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Dave
well Kmanrox

it's all about enjoying yourself. For me, I'm nearer to skip but so what.

Currently I am seeing a girl who is 28.  She sees herself as getting old but she is great company and great in the sack. but to each his own.

Take care
Dave


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Posted on: 2:48 am on Dec. 24, 2002
nokna
i agree with ABC's comment about 'just because you treat them like a lady,why should you pay them less'.

i treat them all like ladies when i'm with them,wether it's for 20 hours or 1/2 hour.
they deserve respect and i give it to them.
i never need to haggle,they know what i will pay.
but then again,some have tried it on after the sex and we have both ended up disappointed.

these days i rarely take a few hours getting to know a girl,i either take a regular or if i see another girl in their bar,i get them to introduce me.
like Kman,it takes minutes to know if i want to BF them.

if i just want a quick S/T,then i will not go to a restaurant ,just back to the room and afterwards will buy them food from a vendor(if they want food) and return to the bar with them and buy them a couple of drinks.

if it's  L/T,then different,will take them out for the night.


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Posted on: 3:47 am on Dec. 24, 2002
BigDUSA
From ABC,

I agree with you 100% on treating them like a female. ÝI would think that any female, not just in BKK would like to be treated as a lady then a piece of meat.

But .. your justification that since you treat them like a lady you don't have to pay them very well ..... sorry; I don't buy.

ABC,
Here where I differ with you, according to what the average Thai makes the girls are being paid very well at the 500 to 1000 level. Western guys want to bring to Thailand western level of payment. Of coure the girls would like the so called standard to be whatever the traffic will bare. I have no problem with guys paying more (up to them). I do have a problem with guys getting freebies from the girls as I know that most of them are lieing to the girls about a future together and I have a problem with guys paying less then I do(200 L/T) and cheating the girls.
If I want to take a women out and not get physical I can do that back in Philly and save myself the long plane ride.
My goal in the pay for play, how much thread is to tell the NEWBIE there a wide range that the members on this forum are paying the girls. As the girls will tell you, up to you if you want to pay on the high end or low end.


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Posted on: 8:23 am on Dec. 24, 2002
Deleted Member
Hi...
One should also consider that if u (like i and many others) wants to take the girl for a all-nighter, u will b taking her to restaurants, discos plus the usual get to "know" each other drinks in the bar, if u meet her in a bar, it suddenly become more like 2500 instead of 1000 lt...still i'd rather do it this way instead of paying a girl 2500 straight up, when this is said, i hear stories about farangs that got "free pussy" hahahah, well...i could have that too, but mostly it's something in their own mind 98 % of the girls is in it for the money, and all the girls in the bars and gogo's r ofcourse working for the cash, and it is easy it is to cheat them, if thats what u want..but people who r doing that is F..... up.
Bye bye bey
Hult


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Posted on: 8:37 am on Dec. 24, 2002
ABC
BigDUSA:
Let me start by again saying that I agree with your statements about the freebies and paying less then 200 l/t. ÝBut .... another member has pointed out to me that the ones that do pay around 200 l/t are not the kinda of people that like quality, but merely want a hole to stick something in. Does not make it right, but puts it into a different perspective.

As for the pay to play attitude. I have nothing against it, but it just seems me that you balance paying low by justifying that you treat them well and their wages are low. If it's that low, then why bargin?? 500-1000 baht a day is not much. that is roughly $25 U.S per day. A McDonalds worker makes more then that.

You can say, well then they don't have to go with me. On the contrary, I think they do. It's money. Bottom line. I believe that most ... and not all, would rather have some money then no money. And if you treat them right, then they will compromise on making more the be with a gentleman. But ... that still does not make it right to try and low ball them and take advantage of them. Why make them compromise. You work hard for your money and so do they. Why not treat them like a lady and pay a standard rate. This is how they make a living. If you give more, they ... "might" not have to work the next day. You never know??

You pay 500 l/t and i pay 1,000. That is double what the lady should be making if she went with another member instead of you or anyone else that only pays 500 baht.

Bottom line:
I'm not here to bust Ýyour chops or make you change. ÝIt's so any other newbie can read our discussion and make up their own mind on which side of the fence they sit on.

We do dissagree on the haggling part and money. But .. I think the key is that you treat them like a lady. If treated them like crud, then I'd think you'd take more heat for that.

Good luck and again, I would really like to see the quality and beauty you are able to score with for a first time 500 baht payment.




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Posted on: 10:24 am on Dec. 24, 2002
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Hi Alphabeat,
You r right and i agree with u, but in Thailand a mac d worker is payed maybe 200 bht a day, i think even less.
Bye bye bey
Hult


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Posted on: 10:49 am on Dec. 24, 2002
ABC
Sup' Hult:
Oops. I meant to say a McDonalds worker anywhere else but in Thailand makes more then $25 per day. Thanks for pointing that out to me.

