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dirty guru
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Ok- so I hear the pundits say I should be burnt to the stake, for even suggesting the sending of money is an idea that is acceptable in the brotherhood.
But when all is said and done- the punter over time is human and with that in mind some of us Marry and/or have long term thai Girlfriends, that well retire.
Sure there will always be Thai girls poking a Chicken in a cage inside her bangkok apartment room shared with 2 others, that will insist she is back on the farm.
Sure there is always the "great pretenders " that announce they are all yours....
But every man at some stage is cast under a spell, and sometimes the cows are real as are the chickens, and the samui full moon bar, or Pattaya Go Go on walking street is no longer on the agenda.
your it! 
Well at least thats how it seems to begin with.
This thread is not at grass roots level of punters encountering a first time up situation of "sending loot".
Truth is my advice is not along those lines at all.
But hey if you do, and are experiencing frustration at the endless reasons for sending more - this thread might interest you alittle.
There is a wealth of experience and knowledge here in Bangkok Tonight....The collective pussy numbers would be staggering...by any other forum measurement that the characters here have done.
Its an open invitation to those who might have at one point sent money to Thailand - and what excuses they incorperated to nullify stings.
We all know unchecked the stories will roll out like a Hollywood studio.
Movies and scripts like.
"'buffalo sick"
"'snake bit mamma""
"Uncle Die"
"boy have fever need transfer"
"pay goverment for Cow come back"
"pappa beat me want new house"
"Motor bike need new"
"house sell cheap"
"land sell cheap"
"Have to have operation"
"auntie die if not go get new kidney"
" Pappa owe 200,000"
It goes on and on.
Sure after a while you start inventing your own scripts, why sit on side lines when its so much fun? 
Goverment want tax come back or monkey house- can only send 12,000 a month.
Mamma me needs operation- can only send 12,000
I in hospital doctor say I need operation - can only send 12,000
Basically you get the idea.
If they shoot through on you then "you have saved"
If they can proof a case then sure its "up to you"
what shocked me in the Thai countryside was the general acceptance that a woman could have an overseas Husband /boyfriend but have a Thai man in his paid abode often.
About 70% of cases incorperated deciet.
lightening unannounced visits were rare.
The girls often in most cases pulled it off.
Sending money is a personal choice.....
Some see it for want of a better future a small pay in for when they need a rest place and pussy.
But just consider when your sending as to the real needs and wants against the rule of thumb that deems farangs ATMS.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:33 pm on Oct. 5, 2010
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China Sailor
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The one I got recently was:
Brother taken by Police, I need 20,000!
I did not really believe that (tho thinking about it, he was a Redshirt so it could be true). What held me back was that a few months back she admitted that she was under pressure from her parents/siblings to milk her new Farang BF for a new truck.
She also admitted guilt for forcing her last Farang BF (who has terminal cancer) to buy some property for 'Investment'. It turns out though that he used his 'bucket-list' money and when he wanted to sell the property (at a profit) so he could finish his list she refused because her parents told her so.
I suspect that her family was standing by her during the call saying "Tell your Farang that..."
But in all fairness I have heard the same from mates who have married Filipinas, Chinese, Poles, Africans,... the list goes on.
I think the curse is not endemic of Thais only but a perception of any family that the BF from overseas must be rich and can afford to keep his GF happy by giving her the money she 'needs'  ...
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 1:24 am on Oct. 6, 2010
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Loung Steeb
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......cannot send baht this month. Loung Steeb fish farm no good....all fish die.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:46 am on Oct. 6, 2010
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snpark
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Quote: from Loung Steeb on 3:46 pm on Oct. 6, 2010
cannot send baht this month. Loung Steeb fish farm no good....all fish die.
oh mate thats awful
how can we help?!?!
can I send you something to help your fish farm?
money?
or better yet I send you 2 worms to catch 2 fish who can mate and give you 1000 fish
much better idea
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 6:36 am on Oct. 6, 2010
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thailife
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Well I just told me wife yesterday that I am never sending money to Thailand again. That's it. No reason, no excuse, I am just not doing it. She looked at me and asked "why"?
