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fnguy25
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Ooops, sorry I used the H word I meant prostitute. But you are correct Oily Master, everyone should be free to spend their money as they see fit. I was just sharing an opinion, if it was appreciated or not. I wish good luck to those such as myself, looking for fun times, and to those looking for something deeper.
May happiness find those who look for it, I know it finds me when I'm in LOS 
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:39 am on April 12, 2003
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JackRabbit
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JackRabbit present...
fng25:
Yes , opinions are needed and Yours appreciated , myself giving one back.
When packing for LOS , do not forget SMILE !
JR
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 4:50 am on April 12, 2003
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nokna
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'sorry I used the H word I meant prostitute.'
sorry fnguy25,but you are wrong (in my opinion) about your change of word.
people know my thoughts on the 'P' word and i don't want to start another discussion,but i hate the word.
no need to use it,have respect for the ladies,don't put them down please.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:57 am on April 12, 2003
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JackRabbit
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JackRabbit present...
Youre right with that , but give man some time to hone his expressions and get comfortable in here.
How about just using the "TG's" shortening , better?
JR
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 5:01 am on April 12, 2003
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nokna
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some people dislike the term TG as it applies to any Thai lady.
BG is better i think.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:00 pm on April 12, 2003
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fnguy25
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Ok Ok sorry I used the P word I meant BG and now I feel PC
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:50 pm on April 12, 2003
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Ballsburstin
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cmore,
Thanks mucho for your kinds words about Ms. BallsB; I'm honored and a bit embarassed, as there are many others on this board deserving equal praise  There is one thing I'd like to mention about my TGF's current situation, but I gotta run right now. Back in about an hour or so. Will comment on that in this thread.
- Balls
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:33 pm on April 12, 2003
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cmore
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Hey brother Balls hope everythings okay with our hero bro. Let us know. Peace
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:50 pm on April 12, 2003
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PopSecret
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Jack:
I think you possibly wanted me to read another thread and comment again. I would, but this topic is fast losing interest to me. The main thing I wanted to say is that I don't have any fundamental problem whatsoever with guys who are trying to work out a long-term relationship with their BG. More power to them!
The one and only thing I didn't quite understand is why sending the girls what equates to a series of blank checks is such a ubiquitous part of this process. If we're talking about BG's, then aren't they already near the top of the spectrum for standard Thai income levels?
And finally, I never meant ANY of this to be directed toward those who are trying to work things out with non-BG's, such as everyday TG's. That is a completely different dynamic and nothing I've said so far was intended as advise for a relationship like that.
I hope that explains my position a little more clearly. In any case, I'll be in LOS before too long and maybe, just maybe, I'll end up all heart-broken and on the giving end of yet another sugar-daddy relationship and you all can make endless fun of me for being such a hypocrite. ;-)
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:58 pm on April 12, 2003
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Ballsburstin
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This probably belongs under the "Falling In Love" thread, but I'll say it here, because it's about how TG's who become BG's become TG's again.
A minor point but worth saying: provided you want the relationship and you've found a BG that really does want to become a TG again (as much as that's possible), then you have to be patient and supportive. My TGF just got her 9th grade certificate last month and is intent upon getting her 12th grade certificate next year. She has even mentioned "university nit noy" as something she might want to try.
To wit: she has been looking in BKK for a good school to do the last "three" years of high school. She found her last adult ed school pretty lax, with teachers not always showing up. Since it only met on weekends, this was a serious issue. I was in BKK at some critical times last year and was able to tutor her in math and English. But I won't be so available this year.
So she looked at Empower, but was a bit turned off by them (they didn't sound friendly enough over the phone to her) - we were also worried that this might cause problems when it comes time to get a visa.
She is currently looking at a school on Ekamai that meets Monday through Friday. This school has told her in no uncertain terms that they think her last school sucked. But since she passed the government exams, she qualifies. She called me from the school, a little worried. I told her that their pride in their school was a good thing, and that she might get the kind of education that would prepare her for "university nit noy." She will apply when she gets back from Songkran.
My point is this: we have been seeing each other more than a year now. Everytime she has reached a turning point, she has talked to me and I have given her my opinion and advice. Then I tell her, "up to you, I trust you, you have a good mind and know how to make a good decision." Then I step back and let her sink or swim. If she tries to swim (she always has), then I help her to succeed as best she can. This approach now has her questioning her own path more objectively and not always taking the easy way out (as in my example here of the harder high school). She is also becoming more self-sufficient and makes good decisions (that will help her longterm) independently. She is even talking about work after finishing school to ease the financial burden of sponsorship (I think this is a pride thing for her).
Sponsorship means many different things. I didn't go to Thailand looking to do this, and I approached the sponsorship thing carefully. I have also gotten excellent advice along the way from members of this forum (thanks!). Maybe the difference is that I've short-timed my way through more ladies than I can count and am ready to take what comes with this Thai lady. I'm not afraid to commit to her, but then again, we aren't quite there yet. But we may be soon. At this point, she is 8 parts TG and 2 parts BG. Not a bad balance, really.
My advice is that sponsorship is only of value if you have mutual goals that are being met. If not, walk.
- Balls
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:04 am on April 13, 2003
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