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Arcadius
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We should start by asking what she wants & then decide whether that is in line with our beliefs and whether it is then appropriate for us to support her
We should, but that's easier said than done. Most sponsorships develop from a holiday GFE, where the acquaintance is really too brief (and too unreal) for the guy to get to know the girl at all. Assuming she didn't get off the bus yesterday, it's a pretty fair bet that she will want what she knows you want her to want (if that makes sense). I think most BGs are clued up enough to know that the buzzwords which trigger those farang sponsorship juices include 'education', 'learn English', 'get out of the bar' and 'get good job'. This is all very easy to believe, because those are the things we would want if we happened to be a Thai bargirl.
Then, of course, Knight in Shining Armour syndrome kicks in. Few guys who effectively want to buy a BG as a wife or girlfriend are going to admit this to themselves. They first convince themselves that the girl really is soft on them (not at all difficult for a newbie confronted with a BG in GFE mode), and their own infatuation is quickly dressed up in altruistic clothes. You're giving this poor, 3rd-world girl a great chance in life, rescuing her from the gutter, providing a secure future, blah blah. I think it's a fairly short step from there to setting conditions "for her own good". After all you're the older man with the worldly experience and education; the one who knows what she needs to do; the one who must guide her along the path of redemption. All this is much more congenial than just admitting: a) you're very uncomfortable with the fact that you've fallen for a prostitute, and b) just can't stand the idea of other guys screwing her while you're away.
I think some guys do come to LOS on a power trip - they've been told that anyone and anything is for sale, and it's in the right price bracket for them to throw their weight around for once. They're probably in quite a small minority though. I'd guess most guys drift into 'control' mode a lot more subtly. I'd also guess that they're the ones who get especially angry, because they've created a scenario where they're being a really great guy, and consequently the errant BG is taking outrageous advantage of their good nature. The bully will just be peeved that he got outsmarted.
In both cases, though, I would say the problem arises from a failure to take BGs seriously as real people capable of holding firm opinions of their own about what they want. Anyone who views them as pore li'l bunny wabbits just aching to be rescued by the Great White Hope is almost certainly headed for a nasty pile-up. The big problem is that you're unlikely to have a clue what a BG REALLY wants until you've known her for a long time and you're confident that the relationship has moved beyond the GFE.
If you want to sponsor while still in GFE mode, I would say do it to: 1) buy yourself long-term VIP status, and/or 2) buy yourself a comforting illusion you don't intend to examine too closely, and/or 3) help out someone you like for their sake, not yours. Just don't kid yourself that you've bought a long-range puppet on a string, because it's extremely unlikely that you have - whatever she says.
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Posted on: 5:00 pm on July 16, 2004
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ThaidUp
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I currently outsource jobs in India where the average salary for a fresher phone executive or data entry rep is 160 -250 USD a month. The cost charged to the client is 10x the amount.
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Yeah, they would fit right in:
TG: Hello
Customer: Hello
TG: What's you name?
Customer: ThaidUp
TG: Where you come from?
Customer: LA, CA
TG: Oh I have cousin who live in LA, Do you know Nan?
Customer:  Well??? No, but I called about my computer problem.
TG: OK, How you stay....I mean How long you have ploblem (Note: Old habits hard to change)
Customer: I just started having this problem.
TG: What ploblem you?
Customer: No not me, my computer. I have a hard disk problem.
TG: Oh I see, I can fix hard dick ploblem, No ploblem.
Customer: Not hard dick, but hard disk
TG: Oh so sorry, Why you spend so much time on computer don't you like girls. You like ladyboys?
Customer: I called to talk about my computer problem, not my love life.
TG:But I can fix you hard dick love life ploblem, You want me to send you an email with my picture, but promise not to tell my boyfriend OK?
Customer: I can't get any email or photo my computer is down you moron!
TG: Why you call me moron. Now I see why you have no girlfriend, you jai yen No good for me.
Customer: "Click" hangs up phone.
Maybe this customer support thing would not work out, unless it was a phone sex line.
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Posted on: 2:29 am on July 17, 2004
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ThaidUp
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Quote from Arcadius "They first convince themselves that the girl really is soft on them (not at all difficult for a newbie confronted with a BG in GFE mode), and their own infatuation is quickly dressed up in altruistic clothes. "
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I guess I am quite the Altruistic person in dressing up my TG from BG clothes to a university uniform. Thanks, Arcadius, I can now go to sleep at night with a sense of contibution instead of my usual thoughts of being a pervert.
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Posted on: 2:36 am on July 17, 2004
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Calzoid
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TU,
I see your point - although the Phone Sex idea is pretty good ! Call Center work is not just to the states/uk - its internal in Thailand as well.
There are other types of support - data entry, the can type right ? - how else do they write back asking for more money.
