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nokna
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here you are Guys,or should I say to those who are interested.
an update.
i feel a fraud on the Board as I have not visited LOS for 2 1/2 Years and have no useful info anymore (if I ever did).
but just to tell of some Girls I met and what has happened since.
i first visited in May/June 2000 and met the first Girl I fell in love with.
her name was Bai and we never got it together again on later visits of mine.
she left Phuket and told me she went to BKK and was learning to be a beautician (do I believe her?),but she mails me 1-2 times a Month and tells me how she is doing.
she sends me Photos every now and then and I like the fact that after so long she keeps in touch.
2 Years after meeting Bai I met her Sister Noy.
we are also still in touch and she is now working in a Bar in Soi Seadragon because Rockhard closed and she did'nt like the place when it re-opened.
on my 2nd trip I met a Girl called Sa (people may remember she was thought of as having healing hands and was convinced she would be dead by the time she was 40)
this was over 3 Years ago and she is now around 36 and back home in Buriram with her Son.
we are in touch all the time and she tells me all about her Son growing up and how he gets on at school etc.
she still talks about her 'impending' death and that makes me cry when I read her words.
she was such a fantastic loving person and I loved spending time with her,i just hope her predictions of her death prove to be wrong.
every Year she sends me a Birthday/Christmas and Valentines Card,she is a total darling.
i also spent time with another Girl called Sa on trips 3-5.
she was another older Girl and got into the BG scene late.
not pretty but a bundle of fun and great to spend time with.
we had our fallings out and she once took an overdose because of me (nothing really serious,just a token gesture) but she left me a note which I carry everywhere with me.
but it taught me a lesson,it showed me that the Girls may be doing what they do but they are also Human beings and should be treated as such.
she told me that she had a man from Australia who wanted to marry her,but she kept telling him no.
well 2 Years ago she finally went to Australia to be with him and took her 2 Children and it seems she is very happy.
she sends me Photos of her new life and everyone looks very happy and I am so glad that she has made a go of things.
she was such a sweet girl and funnily enough I always felt guilty taking her to my bed.
but what of my #1 Girl,Nok?
this Girl rocked my life and changed my view of many things.
i know many will think of her as just a prostitute and I am stupid in feeling the way I did/do about her,but she was an incredible Woman.
we talked many times and I learnt a lot from her about the life of these Girls and I will always remember her for that.
i travelled to her village and met the family and had such a great time,her Son was such a great little fella.
i fell in love with her instantly and regret the times I was bad to her and she got upset,but the good times far outweigh the bad times.
i needed to be with her and we talked about her coming to the UK and I started the process of getting her a Visa.
i found the process complicated and long-winded but decided to stick with it.
but in the end I bottled it,i could not go through it and to my shame I told her that she could not come to the UK and be with me.
i got scared of making the commitment after many Years of being footloose and fancy free.
i wish I had been in contact with a friend of mine who also met a BG who worked in the same Soi as Nok and made the decision to bring here to the UK.
he is now happily married in the UK with kids and I envy him so much and am disgusted with my failure to go through with what I wanted.
however Nok has now left the Nightlife scene and is back in her Village with her Son and that makes me so happy.
every Saturday I ring her on the landline phone which is outside her house and we talk and I get all the news of her current life and what she is doing each Week.
she tells how well her Son,Wat is doing at School and all the sports.
i love to hear all the silly little things she tells me and many times I have shed a tear.
she always tells me not to cry,but sometimes it is hard.
my Filipino GF has no idea I keep in touch with Nok and I know it would hurt her so much if she knew I was talking to Nok each Week.
but I cannot cut myself off from Nok and like my Weekly chats.
they remind me of what she was like and what a great person she was.
i know that I will probably perceived as very silly but Nok was one in a Million and I think many of the Members have met a Girl who was so special.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:41 pm on Nov. 20, 2004
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Hugh Jardon
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Nokna
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i feel a fraud on the Board as I have not visited LOS for 2 1/2 Years and have no useful info anymore (if I ever did).
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Your Field Reports on these girls were always very interesting and entertaining. They illustrate better than most, the essence of the relationship that can exist between the Farang guys and BGs, which will never change. These reports should therefore be required reading for Newbies and for that reason alone, you have earned yourself as much right to post on the Forum as anybody.