I saidI have other things to pay for and if she doesn't like it she can go back to thailand anytime she wants and go back to work.
She looked at me rather strangly. Then, just went on with her day.
Oh well.
Last year I was reading a book of exotic cars for sale and and I showed her that for what I am paying for her and her family I could be driving on of those cars.
I left it at that.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:32 am on Oct. 6, 2010
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dirty guru
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Fun reading- ::
A couple of points made-
Sure remember the alternative - an ex farang or current is a much bigger pit.
And its clear some stories are true.
I tend to think maybe a Red shirt brother might have been taken......but who knows?
Especially when there is a "girl who cried wolf" on offer?
Then these points
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BG I am good friends with was sad about life for a while so I booked tickets and sent her 15000 baht rang her up and told her what I had done. Next Nok Air to Udon to see her family she had not seen for a year. She had never asked me for a cent and has never asked since.
HB or my latest squeeze, I sent money to recently because her grandpa die.. Only time she has ever asked for money and when I rang to see if she was Ok I could hear the monk carrying out the burial ceremony.. 10000
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Clearly some acts of kindness and their appreciation make it tough at times.
But I think the expected allocation depends on their age and looks.
Some woman do not want to return to wherever they were plucked from so 12,000 -15,000 will be a base.
But in some respects its not suprising many want the whole Hog House and car and on going Visa Plans.
I rent a shop and stock it for her with sports shirts and other items.
The army barracks nearby and the Thai school kids keep the football shirts ticking over. With another Hundred bucks a week she is happy.
But sure I get the stories some turn out true.
Like the guy above the Grand father death was likewise met with chanting monks...so I accepted his death and her tears and sent a similar amount.
But as I say having lived in a village enviorment I have watched other Thai woman boot out their Thai man while the Husband /boyfriend who bought the house flies in for a visit.
Corrupt conduct is tolerated no one tells the farang.
I did once and to my horror he thought I was a liar and and an arsehole- and I got shit from the whole village for being a whistle blower.
The 4 others who have girlfriends in that area all had a situation where they were unfaithful often.
There are faithful woman -
But again it amuses me that most guys claim their girl is special and they know faithful.
The reality is world wide its the same story.
Saugage in Pussy equals payment.
Its always a question of How much one way or another.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:11 pm on Oct. 6, 2010
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seajohn
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Do you enjoy that, Blonk? Pretty racy I guess. Many girls, many people are not well educated, yet have a system of manners and can distinguish between formal and informal language, as well as polite and impolite vocabulary, even if they do not have much competency in the foreign language they are trying to use. However, many girls try to match their customer's behavior/language, especially if the effort is low to do so. I wonder if it is.
I have had girlfriends, regulars, giks, mistresses and wives in Thailand from various areas and walks of life. I can't see myself putting up with that kind of language from anyone. But to each his own. Without trying to come off as some kind of delicate effete, in the experiences that I personally enjoy, I like to hang out with girls who sense that I appreciate manners and demonstrate respect, as I do for them; I work for my money and expect to be treated well. I like sweetness, kindness, and consideration whether a girl is deepthroating me, speaking with me about topics I usually bring up or prices, or answering questions that I put when interested in them, drinks, etc, declining or accepting sodomy, etc. Otherwise, I find someone else.
Perhaps you could use the next installment to purchase classes at a Finishing School for her if she's so pretty!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:23 am on Oct. 10, 2010
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seajohn
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Talks to you, that is.
