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black cats
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You definetly made the right decision. It's hard not to be nice. But that doesn't make you insensitive either. You just can't trust someone you haven't known long enough. In the west anyone we've been that intimate with we've probably been with long enough to trust. Not the same in Asia.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:34 pm on Sep. 2, 2004
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ok
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sorry guys;
other thoughts to share with you from someone who ought to know better but still behaving like a 17 year old.
of course you're right about being there to pay the hospital + I wouldn't think of anything else.
i can't really see a ling termfuture but in the short term (i hope!) i'm still trying to work thru my feelings.
what I didn't want (i thought) were lots of lovey-dovey emails when I might not be able to get out to bangkok before easter next year. I really don't want to be dreaming the days away before then.
i've talked to a pharmacist here + she wonders whether after the op there might be other costs so I was really giving up the idea of helping my girl there - so much for my philanthropism!
btw she's no.21 + called usa.
i think she genuinely does really like me + I believe her leaving early on our last day was to go + care for/see her daughter, give her money for food,etc.
anyway I thought I can't cope with all this + emailed her calling everything off, saying I was disappointed with our time together. she emailed back several times v upset + gave long explanations about our time - which made sense.
i emailed back saying I hoped to back this oct - still a possibility but maybe quite mad of me.
then kinda cracked late at night - always my worst time - + emailed saying no point in this if I can't go back until easter + I wanted to end all communication. at that moment I meant it.
then when she emailed back still hurt, saying she loved me but couldn't force me to love her + accepted it + said alright if ever I come back to bkk just to call in + see her in her shop (annie's) - like a passing customer again.
so the 17 year old kicked in again + cos she's accepting it I suddenly feel devastated + know i'm going to miss her gorgeous emails.
so I email back apologising + asking for forgiveness.
i do think i've behaved badly. I didn't answer her emails for a couple of days + I believe her when she expresses real sadness + surprise at my sudden change, couldn't sleep, etc.
so I felt bad + said sorry sorry (tho I know i'm probably still being selfish).
so - don't worry the end of this email is in sight - she replies still a bit hurt + a little reserved - which I guess is an honest response - + says I have to trust her (cos I still express unease about her job) + I can continue to email her + she misses me.
so there we are. still mixed up. a kind of male bridget jones.
don't know if there's anything you guys can say to help but again anything would be welcome.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 7:49 am on Sep. 7, 2004
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jack attack
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OK,
Thanks for that post. I was having a sh*tty day and then read your stuff and it made me remember there is always someone else in worse shape.
No easy solution or quick fix. But take it slow. Remember these girls are pros so it will take time to ensure you are not getting played.
Sounds like you are leaning toward helping with the operation again. If so, get the price independently on your own for verification. Also realize she will need 'support' for awhile after, which will be added to your bill. If you get into that situation as well, then be specific on exactly how much and for how long you will pay.
As for being 17 again...it feels freakin' great sometimes! Especially now 'cuz your old man can't scream at you for acting stupid! Of course instead there are a lot of others that call you stupid but at least now you can tell them to f*ck off and they can't ground you for a week!
I feel better already!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:00 pm on Sep. 7, 2004
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ok
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thanks ja
feel better already almost.
ps. guys if any of you go to annie's please tread carefully. I don't want my girl to think she is being spied upon. I do actually think she is genuine but then...
i'm going to give up the eye op for the mo.
but might go back end of oct to see her again (no pun intended) - yes 17 why not?!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 10:30 am on Sep. 8, 2004
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JohnnyToronto
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Hey ok.
I know this girl very well. I have visited her at Annies 3 times this year. She is real nice lady!
Are you going to buy her out from Annies again at the end of October?
Keep us posted on what happened with her. I am curious.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 9:47 pm on Oct. 14, 2004
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ok
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jt
thanks for that. does she email you?
i'm not going out to thailand again until after xmas so I guess we'll continue our email + phone 'relationship'.
anyway the older girls do seem to make more sense - if that's possible.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:43 am on Oct. 16, 2004
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ok
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jt
when did you visit?
can I ask a personal question?
does she blow you without a condom?
she tells me she does this only with me and she won't kiss anyone on the lips except me.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:47 am on Oct. 16, 2004
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langwood
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OK wrote: <i>does she blow you without a condom?
she tells me she does this only with me and she won't kiss anyone on the lips except me.</i>
That may be tru for the first (few) times with a new guy. She blows me without condom. Next time it will probably be CIM. Last time I was with her a guy from Sweden send her a SMS. But she was busy of course... 
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Posted on: 2:17 pm on Oct. 16, 2004
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buxeda
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ok, go to bkk, do some s/t's and you will feel just fine. no doctor needed.
good luck
bux bunny
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 3:33 pm on Oct. 16, 2004
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ok
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langwood
when you say her do you mean no. 21?
is she just like the rest?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:16 am on Oct. 17, 2004
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