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Badboy
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I just spent a few days in Bangkok. This was my second trip, but my first alon, and on the town. I used a lot of what I read here - so thanks to all these who share there experences with me.
I am not going to do a field report as I dont see that they would be entertaning, and also I am dyslexic (unlike a certain person who once claimed to be - any dyslexic can tell the difference between a bad speller, a careless typer, and a dyslexic), and writting is hard for me, and I need too check through what I type over and over.
I met with many girls. not that many - maybe 5 or 6. One I realy liked. I staied with her for many days. She gave a very good GFE. Here is my problem - I like her. I dont Love her, I dont want to love her, but I like her and want to see her again. I have not told her I loved her, even though she asked me too, or at least she asked me if I did love her. She is texting me now a few times and she wants to see me again. I will be back in LOS in a maybe six months, maybe longer. I would see her again when I go back - but I dont want to have contact with her between now and then as I dont want to end up that I find myself thinking of her all the time.
Is there an easy way of me to say to her - When I am in LOS, I like being with you - not all the time, but a lot of the time, but when I am not there, I dont want to be texting you and I dont want you to be texting me. I could just lie and tell her it is too hard for me to think of her when I dont see her, but its not that its that I dont see the point of wasteing time thinking of what is not here. Do I need to be brutally honest or should I make it easy for her.
She seems like and unseasoned pro, but one wheo knowes the score at least a bit. So I think if I ma honest and tell her it like it is that she will be fine with it. I just dont know and understand much about saving face and so on, and therfore want not to cawse problems for when I see her again. Also I dont want to just ignore the txts as I do want to see her again.
I think I have checked this well, but sorry for any spelling mistakes. Thanks for the advice.
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Posted on: 11:18 am on June 27, 2004
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BIG BEEFA
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Just tell her that she is your no.1 girl and also tell her that you are a butterfly and want to see other girls when you go back, as far as text messages go, just be honest with her, it's always the best as then she knows where you stand.
Beefa
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Posted on: 11:52 am on June 27, 2004
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BigDUSA
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If it was me, I would tell her I will see her when I get back to BKK and I will only message her once a month. She most likely will not believe that you are coming back until she sees you in person.
The BG do tend to treat you differently when you are a repeat CUSTOMER, remember you still are a CUSTOMER.
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Posted on: 12:52 pm on June 27, 2004
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Kaymanx
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I tend to think that it would be a good idea to keep the SMS going at least once in a while -- say once a week -- then taper off gradually, yet not cutting off the SMS totally. BGs -- despite your being after all a customer -- just like to feel and believe that they have a few steady friendships going with select cutomers who call them and think of them even back home. It adds to their sense of self esteem and would make them more committed to you when you do return.
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Posted on: 1:44 pm on June 27, 2004
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Montydog
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I agree with Kaymax on the friendship thing.
It dont hurt to be nice
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Posted on: 3:37 pm on June 27, 2004
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koolbreez
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Just tell her your married, and if the wife reads any emails from her, you won't be able to come back to LOS to see her...........lol.
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Posted on: 4:15 pm on June 27, 2004
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Badboy
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Quote: from koolbreez on 9:15 pm on June 27, 2004
Just tell her your married, and if the wife reads any emails from her, you won't be able to come back to LOS to see her...........lol.
Thanks for the advice, if I wanted to lie it would work - but I have already told her im not married, and if I wanted to lie, I could come up with several greta excuses without even thinking
As for the rest of the advice from you guys - Thanks. I have already told her I butterfly. So she knows that. Will take the other stuff on board
Thanks
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Posted on: 5:31 pm on June 27, 2004
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issanking
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man tell her your as good with relationships as you are with spelling, she will get the point na
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Posted on: 8:26 pm on June 27, 2004
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Badboy
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Quote: from issanking on 1:26 am on June 28, 2004
man tell her your as good with relationships as you are with spelling, she will get the point na
555 bloody funny guy.
You'r the type who mock amputees as well I bet. You aint 'alf funny guv
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Posted on: 9:14 pm on June 27, 2004
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JHolmesJr
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I have a similar sounding problem to yours badboy.
Know a great girl who keeps texting me as well...miss you, what you do, when you come back..no love sh_t so far, and for that Im grateful...because even though I dont love her, I wouldnt mind shagging her again. hehehe but not again and again.
I know if I go back and see her I wont find it easy to tell her to go so I can fvck around. I'll probably be stuck with her for the duration of my stay which would be a colossal waste of opportunity.
On the other hand I could just not call her and if she sees me I have to tell her no politely. But then she wil hate my guts.
Whoever said whoring was easy?
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Posted on: 10:05 pm on June 27, 2004
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