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COLD187
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hey guys,..i was wondering if some of u pros can give any suggestion about sending money to BG.
Well,....i'm planning to send money to my girl(former BG) and i'm thinking how much should it be...
But these point should be taken into account :
1)currently shes living with MR.LUXEMBOURG expenses..He normally sends her a minimal sum of money which she argued that not enough for her coz she need to give some to her family(same story)...I know this is crazy shit..Although there are someone sending her $$ but i think i should give her a hand.She have been helpful during my trip there..plus she is a nice gal.
2)now she is not working...But sometimes she freelance.(genuine fact,.as i send some of my buddy out there to keep an eye on her whether she's honest to me,...well..what she say is indeed true)
3)Apartment-3000bath per month..Which she share with her friend....food,transport,and other stuffs...
I really dunno whether to send her money or not.The worst is eventhough there's a guy sending her money but i still want to help her.She doesnt like the guy that much,...but she need money so he's the victim.(i dunno how many victim are out there)...
She have been so sincere to me so far...She never lied about her expenses or anything relating to money.
Even,if i send how much should it be???...i'm not planning to send her huge amount as my budget is tight.....
to send or not to send....thats the question......
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:47 pm on May 6, 2003
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invaderzim
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bro dont send her anything c'mon you can do better than that its not worth the hassel plus hot girls over there are a dime a dozen theres prolly tons they would love to be with you and would ask for nothing
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 2:43 pm on May 6, 2003
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bkkz
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COLD187, Forget it, do not send any money... you are not living here in BKK, so you do not know what goes on. For all you know you could be one of the 20 other guys she is communicating with. Yeah, sure she lives in a 3,000 B/month apartment, but she also gets lots of money from other guys too.
If you want to send her a one-off gift say for her birthday present, then go ahead. You can use Western Union or Money Gram, whichever exists in your country.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:04 pm on May 6, 2003
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tudobem
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Do not send....that's the answer.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 11:11 pm on May 6, 2003
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ABC
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COLD187:
Before you send her any money, please check out the topic's in this thread. Then, after reading through them you still want to send money then at least you will being do so with your eyes completely open.
The '411' on Sponsorship and Falling in Love with a TG's
http://bkkx.com/cgi-bin/forum/topic.cgi?forum=12&topic=532&start=0
To answer your question, I sent money via wire transfer. I have heard others have sent moneygrams.
Good luck, but from someone that's been there and done that, I would suggest you listen to BK and not send any money. After all was said and done, it was honestly money thaat was flushed down the toilet. I have no regrets, but will not sponsor again.
Yes. Your female could be different and that's why I asked you to please send the thread about the 411 on sponsorship and all. If you feel she different, then good luck. She might just be different, but then she might just be the same.
One other thing you might think about is hiring a P.I to check her out and make sure what she is telling you is truthfull before sending a dime. I did and even though everything she told me was truthfull, in the end the money did nothing to help her in her situation.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:30 pm on May 6, 2003
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pinga
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Do not send anything. You have a very little hope that your girl is the right one....
You also can read this thread with a lot of meat on this topic
THESE GIRLS ARE PLAYERS
started by ccvvbb....just a humble advise to open your eyes or at least to think twice before doing anything silly.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:34 pm on May 6, 2003
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craigoz
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Cold187,
Give it a miss as suggested by others. It will only lead to heartache.
Not to mention it will cost you about USD40 just for the transfer fee from your country to her bank account in Thai.
Even when I paid all the so called charges at this end USD35, the Bangkok Public Bank still skimed/took 500Baht of the top at her end. (Arguably for the change from USD to Baht)
Total of both Bank Fees USD47.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:09 am on May 7, 2003
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Ballsburstin
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COLD187,
If you read the Falling in Love thread, you'll see that I'm sponsoring a TGF right now. But my situation is a bit different from yours, and my suggestion is in line with the rest of the bro's here: don't send her any money. BK is right, you have no idea what's going on with her, and her situation is the same as every other BG in LOS.
I don't see anything going on between you and her that fits the "sponsorship" model at all. If you want to send her a one-off cash gift, fine, but keep the rest in your wallet, please. You will both be better for it in the long run. You can always treat her to some fun/gifts/etc. the next time you are in LOS.
Best of luck, and welcome to the forum!
- Balls
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:16 am on May 7, 2003
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thaiprivateeye
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Yeah, as usual, good advice from the Bros, save your money, tell her you will take her to Phuket/Samui etc. next time you come back, if she is still around, and you dont find a nicer girl beforehand ! Just say your business not good at present, if she does genuinely like you, she will accept that - poor Mr luxemborg, obviously hasnt heard of TPE 555 !
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 12:21 am on May 7, 2003
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Ballsburstin
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COLD187,
wanted to second ABC's comment about putting money down a hole. Even if everything checks out, you may not change anything in her life. She is, after all, a product of her culture, and will do as Thai ladies do. It takes a LOT of work, talking, cajoling, and just plain being together, to help these ladies step up a few rungs on the ladder. My TGF is no exception, but I am going that extra mile for/with her. But it has been an adventure even getting this far. I don't see that level of desire or committment from what little you've described here, so again, don't send anything (except a one time gift). If there is no plan and no follow-up (for months and years), your money will do what ABC's money did.
- Balls
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:23 am on May 7, 2003
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