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Chompoo
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MX, you're an asshole and you like sharing the company of lying, thieving whores. But hey, it's guys like you that make the world interesting. If we were all honest, ethical and moral it would be pretty boring. It really doesn't bother me a bit that most guys like you end up being sad, pathetic losers with no real friends or loved ones. The next generation of whores and sluts will need people like you to feed off.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:37 pm on Jan. 16, 2003
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ABC
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Chompoo:
I agree with your post.
>ABC, that is a very cynical way of looking at >sponsorship. Rather than calling it "ownership" call it >an "exclusive contract." If both parties enter into it >freely and with full knowledge, then both should have >no complaints.
>A sponsor has no obligation to keep the girl happy >other than by paying her on time and he certainly >doesn't have to be concerned with her future. She is >primarily responsible for herself, if he chooses to help >then that is up to him.
I admit that saying that sponsorship is like ownership is very cynical statment and that a better word might be exclusive contract. But ... I do belieave that after reading many posts, that some members do think of it closer to ownership then exclusive contract. Which there might be a thin, grey line between the two.
Either way, no more sponsorship for me. I can't dedicate the time for the female being sponsored and I also don't think that I would be helping out her life by sponsoring her. Now ... that is a general statment that ofcourse if the right situation came about I might assist the female. But .... no monthly allowance or cash flow from me.
And ... for the record, I am one that thinks that if you are going to sponsor .. especially .... larger amounts, then having a P.I check into things is a must. There are many good ones out there, but there are also some very bad ones that can and will seperate a person from their money over time.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 4:17 pm on Jan. 16, 2003
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pinga
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The reality is that few and only very few sponsored b-girls/GG-girls/MP girls/Club hostesses and the like will remain loyal to the sponsor while he is abroad....and the hard time comes to many guys when the alarm clock is on after a while and they have to wake up facing the reality with empty hands, a thin wallet and a broken heart....
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:40 am on Jan. 17, 2003
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MX31
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Hahaha......just the response I expected Chompoo, thanks for the laugh!  Oh, I notice no one said anything I wrote about was false....wonder why???
So, am I an "asshole" because I spoke the truth??? I know the game just as well as anyone here....and that is bad/wrong?
I really like your self proclaimed "If we were all honest, ethical and moral it would be pretty boring" and yet you are in a Bangkok forum discussing prostitution ("Im doing research for a book" Pete 'pedophile' Townsend, 2003). Don't hate the playa', hate the game! Revisit my post and you will see I mention we see them as "fun" and never even suggested there was any long term possibilities with these girls. They never take the place of a respectable, decent girl of which there are many here in BKK.
You can also see where I spoke about people being able to come to BKK NOT just for the sex industry in an upcoming documentary special about BKK to be aired on a major cable channel.
Your comments about their integrity are all true. This is the reality of it, we are not living in a false bubble like the "sponsor."
Oh, I wasn't just saying it was only the older folks who are getting taken. The younger guys are also pretty gullible.
Lastly, allow me to quote your prose
"It really doesn't bother me a bit that most guys like you end up being sad, pathetic losers with no real friends or loved ones."
I would pay big money to get in on your crystal ball you have which you used to supposedly see my current life and predict my future as well! Or did you use Tarot cards? No? Oh...you read my stars? No wait....it was totally inaccurate so maybe I better not buy into it.
Get real. This happens and it is a shame that guys get taken so much, and I wanted to show another side so guys hear it directly.
Yes, reality sucks. But don't jump into a shark tank and become surprised when you get bitten.
Critics.......your turn...............
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 3:38 am on Jan. 17, 2003
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MrJoe
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Well there's lot's of truth in MX31's post. I could tell MANY tales of my days as a "house-sitter" (to use his term) and I've had many of the same thoughts in those days.
It's not so much the message but the messenger or perhaps only the "form" of the message. I dson't really know how to put into words without seeming to attack someone I don't know and at the moment I can't be bothered to try and figure out how to -- so I shan't. Oother than to say the posts were awfully superior in tone and even a bit insulting -- unecessarily so.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 3:53 am on Jan. 17, 2003
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Yurune
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Yep...been there MX31.....it's great isn't it...of course when the sponsor winds up finding out he's wasting his time...these great friends of yours may ask you for money then to pay back some of the good times....What do you do then?.....be a friend and get sucked in....or incur the wrath and get outcast from your beautiful scene.....LOL...think they won't turn on you?
I have no need to sponsor or to accept the benefits.....self sufficiency is best all round.....
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:11 am on Jan. 17, 2003
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Marco
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MX31 was not very subtle in his message but what he says is true.
Most BG are not poor little things waiting to be rescued by nice farangs. Many are even cynical bitches when it comes to their "sponsors".
I don't blame them, if they can get the money they play the game. But any sponsor should know about it. And don't think your girl is special and so nice she would never do that.
After if the guy can afford it and is happy with it, why not ?
Like lottery tickets, you keep losing and you keep buying...
But with BGs you also get laid from time to time so the game is better !
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:39 am on Jan. 17, 2003
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MrJoe
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I'd have to agree with most of that Marco.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:48 am on Jan. 17, 2003
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MX31
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Guys...I was being cocky to prove the point about the reality of these girls. There are so many guys just foolishly throwing their money away based on false trust displayed by the girls. (Generalization)
If I had just said "Oh, these girls are lying to you guys" does that have even an speck of impact? I am new to this board but I cannot believe how seriously some (not all) take this topic.
To protect oneself, okay...be serious as hell, but the overall idea of leaving the country and sending money back here is just IMHO, foolish. If the girl was really serious, really quit having sex with other guys, really not hanging at/working at the bars, really going to school, really saving the money.......we could go on.
(Generalization alert!) Then fine, it makes a little sense. But, these girls are socialized from a young age in their villages and towns about how farangs are walking ATM machines and their friends teach them how to get the "PIN" number (figuratively speaking) by conning guys. They are programmed in a way we have never experienced. (Generalization alert!) Also, honesty and integrity are not as valued in Asia as in the West. We are not used to that.
As for personal attacks geared toward my post at me...it's all fun. But do you disagree with WHAT was said???
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 6:03 am on Jan. 17, 2003
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Yurune
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After 16 years here...(unlike you of course I know nothing about Thai culture or speaking Thai)...we are very glad you've helped us in this matter....After all...nobody had ever discussed anything like this on this board.
Now your grandmother needs to learn how to suck eggs.
Nice to see the cockiness dropped a bit
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:06 am on Jan. 17, 2003
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