Have a good one.


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Posted on: 10:51 am on Dec. 24, 2002
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Hi,
Abc...does not change the fact that u were right, just couldn't resist.
And Cmore........what can i say, i dont hagle, u dont have too if u treat the "ladies" good, just read u'r post in this thread and...nah never mind, i think it speaks for it self...i mean u calling me a and my fellow mates cheap charlies... u do it your way and i'll do it mine, but i have never been dissapointed with the girls i've stayed with...well apart from my "love-story" that is.
But i could spend 3000 on a girl straight away no prob... but why should i, and second, i dont hang around snatching the leftovers of the night, as i said b4 i end up using 2500 + bht in the end anyway, but the girl likes me, and is satisfied when i hand her 1000 bht in the morning.
Bye byebey
Hult


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Posted on: 11:19 am on Dec. 24, 2002
Oaktoad
BigD (who I guess is either from Dallas or bragging) states that B500-1000 is much more than the average Thai makes..

this is true, however, have you checked out the rates in the USA for these type of service.. US$150 plus for an hour .. and usually a short hour and not very pleasurable... that comes out to about US$300K a year .. a bit over the average income in the USA ..

I prepare taxes for part of the year (and f_ck around in Thailand the rest) .. I have had clients who were working girls .. either call girls or working in clubs in SF .. Most of these girls are making over US$100K.. of course they don't declare it all (one seems to, she is afraid of getting Al Caponed) .. again much more than the average American .. the gals in the strip clubs don't even provide sex, the best you might get is pants full of cum due to a lap dance. .

I have become somewhat friendly with some US based hookers over the years and found that they will take less from someone they like, however, they will not go lower than a certain amount .. also, as some of them mentioned, many of the guys that they go with are disgusting .. think about it, you may be respectful, but you might not be anywhere near what a specific hooker would have sex with for free (for example in Thailand you are not Thai and most Thai girls prefer Thai guys for romance) .. Look around, many guys are drunk, smoke, not romantic, fat, pigs (not all pigs are fat, esp in Thailand, more in the sense of slobs) and want to do things the girl really doesn't want to do.

I can understand paying reasonable rates, but I don't think this side of the argument flies .. I think the question is more one of what the market will bear..

Whether you like it or not and regardless of how much respect you treat the girls with, you are shopping.. you even admit it as you say in the bet that you can go to five bars and have many hours to find a girl that you like that is in your price range..

So in reality, you are buying a piece of meat ..

When I go shopping for a car, I treat the salesman with respect (often harder to do than with a Thai BG), but that does not mean that I overpay... I also realize that at some point I am not going to save enough on the car to justify going to any more dealers .. same as shopping for pussy.. if you have missed on B500 for a couple of hours, you just might finally accept B700 for the desirable model ..


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Posted on: 12:09 pm on Dec. 24, 2002
BigDUSA

Quote: from Oaktoad on 1:09 pm on Dec. 25, 2002
BigD (who I guess is either from Dallas or bragging) states that B500-1000 is much more than the average Thai makes.. I'm from Philadelphia and I don't think I'm bragging about paying less for sex then many other guys are. It would be bragging if what I said wasn't true. I have never presented myself as a STUD with a 9" dick that can go all night. I'm just the oppisite, I'm a bearded, balding, fat, grandpaw falang who's taken the time to get to know what women WANT and I give it to them. I've laid out my system for everyone on this board to take a look at and maybe adapt it to there style. I'm willing to show people how I do it. This system works night after night in Thailand and in Philly. The difference is in Philly I don't need to pay for play and that's the fact Jack. I'm willing to place money on the line and whatever credability I've gained on this board with over 500 messages that I can come to BKK and get a good looking girl I've never talked to before go with me for 500 s/t. I'm in LOS next April 21 thru May 5. Let the game begin.
Thai girls prefer Thai guys for romance) .. Look around, many guys are drunk, smoke, not romantic, fat, pigs (not all pigs are fat, esp in Thailand, more in the sense of slobs) and want to do things the girl really doesn't want to do.

I can understand paying reasonable rates, but I don't think this side of the argument flies .. I think the question is more one of what the market will bear..

Whether you like it or not and regardless of how much respect you treat the girls with, you are shopping.. you even admit it as you say in the bet that you can go to five bars and have many hours to find a girl that you like that is in your price range..

So in reality, you are buying a piece of meat ..


When you get down to it and you rub off the gloss and veneer and you have travelled half way around the world. That's what were doing whenever we pay for pussy The only question is how much are you willing to pay to play?




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Posted on: 1:51 pm on Dec. 24, 2002
     

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