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cubyking
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I have read that if you get a girl from a go go or beer bar and then go back and take a different girl its bad for the girl and you will be called a butterfly.
Does this apply to message parlors as well?
Does it apply to the edan club?
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:52 pm on June 28, 2002
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ABC
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cubyking:
I believe that no matter where a person is or really what they do, they can still be labled a "butterfly".
But...........
because the females do not have much if any contact with you before you chose then at an MP, you probably will not hear about it or have it affect you. Does that make sense?? Since there is more social interaction between a the man and working female at the Go Go clubs, G-clubs, and beergardens it is easier for a male to hear the word "butterfly". At an MP, you chose the female and then up to the room with her. 1 1/2 hours - 2 hours and she is back downstair again. Sorry if my point is not that clear.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 9:23 pm on June 28, 2002
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cubyking
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I understand excactly what your saying.
Thanks for the insight. I want to take a few messages when I'm there and I didn't want to step on onyones toes.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:49 pm on June 28, 2002
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pinga
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Well, a word on this,
This is a very interesting topic and was discussed a couple of times in this forum. Look, for a customer there is no problem to take as many girls you want from the same place if you would like to. The "problem" is for the first girl you bar-fined. If you are a tourist, you may not realise that the issue is a bit "hard" to understand and explain. Some butterfly shit is involved as well.
There are several examples. The most common one is that the "second" bar-fined girl taken by a customer will slightly tease the "first one". Then, the chain reaction is a f_cking experience that you don't wanna see....Some gossipings start raising up and within minutes you will see the "other" girls saying something like the "first" one was not good enough in bed and that's why the customer chose another one. That she is too dark-skinned and the other a bit white and so many other shit comments on this. Finally, the first "bar-fined" girl will LOSE THE f_ckING FACE (I hate this terminology) and this is a serious topic for Thai people. No matter we talk about a normal working lady or a bar girl.
Thus, my suggestion is to AVOID bar-fine more than one girl from the same GG-bar. There are hundreds of bars and Go-Go bars and you'll certainly find another stunner according to your taste. Believe me, I saw scary examples near the bathrooms (GG Bars). Once I saw one girl crying and screaming as mad after "loosing face" coz of her Chinese "boyfriend". STICKMAN also posted that even some cuties start to self-injure themselves after LOSING FACE....I haven't seen this so far. Remember, you can play a fool with several of them during a night or even during different ocassions. That is not a problem, they will call you BUTTERFLY. But this does not mean they will lose face coz you invite a drink to another girl the next time you go.
Try to avoid taking different girls from the same bar. At the MPs there is no problem. WE ARE BUTTERFLIES. This is what we f_cking are and there is no problem if the girls called you like this. This only does matter when you really start a "serious" relationship. In such a case, butterflies are a bit discriminated. But who cares if we are here to jump from one girl to another (bar to bar) all the time.....Don't ask me why this concept is too difficult to understand. The cuties I asked say that they DO NOT LOSE FACE at the MPs but certainly do at the Beer bars and GGs. Can you believe this?
Bahhhhh there are hundreds of Beer-bars and GG-bars. Do them a favor by not paying a bar-fine for different girls from the same bar in different ocassions. This advice is not applicable to EDENS for example or any MP.
STUPID concept this one of LOSING FACE but this is how the things are going according to my little experience. You may disagree. Just wanted to make a point here. Good Luck!!
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 9:14 am on June 29, 2002
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nokna
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i don't agree.
have had many girls from same go-go and bars.
no problems.
was encouraged to take others by the first in some places.
from one go-go took 3 separately and then all together.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:05 pm on June 29, 2002
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ABC
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cubyking:
Here's another approach you might take. This is one that my friend does. It still does not spare him from sometimes being labeled a butterfly, but they cannot claim they did not know.
When he meets a female and wants to take them out, no matter where he meets them he is up front with them. He tells them that he does not want a gf, a serious relationship or any expectations about seeing him in the future. He also explains that he might come back to the same place and take someone else out. And then asks if this will be a problem. My friend is a corporate lawyer and can say all this is a nice, politically correct, but to the point way. He tells both the female and the Manager/mamasan/papasan. İAfter he is done, we make sure his message is understood, because our translator will talk to them in Thai reiterating his points. Of course there is never a problem, but the female knows that it's probably a one-night event. That does not stop them from trying to persuade him in a different direction, but he never has gone back on his word. When he goes back into any establishments where he has taken a female out before, he is polite to her and says hello, but if he is not interested, he just moves on. Like I said, there has never been a problem yet when he has gone back and taken another female out.
Just something to give you a different spin on this "butterfly" issue.
(Edited by ABC at 9:45 pm on June 30, 2002)
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:43 pm on June 29, 2002
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cubyking
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Thanks for the advice guys.
I will be staying close to the action so I dont want any hassles if I pick someone else up.
But I want to pick someone else up.
I guess honosty would be the best policy.
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Posted on: 8:21 pm on June 29, 2002
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ABC
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cubyking:
Try Emmanuelle, Caesars, Mirage or Poseodon. The MP's I've mentioned are what I would consider the higher end/larger MP's. Thus, I think they attract the best looking females. Just my opinion though!!
Happy hunting!!
(Edited by ABC at 12:07 am on July 1, 2002)
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 9:00 pm on June 29, 2002
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Bigin
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Cubyking;
Dont sweat it, bro. because if it's your first time there,you'll get labled anyway. You'll see what I mean when get to hunting. Like Pinga said, it realy effects the tg's more than it does you. My girlfriends make it a point to remind me not pick 9 or 10 tg's. They say 4 or 5 is ok and if you do that (provided your budget allows), then you should'nt have a problem. Reason being is they saw already that you "DA MAN" taking 4-5 tg's in the first place. So when you go back or somewhere else you should'nt have a Problem.
If i'm sporting my 2 girlfriends and we're out partying and I want more they're usealy the ones who select for me. Let me tell you that sure works for me. Last point doing it this way is to treat them equal puuuulleeez! Hope it helps bro....
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:07 am on June 30, 2002
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