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James Velvet
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Hmmm...
Last year I meet this non working girl after only 2 days in phuket and stayed with her 2 weeks. Not 100% with her, did get of with a couple of BG also (think she find out about that also).
Stayed in touch with her a few months from home but havent called her sinse december (she did send me alot of SMS's) .
She was great but who can an be faithful in phuket? - I can't..!!
Dont know what to do now - going there in august - Can I be a player with her around?
A few of my options:
- Contact her directly and stay with only her, not that funny!
- Contact her after a few days of barflying and then stay with only her, also not that funny (Maybe she will found out what I been up to)
- Dont contact her at all, can she be upset about that to?
I dont wanna get caught i a messy "He's shitty, let's kick as"
Come on veterans, advice is welcome and FR will be up while on site..
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:34 pm on July 16, 2003
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dagul
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JV,
My advice is to stay clear of that whole situation. Why do you go to Phuket - the girls and island atmosphere right??? If you get involved with 1 person you take away from the whole experience (unless you want to be exclusive and spend everynight with the same chick probably spending all your money on the same chick) or... (spend your vacation ducking and hiding trying to bang BG's on the side, which is no way to spend your vacation all stressed out). I know it can be hard when these girls put the trance on us but you have to remain strong bro. Just have fun while you're there, meet different women, and relax. The last thing you need is to have a watchful eye over you when your in the LOS.
If you absolutely have to be with this girl - make Phuket all about her and BKK and Pattaya all about everything else. But next thing you know she'll be talking about "love" and "marriage" and think about it - is that what you really want? Personally I'm not trying to travel that route. Good luck and be strong...
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:10 pm on July 16, 2003
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James Velvet
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Good advice dagul..
So, I see that the smartest is to forget about ìthe girlî, party as usual and just see what it turns out to.
Well anyway, soon of to Phuket and Iím gonna enjoy of what the island offer in both TG, food, beaches and diving.
Last year I think I payed only 200 BF from the bars at Soi Eric, could it really be that cheap?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 9:19 am on July 17, 2003
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nokna
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James.
if you like her,see her again.
if she was fun to be with and a good companion inside and outside the bedroom then see her and enjoy her company.
do you tell her you are coming?,hard call,but up to you.
but imagine how she will feel if you bump into her while you have a girl on each arm.
did she think you thought her special?.
i could'nt be faithful while staying in Patong.
over a period of 11 months and 3 trips i had 3 'special' friends.
they all knew about the others and mostly not a problem,but there were times when things went wrong.
i tried to make sure that if i was with one,the others never saw me with them.
but they were BG's and you say the girl you met is not.
that is the problem in my eyes.
BG's accept men butterflying,but does 'your' girl understand?.
i wish you luck and hope you come to the decision which you feel happy with.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:59 pm on July 17, 2003
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3cazzi
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If you spent 2 weeks with the same girl, evidently, it was fun for you as for her...
If I was you I wouldn't renounce to the view of that special grin on girls face when they unespectately see you again one year later...
But don't espect nothing else and don't let her to espect anything as well.
In Patong one year is like a decade, many things may be different... so as you already realised, just take it easy and see what happens.
Only one advice... don't forget that after few days in Patong, all the girls will gossip about you so, don't even try to hide from that girl...
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:19 am on July 18, 2003
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China Sailor
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I agree with 3cazzi, the intelligence organization of the BG community would make Isreali Intelligence envious. If you are in town, she will know.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:02 am on July 18, 2003
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James Velvet
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Damm it, feel so much as a newbie listen to you all.
One thing more, I THINK she's not a workinggirl.. But who knows? I do know she's not a BG but maybe a FL???
She "works" in a beautysaloon but didnt hardly needed to be there while with me, study english, did have a european boyfriend before - all that ring the bells, right?
I also had all that usual "sick mother, no money, needs medicine" stuff... But she never ever ask'ed for anything and I only supported her with 5-10k - Can't get it right, maybe just a "looking-for-good-men-with-dollars" type.
Hmm.. We did have sex the first night - thats not common for a non working Thai girl (I think).
Well I dont give a shit, I do accept the game we/they all playing there.
Think I contact her after a few days, tell her I lost her number, are here with a few friends to scuba and just wanted to see how she is..
From that we will see, she has to understand that I need to spend some time with my travelcompany at the bars..
Maybe I can tell the hotel to warn me if she's wanna surprise me in the morning - Or just do like Nokna say goodmorning with a smile "You did't show up last night, were where you?"
Yeehaa!!
A good word for all you other newbees - DONT promise anything you cant keep up to.
I newer promise anything and that make both me and the girls keeping the face i all situations.
Treat them with respect, true respect comes around..
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:46 pm on July 18, 2003
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JHolmesJr
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Why dont you just tell her the truth? That you kinda like her and all that goes with it. But you like butterflying as well. Easier said than done, but think of the rewards if she's cool with it.
Once I met a girl in a short time bar in Pattaya and she said she had no problem with guys she was into f_cking around. As long as they told her. She even offered to accompany me and pick out a girl we could both enjoy. I said ok and everyone was a winner.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 2:14 am on July 20, 2003
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Mr Alan
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This sounds suspiciously like a Bud Lite commercial.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:44 am on July 20, 2003
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