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NicFrenchy
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Not that I have a lot of Experience in LOS (far from it Actually) I would like to raise a question that has been bothering me for a week now....
I have already had 3 very Good Experiences in LOS (2 in Bkk and 1 in Samui) and now was thinking :
I would like to go back to these places again but I do not want to be disappointed (I know it's a hit or miss but..) what to do?
Do I choose a new TG? or do I stick with the one I had the First Time (and maybe get better service?) ?
I know that there is no real answer to this question as we are all different but could you tell me what your experience is with this?
"If I go back to 1 place and take another TG, will the Other one I had before get upset? (I would not want that as I will probably take her again...) ???"
Thanks for helping
Frenchy
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:19 pm on April 11, 2005
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LiamOZ
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Frenchy,
For what it's worth, I don't feel right when I take another girl from same bar after I have taken another from there LT. If you like a bar's atmosphere, get along there, and have become a regular I think it tends to ruin your personal comfort level there when you know your previous BG may have lost face.
My very first TBG & I had a standing arrangement - first & last tour night with her, butterfly in between - BUT not with her workmates in her bar.
She was very definite on this and very concerned when a mate of mine tried to set me up with one of her workmates.
Strangely enough she was just fine with two of my butterfly BG's from nearby bars, and it was o.k. to drop by with them. However, I think she saved face by telling her workmates of the arrangement.
Since there are many fine BG prospects, and friendly bars I don't think you have a problem making similar arrangements if it suits you - trick is to be up front, but don't make them lose face.
Cheers,
Liam
Sorry Frenchy, I now realise you are talking about MP's (had a hard night). The dynamic might be quite different at MP's.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 8:56 pm on April 11, 2005
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dagul
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In my experiences, a lot of the TGs I have come across tend to be be quite possessive and/or jealous, especially when the TGE has been in effect...
If you know her friends/acquaintances you could possibly put her a position where she could "lose face", which seems to be a really big thing in the LOS.
Who knows, it all depends on who you're dealing with... If you've been gone long enough, maybe she has forgotten you, moved, and/or has a new boyfriend... I don't know because you haven't told us any details as to the extent of your relationship.
As long as you haven't made any promises, which I am sooo guilty of doing on previous trips, you should be fine. Don't let this girl dictate your trip. Just don't sh*t in her face while your having your fun.
chok dee
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:10 pm on April 11, 2005
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BigDUSA
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Unless you stayed with these MP girls for fair amount of time I would be surprised with the large number of customers they go thru that they would remember you.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 9:49 pm on April 11, 2005
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NicFrenchy
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Quote: from BigDUSA on 9:43 am on April 12, 2005
Unless you stayed with these MP girls for fair amount of time I would be surprised with the large number of customers they go thru that they would remember you.
That's what I think also...I do not want them to lose face, but I also Like Variety....
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:41 am on April 12, 2005
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BlueHawaii
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I was wondering the same thing, but about a go-go girl which Liam already addressed. In my case, I was dumb enough to fall for a BG against all cautions on this forum. When I got home and e-mailed her telling her how I felt, she was nice enough to tell me she had a Thai boyfriend and apologized. I was interested in another girl in her bar (and like variety too) and was pondering what to do.
This "face" thing is cultural and I can't relate. I think honesty is the best policy. I intend to go back and ask her directly if she minds if I take out another girl from her bar. I still what her friendship, and may still take her ST. For MPs, not sure how you are going to get to talk to her. I think you need to get the opinion of someone who is truly Thai. Perhaps when you get there, go to another MP 1st and ask another girl.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:37 pm on April 14, 2005
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ABC
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Quote: from NicFrenchy on 5:13 pm on April 12, 2005
Do I choose a new TG? or do I stick with the one I had the First Time (and maybe get better service?) ?
I know that there is no real answer to this question as we are all different but could you tell me what your experience is with this?
"If I go back to 1 place and take another TG, will the Other one I had before get upset? (I would not want that as I will probably take her again...) ???"
