expenses is o.k.
Good Luck,
Liam
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:42 pm on Jan. 17, 2005
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ColoradoGuy
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Quote: from Recoil111 on 4:18 pm on Jan. 17, 2005
My next trip is in february for 16 days. I wanted to spend the whole time with her (including a trip to the upcountry to her family).
But this night I called her and she ask for money. But I dont want to be a sponsor!... What should I do? Pay her the money or fly to BKK and find some other girls?
I think you are assuming that you have only two choices: give her the sponsorship money or break off your "relationship". This is probably not true. Why couldn't you tell her you like her very much and want to be with her, but you cannot give her sponsorship money?
I was once told something like the following from a fellow member here: "I never win the lottery. Why? Because I never buy a ticket. If you don't buy a ticket, you will not win the lottery. If the girl never ASKS you for sponsorship money, she will never get it. Don't hate her for asking".
Why can't you take her away as planned, but not give her sponsorship money? Why can't you contine to have the GFE with her, you've enjoyed it up to this time (you even call her your TGF!) and it is her job, she must be good at it.
If you want to dump her, you can:
1. Lie through your teeth about your whereabouts and plans (tell her you are not coming, then sneak around)
2. Tell her the whole truth (you are coming, but do not want anything more to do with her because she is greedy and asked you for money)
3. Give her only limited information, be vague.
I've done all three, #3 works the best.
Finally, if you do not want to talk to her after you arrive, do not give her your number. If she already has it, get a new SIM chip.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 6:10 pm on Jan. 17, 2005
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poskat
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A BG I spent a bit of time with and email with recently asked me for money as well. I told her I love to take care of her when i'm in Thailand but when I'm not I can't. Her reply to me was that she was glad that I answered her and didn't break contact beacause of her asking for money. And when was I cumming back to LOS!!
So don't feel you are hemmed in here or that you know what her response will be.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:48 pm on Jan. 17, 2005
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Isee
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Is 10,000 baht the "magical figure" for these girls?? One girl I was keeping contact with for a while would always ask for 10,000 baht regardless of what the "reason" was for the money. Eg:
1. I not work, need money for rent etc - need 10,000 baht;
2. PaPa is sick, must go home to look after - need 10,000 baht;
3. I'm bored, no TV, you buy me TV - need 10,000 baht.....
After a while, I started to "notice" a pattern.....lol
CG's advice is spot on....tell her no money to send. If she gets upset, tell her you guess that she doesn't want to be with you when you come over.....and that "you understand". She will be there for you.
If you do "butterfly" and go to Pattaya, get a local girl.....why BYO??? I'm almost 100% sure that there will be at least 1 girl that will take your fancy.
Also, ALWAYS be vague concerning your plans.....put it down to work or whatever, as to why you can't be more specific.
Agree, don't blame her for trying.....only judge her after you say no to her....
Cheers
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:07 pm on Jan. 17, 2005
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tourist
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The barfine is 1500 baht per day? This sounds fishy. You know even if you keep her away from the bar for several days you only pay 1 bar fine per day whatever that is 500 or 600 baht, right? Please explain why the barfine is 1500 baht?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:12 pm on Jan. 17, 2005
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ColoradoGuy
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Quote: from tourist on 7:06 pm on Jan. 17, 2005
The barfine is 1500 baht per day? This sounds fishy.
Many (most) barfines on Soi 33 Bangkok are 1500/baht per day.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:17 pm on Jan. 17, 2005
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ringthebells
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would not bring a girl to pattaya. you wouldnt bring a sandwich to the buffet, would you??
great advice from the resident butterflies.
rtb
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 10:26 pm on Jan. 17, 2005
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dotcom
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In the places I go bar fines are 300 to 400 per day. Why in hell take a girl to Pattaya? They got plenty of good (& cheaper ones) already down there.
You get hit with sensory overload because you want to f*** every one of them.
1500 a day (bar fine) is over the top.
If she bothers to chase you down talk real world prices with her. No bar fine & 2000 baht a day for herself.
If she is not happy with that look for greener pastures. Personally I think that the only way sponsorship makes sense is if you live here & can drill that shit on a regular basis.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:34 pm on Jan. 17, 2005
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