I predict that within another two and a half years, you will be back in LOS with Nok. It isn't every week that one bumps into a girl in a million and you have one that you love and who loves you in return. So stop playing silly buggers and get it on with her, for crissakes!
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 5:43 pm on Nov. 21, 2004
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Addy 007
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Hi Nokna,
thanks for sharing, and giving us all an insight into your thoughts and feelings for these wonderful girls.
Does it really matter that they are 'prostitutes'...? Not to me it doesn't - they still deserve to be treated with respect and humility. These girls are some of the most loyal, loving girls we are ever likely to meet.
As long as 2 people are happy together, then I believe nothing else really matters.
It was, and still is a dream of mine to marry a T/G and bring her to the UK to live together, and maybe one day this will happen.
I also keep in regular contact with a few girls, and I sent a txt to one recently reminding her not to forget her sister's birthday, as she did 2 years ago, when we first met.
She was absolutly stunned that I managed to remember this, and she was so happy. She couldn't quite believe it, and I hadn't even met her sister, who still lives in Laos, with her family.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:54 pm on Nov. 21, 2004
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ParadiseSeeker
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Nokna - your field reports are the best stories I've seen here. While the bars change from time to time and who is in them changes, what your posts and reports illustrate best is what the girls are like as people - and that doesn't change much. Your reports show us what can and does happen in this strange cultural intermingling we do.
It's good to see that you've kept in touch with the girls. A good friend is the most valuable thing to have, regardless of distance.
Next time you're in SEA let me know, I'll buy you a beer or three.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 11:09 pm on Nov. 21, 2004
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madmane
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Nokna -
I remember the 1st time I stumbled onto this site. I remember because it was your FRs that got me hooked. I read all of them! We even emailed each other a view times to share pics.
In short, I enjoy your writing very much and the information you have to share. It's the MAIN reason why I continue to visit this site.
Take care,
-m
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:27 am on Nov. 22, 2004
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Bok Hah
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Hi Nokna, it's great that you still keep in touch with Nok, but it must be painful at times?
As you know I brought my "Nok" here over 8 years ago and we have a great (most of the time) life with 2 lovely kids. Whatever the future brings for either of you, I hope it's a good one.
BH
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:29 pm on Nov. 23, 2004
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LocalYokul
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meant to post to this thread for a while now
today I was listening to Smashing Pumpkins & I was reminded of my time in Phuket
The song had so much meaning back then & still is an excellent reminder
Today - Smashing Pumpins : excerpt, click for full lyrics
"
Today is the greatest
Day I've never known 
Can't wait for tomorrow
I might not have that long
I'll tear my heart out
Before I get out
"
You've just gotta have a lot of respect for a guy who can keep contact with these gals
I was in love with a young sex machine down in Phuket (Oradee from Irish Bar) until I got her first letter asking me for money, 555
The other guys, even my close friends, laughed at me, so I didn't bother telling anyone else about her request, and I never sent any money
It must really be tough corresponding with these other gals w/o being caught by your current PI GF
PI gals really despise the idea/opinion that most men prefer TGs over them
I've since fallen temporarily in love with TOO MANY TGs, most recent are in some of my FRs, like MCF of FLB
She wasn't playing any games, when she sent SMS/text messages like "where U ?, I want drink", 555
but I couldn't help but feel that If I'd met her 10 years ago, she'd be Mrs. LY now 
Another that could easily be fallen for at FLB is Lek. I would link to her photo, but she hasn't got a photo posted on FlbBar.com right now.
Similar to Eye, her roomate, very hot 
Nowadays, I'm too jaded to really fall for any of these girls. It usually fades after the 3rd romp, when they start being a little too honest 
Great story, but I don't know how you do it, sounds like you have a lot on your plate 
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:29 am on Nov. 24, 2004
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Macumba
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Nokna, I have also enjoyed your reports. Came back many times to look for all of them. You also sent me some pictures to put real faces on certain names.
Please do us a favor and don't retire from Phuket. There must be some way for you to visit again in the future...
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:32 am on Nov. 24, 2004
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Gus
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Great stuff Nokna, with your from the heart, no BS stories you have enlightened the life in LOS for many newbies.
Hopefully you will return to Phuket some time, if you do make sure you post your reports
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:22 am on Dec. 2, 2004
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