I didn't mean to sound stuffy, Blonk. I do apologize if my post sounded condescending too; it may be a sensitive subject somehow. Of course you see I wasn't referring to the money or how often she calls you for it. And I'm not really even referring to her real character; or perhaps I am. I was referring to my service expectations, which perhaps partly because I haven't used English with any Thai girl (in sexual institutions) for years, may be a little specialized by now. And there are other reasons, eg, my own sensitivities and tastes which have developed over time as to how and what I appreciate in women. But women learn how to deal with me... or I don't deal with them, ultimately. Many of them know exactly how to deal with me, thank goodness. Then we begin to deal with each other. Or perhaps I started it first, this dealing business. It's hard to tell, as my expectations slowly evolved. Nonetheless, at this stage in my tastes, I believe that people, especially, if I might add, those I'm paying for a personal service, can be straightforward and ask for money without using impolite language with me. But as I said, you obviously can tolerate it; you may enjoy it even. We all find people we relate to somehow. Something for everyone.
My tastes may be different in this category, that's all. One or two girls over the years, I've laughed in their face when they spoke roughly to me. "Tourists," I told them, "may not know any better. They may get drunk and talk that way themselves. But you know it's not polite. Since you were in grade school you've known what good manners and good service amounts to." They apologized and changed their tune; I tipped them; but of course I wouldn't be back, no matter how much they asked me to come back, which they did very much after that. And yet, you may not be a tourist; you may have lived her for 30 years, for all I know. You may know every nook and cranny of Siamese civilization dating back to hominids. It doesn't make a difference. I don't know you, so I couldn't and wasn't passing judgment on you, or really on tourists either for that matter--just commenting on what I expect and enjoy, more or less. I don't want to split hairs. I like dirty words on the bed more.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:37 am on Oct. 10, 2010
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jingjo
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I have a friend that had his first trip to Thailand a few months back, I only found out yesterday when he dropped in with a B G that I new from back in 98.
I was shocked as he never mentioned that he was going, at the time he was in the last stage of Divorce and I figure he didn't want any one to know as we live in a small Town and if his X got wind she would properly spin even more and want a bigger payout.
Anyway I showed her my garden and had a chat. I knew she had a Thai husband and kids and I said what are you doing ?
I know you and all the BG's in that Bar have Thai boy friends as your sister told me many stories, she said most if not about 95% get money sent from falang's and most buy land and build nice house & new car or beauty salon etc.
When someone tells you they have no money 9 out of 10 they just want to milk you for more! (all an ACT)
I said look this is my mate and he is green about LOS, she said this is my job and I only work bar for couple more years but need lot's of money to send her children to good school,what does your husband think? nothing she said most B G's do it and we only survivor.
The older bar girls teach the new one's all the tricks of there trade and there are many trick's !
Just think free holiday's just to suck and f*** than go home and f*** hubby,she said when she was younger she had 6 sponsors at one time, the monthly amounts were enough to pay off a house in falang land!
This shits me as I love this guy like a Brother and if I say to much I'll be the worst in the World.
As we all should now by now the Truth Hurt's, another reason like guy's ducky has half the members here on Ignore.
This is the reason I put Jumping Jimmy on to Dr Love even though we might not see eye to eye from time to time, but I knew Doc would show him the ropes and point him in the right direction.
Now you know why the girl's pray so much it makes them feel better for all the B S that comes out of there mouth.
But don't give up guy's there's Plenty of honest Tg's out there but I doubt that you meet one in a bar!
Hey I'm not saying B G's are no good, just don't fall in love with them, treat them good tip them after you get off and move on.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 7:17 pm on Oct. 10, 2010
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seajohn
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Quote: from Blonk on 3:47 am on Oct. 11, 2010
So does all that mean you would f*** her or not?
Well, not for 5000 short time, haha. But if she yaps at me with a harsh irritating tone of voice like a squashed cabbage leaf, it's possible not even for 500. There are plenty more gorgeous persons who can do for me, and how. But again, I fear I am generalizing: I don't know how this particular woman usually behaves with you or anyone else.
Nonetheless, I'd f*** just about any female that moves, in the right circumstances. Or is that comma unnecessary--should I say, "I'd f*** just about any female that moves in the right circumstances"? I don't know, but I would do either.
Yours truly,
Prof. Henry "Clit-gobbler" Higgins
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:15 pm on Oct. 10, 2010
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