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jugglinjim
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Here's the scoop. About a month ago, I spent a week in BKK; my virgin visit!... went to Pattaya too. I met several women and had a great time.  Since that time, a couple of TG's and I have been emailing back-n-forth as well as talking on 'skype'. One of them--incidently--sent me the wrong email and I posted it on the forum... oops... I will call her dumbass or DA for short. The other one (called Suki Me Dai), who I really like, talks with me every night... until, I received an email yesterday saying that she will not be available to talk until Tuesday.
Furthermore, Suki Me Dai has given me the phone number to her "new" cell phone and will NOT allow me to send her any gifts from abroad; such as Victoria's Secret lingerie or other sh_t that is not available in the LOS. She even said that she will NOT accept money from me to pay for the Internet 'skype' conversations which sometimes last for a couple of hours!  DA has also said that she does NOT want any money too!... AND both of these women have said that when I return in January, "they will take me out and pay"!!! 
Now, I lived in the Philippines for two years as a volunteer teacher. I like to think that I know and understand (and sometimes pity) these working women; I also treat them like the ladies that they are and not pieces-of-sh_t. However, after many emails and discussions about the weather, I get bored.
The question (s) for this forum is this; Is it okay to 'pry' into their personal lives? Even though this means asking them to share their experiences with other men? Such as, "Suki Me, who bought you the cell phone?" "DA... is the guy--who you mistakenly sent me his email and 'love'--sending you a lot of money?" Etc...
I do not have a hidden agenda with these questions in as much as just wanting to become more of a friend to these women. This is--for the most part--all of the current events that they can talk about (excluding family and children of course... but that leads to sending money!  ).
I would love to hear some discourse about this topic and if you are interested in meeting up in January, I am game for that too! Thanks. Peace. 
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:29 am on Aug. 14, 2004
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samthedog
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Dear jugglinjim
"Is it okay to 'pry' into their personal lives? "
Answer!
YES!
Dear jugglinjim
"as much as just wanting to become more of a friend to these women."
Answer!
f_ck off, you are interested in their private lives, which is screwing ATM's for money, you nosey bastard!
Dear jugglinjim
"after many emails and discussions about the weather, I get bored. "
Answer!
If that is the best you can discuss with two cuties who obviously practice all sorts of sexual deprevations every night, probably in every hole in their collective bodies, then Peace to you too, Bro'
Get creative, for f_cks sake! they will appreciate the english lessons!
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 4:44 am on Aug. 14, 2004
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LocalYokul
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JugglinJim,
it's all up to who the BG is and her attitude.
I've known BGs (and still do) who tell me all about their other punters,
These candid gals are usually in the know that I am NOT jealous of other punters and that I am also not trying to compete with those punters.
but on the other hand, many wouldn't even think of disclosing these sorts of details.
The thing is, how was your relationship with them while in LOS ??
Do you feel you could ask..??
If you don't know, then try. If you don't ask them, you'll never know.
However, I feel they would be more comfortable (if at all) discussing it via voice than through text...
BTW, if you are interested in them sexually still, you might want to ask them to describe their last HOT encounter to you...555 
and certainly don't think too much about what you discuss with BGs, they don't !!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:47 am on Aug. 14, 2004
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ColoradoGuy
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Quote: from jugglinjim
However, after many emails and discussions about the weather, I get bored.
You are probably discussing the weather because that is what you have in common with these girls. If you are not speaking Thai to them, or their English is not very, very good, it is also likely that language difficulties play into this. If you corresponded with them in Thai instead of English, they probably would have more to discuss with you.
Quote: from jugglinjim
The question (s) for this forum is this; Is it okay to 'pry' into their personal lives? Even though this means asking them to share their experiences with other men?
First, do you think that they are interested in talking about these things to you?
You were in Thailand for one week. If you have paid these girls while you were there, then you are viewed as a customer. They will likely just tell you what they think you want to hear, so it is unlikely you will have a "healthy exchange of life experiences" with them.  They'll probably also find it strange that you are asking these questions. Have they ever asked you questions about *your* job?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 10:34 am on Aug. 14, 2004
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ringthebells
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this still is a developing society. we are here to help.
rtb
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:42 am on Aug. 14, 2004
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BigDUSA
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Your a customer and they will tell you what they think you want to hear.
Same game, different location.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:46 pm on Aug. 14, 2004
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StrayGypsy
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Butterfly !!
Cheaper to rent than to own.
Don't live vicariously through BG's. Play actor and be somebody else; hide away and get laid with anything that strikes your fancy. Never ever !...ever ! ever !ever ! become SPONSER cause she's gonna BUTTERFLY !!.... her BG friends will see to that.
You'll be a SORRY ASSED DUDE just like the DIVORCE in other parts of EARTH; USA half, ENGLAND half, half half half and it aint just that $$$ its your DICK or SEXUALITY that she takes away.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:51 pm on Aug. 14, 2004
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yodsaker
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Just tell her neither of you is a virgin!
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:22 pm on Aug. 15, 2004
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BKK Banger
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JJ,
You have very fine feelings and want to be their friend. This is very laudable and perfectly natural.
But you are just a customer and will remain one whilst you are there and they are here. If you really want to be their friend then move to LOS and persuade them to leave this industry. You may have to help them a little bit with lost income, resettlement costs etc. but you will have a nice warm feeling about having helped them.
A warm feeling like you were bent over and rodgered hard from behind.
Sorry, don't try and be their friend. A well paying customer will be more appreciated.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 1:23 am on Aug. 16, 2004
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jack attack
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Jugglin'-
I agree with the others - you will only hear what they want you to hear and that will also more than likely be far from the truth. "U hansum man. I not butterfly, etc".
In PI, it isn't much different. They will talk to you more because the girls speak english considerably better (at least most BG's). but they will tell you every conceivable story in the world and try their best not to tell you about their husbands, boyfriends, etc.
Go with the flow... expect to be lied to but don't get angry. Think of it as volunteer work via internet.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:31 am on Aug. 16, 2004
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