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allan1710
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I am going to my first trip alone to Bangkok and will be staying for 14 days.
Im a shy person of nature and has thinking a lot on how to get in contact with the girls the right way.
im afraid that after the contact is made, I will stand there like a frozen idiot.
Anyone with the same problem ? or am I the only one ?
will my shyness scare them off?
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:32 am on Feb. 13, 2005
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macaler
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They may eat you alive!!
Actually.. the shy approach works well,,, Just dont be freezing up! It will be the ruin of you..
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 2:44 am on Feb. 13, 2005
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cyborg
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Allan, You need to clarify something here...this is your first trip to BKK by yourself?? What does that mean?..been elsewhere in LOS?..Been to BKK with others?..
For this post I will assume that you are trying to say this will be your first ever trip to LOS.
SO....basically do not worry about meeting a woman...they will be all over you. The problems you will have will be similar to ones I have experienced myself in the past cuz I too am a bit shy.
Prob #1, You will go with the first lady that grabs you and drags you into her bar and tells you that you are sexy,hansoom...etc. Being a shy guy you will be so happy that she has made the first move and is not shy...you will feel relieved and agree to go with her.
BIG MISTAKE!!!! She is a jaded whore and will take advantage of your newbiness.....stay clear of the overly aggressive ones....they spell trouble.
Instead you will be better off getting past those overly aggressive ones and with a simple "Come here" wave of your hand after some eye contact the lady that you like the looks of will be happy to come and take advantage of you....err...I mean...come talk with you. If need be, use the aggressive one to help you get the lady you want....tell her you will buy her ONE drink if she introduces you to that cute one over there...after the ice is broken with Miss Nice...eject the aggressive bitch.
Prob#2, Getting what you want in the bedroom. If you are too shy to talk with the lady about EXACTLY what you want in the bedroom....you wont get it. If you are too nice...too gentlemanly to talk about "dirty things" you want to do in the bedroom the lady may well do the minimum only. For a newbie I would generally recommend that you discuss everything and you both understand what you are agreeing to before you get to the room.
How can she take advantage of you??? Read this forum for many stories...the issues range from outright theft of money and property to simple non performance. At least if it has all been discussed before hand you know what to expect performance wise....
As a general tip I recommend that you tell the lady you are shy...if she is one of the good ones (Most are) she will take the lead and see to it you are happy-happy!
After a few trips you will get over this shy crap real quick...also I advise that you dive in right away....I would hate to hear that you spent 10 of your 14 days in LOS gettin in the groove and then 4 days living it up.
AAAAAHHHhhhh....to be a newbie again!! 
Cyborg
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:16 am on Feb. 13, 2005
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Isee
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If you are shy and looking for a woman (or two) to take the initiative....go to Edens.....if you still find you are shy after that...go again.
A lot of girls will come out and just say that they think you are shy, or they will misinterpret you and think that you don't like them. I'm not really one for "groping" a girl right there and then. Sometimes they think I'm not interested in them because I'm not groping them - so I usually rub their leg or do some other minor physical contact.
I think that just because you are shy doesn't mean you will be weak willed. If you know what to look out for, telling them you are shy shouldn't be a big problem.
You probably should go with a more mature girl like 25+ as there is no point in having 2 shy people in the one bed.
Also, just see about hooking up with other members when you arrive and they might be able to give you some pointers on the spot.
PS: I wonder if BG's get together and talk about their starfish experiences???? 5555
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 4:04 am on Feb. 13, 2005
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cyborg
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QUote Isee:
PS: I wonder if BG's get together and talk about their starfish experiences???? 5555
5555...you mean they are talking about me?? But I wear tennis shoes everyday??
Cyborg
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:07 am on Feb. 13, 2005
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hypershade
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Im a shy person of nature and has thinking a lot on how to get in contact with the girls the right way.
Drop me a line when you arrive. I'll introduce you to some girls who will take matters in their own hands.
And then there is always Eden (and similar places) : tell the papasan what you want, he will tell the girls and you don’t have to do anything but lay back and enjoy.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:25 am on Feb. 13, 2005
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Triyclops
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f*** it! Just go to the Eden Club...
EDENEDENEDENEDENEDENEDENEDENEDENEDEN
EDENEDENEDENEDENEDENEDENEDENEDENEDEN
EDENEDENEDENEDENEDENEDENEDENEDENEDEN
EDENEDENEDENEDENEDEN.....
Or if you want a nice quiet beer with a few nice respectable girls. Visit Fannies in Soi Cowboy...
TC
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:29 am on Feb. 13, 2005
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hypershade
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PS: I wonder if BG's get together and talk about their starfish experiences???? 5555
You can bet your ass they do. Women are worse then men when it comes to stuff like that.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:34 am on Feb. 13, 2005
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allan1710
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Oh wow
Great service from your guys - this was a great help - thanx 
And hypershade - I will be honored if you could make a spin to your favorites together with me
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 6:47 am on Feb. 13, 2005
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Richie H
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Allan1710
Hey there! You and I were in the same boat when I first went there....I am shy by character and the first time I went there I felt just like you!!! Well...7 trips later....I am VERY comfortable!! The Bros gave good advice on where to go, etc... after a few trips to a beer bar, massage place, etc... it will just cum natural for you....don't worry Bro and have a good time!!
One thing I did to get started was to go to a smaller bar during the day (Golden Bar just outside of Nana or Busstop)......I just sat there, ordered a beer and a girl will just come to you......I recall even telling the first girl that sat next to me how shy I was (at that time)...she smiled and encouraged me not to worry.
Good luck Bro and have a great time!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:17 pm on Feb. 13, 2005
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