I wonder what the Total Baht monthly that is paid out via sponsorships -could be a staggering sum - probably could open an MP the size of a Vegas hotel.
Calzoid
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Posted on: 3:35 am on July 17, 2004
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ThaidUp
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OK you would think after 30 pages in this thread there would be no other points to bring up. Well, I have a new twist in the why to sponsorship camp that I would like to throw out into the arena. As many know most (not all) TG are not great kissers. I had a TG who fell into that group. Now the minute we start discussing sponsorship she immediately changes into the most passionate kisser. Me wondering WTF, had to ask what the hell was going on. She says you are no longer a customer, but my boyfriend who is taking care of me so I have to take good care of you. Before I acting (quite a good actress I might) like I enjoy and fake moaning and with customers I am happy on the outside, but inside my heart is crying to have to have sex for money. I plan on giving you many more things that I do not do for customers.
I begin to think about XXX rated movie actresses who have a BF/GF, husband/wife arrangement along side their job and begin if they use the same approach. One of my favorites is Kobe Thai and after seeing a compilation of her films, I began to notice a much scripted mechanical approach to her scenes and when the guys start to do something that would lead to more passion and closeness she would back away. I think the women use this as some internal safety mechanism to protect themselves from being screwed up in the head. I am going to perform this “job”, but I am going to set my limits and give certain things to lovers in my life.
So one of the benefits I see from sponsorship is getting this closeness and passion from with a TG that she may be withholding from her regular customers.
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Posted on: 3:47 am on July 17, 2004
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Oz
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Quote: from ThaidUp on 4:47 pm on July 17, 2004
OK you would think after 30 pages in this thread there would be no other points to bring up. Well, I have a new twist in the why to sponsorship camp that I would like to throw out into the arena. As many know most (not all) TG are not great kissers. I had a TG who fell into that group. Now the minute we start discussing sponsorship she immediately changes into the most passionate kisser. Me wondering WTF, had to ask what the hell was going on. She says you are no longer a customer, but my boyfriend who is taking care of me so I have to take good care of you. Before I acting (quite a good actress I might) like I enjoy and fake moaning and with customers I am happy on the outside, but inside my heart is crying to have to have sex for money. I plan on giving you many more things that I do not do for customers.
I begin to think about XXX rated movie actresses who have a BF/GF, husband/wife arrangement along side their job and begin if they use the same approach. One of my favorites is Kobe Thai and after seeing a compilation of her films, I began to notice a much scripted mechanical approach to her scenes and when the guys start to do something that would lead to more passion and closeness she would back away. I think the women use this as some internal safety mechanism to protect themselves from being screwed up in the head. I am going to perform this “job”, but I am going to set my limits and give certain things to lovers in my life.
So one of the benefits I see from sponsorship is getting this closeness and passion from with a TG that she may be withholding from her regular customers.
Maybe, only maybe. I wonder if our friend who had 4 sponsors is the same passionate self to every one???
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Posted on: 4:23 am on July 17, 2004
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NaughtiusMaximus
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Only the lucky one who got her pregnant, actually I wonder if she gave that special gf feeling to all 4, the no condom I really love you feeling. Then I wonder which one is the Dad. I found out that the Poomy guy apparently lives here. That is if we are talking about the same 4goer.
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Posted on: 6:58 am on July 17, 2004
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ThaidUp
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Quote from Oz "Maybe, only maybe. I wonder if our friend who had 4 sponsors is the same passionate self to every one???"
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I won't know, as I am one of the few that never been there,  either has another brother who is thought of as a brother and another who is just an stud out for a short time thrill.
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Posted on: 5:25 pm on July 17, 2004
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LocalYokul
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ok ok, SponsorShip isn't such a horrible thing...
but I think I've already blown it with UniGal.
I'll text her today to say I'm sorry about Saturday...
but maybe subconsciously I don't want to get serious with her cause I have a good feeling it will end horribly, and that young gal will come out of the starting gate already jaded by Falahng Bah Gahm (Sex-Crazed).
not to mention a piss-head to boot !!
lamenting on this thread, I've wondered if anyone has had any really horrible experiences like the TG finding your place of work and or investigating/consulting with your family (i.e. current wife & kids)...
That could be some pretty ugly business for sure !!
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Posted on: 7:50 pm on July 25, 2004
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samthedog
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Work, yes! She started bambarding my secretary with calls!
I had to get some Thai friends to go around and have a word with her............
They came back and said she was a nice girl and why did I want to stop!!!! sh_t was I pissed off !
Last night I was told the going rate by a girl for sponsorship should be THB 40,000, AT LEAST.
This is to achieve exclusivity.
I hasten to add that I am NOT sponsoring at present (although I have done - see above)
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Posted on: 2:11 am on July 27, 2004
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