IMO:
The easiest answer is that "it is your $$$ so you can pay for or do with it as you please." So, if you want to chose another female to do so. I do not think it will have any effect on the service you receive.
With that being said, of course the original tg that serviced you would like for you to be a repeat customer if you tipped well and she was confortable with you. Unless, she has tons of clients, then I really don't think it matters. Since it's the $$$ is the bottom line.
Also, because you are talkin' about the MP venue, it's a turn and burn type of atmosphere. You get your 90 minutes and then she moves on.
Of course there are always exceptions to any rule and she might really like you, ect.
OH... and just because you had a good experience with her once or twice does not guarantee that the next time will be just as good. Maybe she'll be tired or had a bad day.
If you want to try something or someone new,then I suggest you do so. YOu can always go back to the other female if you want. Of course, as long as she's available!! ha ha ha!!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:11 pm on April 15, 2005
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LastSurvivor
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I spent several days with a young lady during my Sept '04 adventures in LOS. We had a great time together and I sent her an SMS when I arrived in Feb '05 to see if she was available. Yes was the answer and she would meet me at the hotel after her shift at 1am. Met her outside the hotel and everything went downhill from there. I know there are two reasons this could have happened and I suspect the first.
This little lady works on Soi Cowboy at Suzy Wongs. Toward the end of my trip and after I had spent several nights with SW girl I went to Sheba's across the street which is a sister bar to Suzy Wong's. She was always in the bar dancing on stage when not working at Suzy Wong's. So, stupid me picks a girl who seemed like a lot of fun and paid her BF. We get to the room and I have a change of heart. Just did not do anything for me after I got her out in the light. Attitude, looks....something, not sure what. Anyway gave her a bit of money and told her I had changed my mind. She stood at my door and cried for 30 minutes before I could get her to take the money and leave. Pretty sure that got back to SW girl. I believe she was mad at me for hurting her friends feelings or for being a butterfly. Either way I slept alone that first night. The other thought is that I called her on her age which amazingly was 2 years younger than when I met her the year before. She had told me in '04 that she was 22 and then when we met in '05 she said she was turning 20 the following week. Bottom line I did something wrong because she will barely talk to me now. Oh well, NEXT lady please.
LS
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:17 pm on April 15, 2005
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splatter
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Well, another idea, MP or bar, if you liked a girl and are trying to decide whether to see or again, battling with the urge to have new expiriences, especially if you get to know her some over the course or a week or multiple trips, ask her if she has a friend that would like to join the two of you.
On my first trip I met a girl in a bar that I decided I liked more than most. After several nights with her, I started trying to figure out how to get some time away from her, cause she would stay the night, the next morning, and seem to want to spend the next night too. I wanted her to stay, but wanted to "get around" and kinda started hinting at this a little bit. After a little bit of this we were back at the bar she worked at, and she asked if I wanted her friend too. So, I was honest......
Since then, I've been with at least a half dozen of her friends (with her, sometimes some girl-girl, sometimes not), and have never been let down. There are some girls at the bar she works at that when she sees me looking she tells me that girl is not good, and I've decided to trust her on it. All the girls that she tells me are good have been.
And the whole saving face thing doesn't seem to be much of an issue. I am kinda carefull of not making a bad joke that could be seen as insulting. I am also not cheap with her friends, but very equal with them (I know they talk about that). And her friends are also there only for a short time, they leave and I go to sleep with her.
Maybe this is pratically impossible with most, and I lucked out. But I don't think so. It took a little time, a little extra effort, being nice, a little generosity, not being overly generous, but kind and respectfull, which you should always be anyways.
And in the MP, if you like her, more than most, ask her to meet you after work, she probably will. Asking her to bring a friend the first time might be pushing it.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:38 pm on April 28, 2005
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harold444
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seems to me being a repeat customer in a mp or gogo bar is no big deal, just remember it is no guarantee of success. after the 4th or 5th time I think the girl starts taking you for granted (currently experienced this)
the excitement of a new thing wears off pretty quickly.
remember most of the girls see us as just customers.
as a matter of fact I see many of us as just customers....hehehe
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:48 am on May 19, 2005
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