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PolePolisher
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Here's some quotes from some of the members on the subject of respect in relation to BG's posted in recent topics in this thread.
Topic - Men in their golden years
Go for broke and treat them the females with respect and you will be rewarded.
BUT, one common trait we all share is that we treat the ladies with respect and as a "lady".
Like Dave said, treat the females with respect and you will have a great time.
So age seems little or no barrier, providing you follow the rest of the rules about appearance, manner and respect.
no matter how old you are/what you look like,just treat them with respect and you will have a friend for life.
Kudo's!!
Respect them and they will be your friend for life!!
Topic - Modern Day Attitudes
if you treat others with respect and consideration, they respond in kind.
As to others "always" responding to respect and consideration - I'd say yes but there is a selection process - it doesn't work with people who will see that as vulnerability and try to take you for all they can.
I have always treated every lady as a potential LLT TIlac... in other words with tremendous respect and like a real GF.
I paid her well, I fed her and paid her way into movies etc as well as being very respectful of her.
Watch the eyes of the beer bar girls next time someone is throwing the baht around, ringing the bell and carrying on...the one thing you won't see there is "respect".
Topic - Thoughts on 'prostitution'
Whichever it is, I would always be polite and respectful in my treatment of her, because I know a reasonable amount about Thai girls, their backgrounds, culture, etc.
I believe that I have been lucky with the BGs during all my past visits and I think the reason is precisely because I have always been kind, considereate and respectful of them as human beings.
Topic - "Real" girls?
Respect them ALL.
Topic - You guys are right
Said I was the only man she ever did this respect thing for other than her father bla bla bla.
Topic - Whores, prostitutes and bar girls
If you treat them nice and with a little respect.
whore is a subjective term that shows no respect, I will not use it
Topic - Good Girls I thought I knew
Thai arrogance and its total disregard and lack of respect for anything non-Thai
If you show them that your trust has to be earned, and that it can take years, then you will gain a lot of respect.
Respect given is cheap, respect received is priceless
A lot of advice there advocating big respect for BG's with very few dissenters. How many of you really do respect these BG's as opposed to pretending to respect them? How does this respect manifest it's self, I mean surely all these comments are not just stating the bleeding obvious don't be nasty to BG's if you want a good shag, GFE or whatever? Finally any Thai speakers or insiders who can give us the lowdown on how much respect the average BG gives the punters? Over to you...
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:51 am on May 28, 2005
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Bangkok Chang
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At the risk of repeating myself.
Bargirls get men and money easily. They know both can be replaced in their next night down the bar.
I used to think differently but 18 months with one, listening to what she and her friends say, and especially looking at what they get up to, and my thinking has been changed.
They have their "Thai" lives, with their girlfriends, boyfriends, family, gambling, deceit, lies, thieving, scams, drugs, beauty treatments, tatoos, implants, and the gold. They don't want farangs poking their noses into that. They do want farangs, to replace the money they lost yesterday however.
If the farang asks too many questions there is always another one in the bar tonight to replace him.
Customers and money are expendable commodities. Nothing more and nothing less.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 3:01 am on May 28, 2005
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scobie
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I don't respect them. Fullstop.
Neither do I particularly like them much.
I do love Thailand, though.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:35 am on May 28, 2005
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Hugh Jardon
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Pole Polisher
You obviously have far too much time on your hands to look up all of those quotes, or perhaps the search engine furnished them for you. I recognised some of them as being mine.
It is interesting, as you say, that this is the word that is most commonly used to describe the way that Farang guys ought to treat the girls.
Equally I suppose, other words might be kindness, consideration, caring, thoughtfully, tenderly, etc. To some extent, "respect" is a word that seems to encapsulate most of those other words.
A lot of advice there advocating big respect for BG's with very few dissenters. How many of you really do respect these BG's as opposed to pretending to respect them? How does this respect manifest it's self, I mean surely all these comments are not just stating the bleeding obvious don't be nasty to BG's if you want a good shag, GFE or whatever? Finally any Thai speakers or insiders who can give us the lowdown on how much respect the average BG gives the punters? Over to you...
In reply to your questions,
Do you think that punters would really fake the respect thing? I think that it is more a state of mind, or attitude. The guys that respect the girls are probably naturally well mannered and courteous to others. It is a hard thing to fake convincingly.
As you say, I think that it really is as simple as you suggest. It is an easy connection to make that if you treat others with kindness and consideration (respect), then they respond in the same way. It doesn't take a towering intellect on the guy's part to realise that by treating the girls in this way, he will get a better shag or a GFE. The more interesting question, is whether it is the girls that instigate this behaviour, or whether it is them responding to the guys initial treatment of them.
As to the question of how Thai speakers might comment on whether the TGs show respect to the Farangs, Bangkok Chang may well be right. It is as easy for them to find another guy as it is for any guy there to find another girl. That doesn't mean to say that they don't appreciate being treated well by a guy. The essence of the whole thing is that at its most basic level, the transaction is payment of money for sex and in Farangland, a quick in and out, one cum and get your trousers on, goodbye, is as basic as it gets. In LOS, we all know that it is different. Maybe the girl does view it as merely a job, a means to an end. The punter views it just as sexual gratification. Sometimes, the lines get blurred. After all, sexual intercourse is the most intimate personal act and naturally many human emotions are brought into play through it. Who amongst us would argue that the entire experience is not enhanced by the girl "acting" like a girlfriend?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 3:52 am on May 28, 2005
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Bangkok Chang
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What came out of my 18 month liaison is that many, if not most, of the girls have boyfriends with whom they "make love".
They resent having to give farangs sex for money but we have the money.
Sometimes an over-enthusiastic farang leaves the girl sore and the Thai boy knocks the girl about.
It's the fault of the farang, not the Thai boy, I assure you.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:00 am on May 28, 2005
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dirty guru
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Very scary.
To think I once was not so long ago innocent.
Get it through your heads its business.
Offically they do have hearts, but we are FARANGS>
You would be interested to know that you are only a money situation.
Some do fall in love.
Mostly the respect thing works advantagously to both.
She hopes more..>> f***s better, gets more money /gifts if long/time.
IF short time you might not want to have her every which way.
The farang gets a little illusion.
They dont like farangs and are all racist.
Dickheads respect them
players pretend to.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:02 am on May 28, 2005
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Quote: from dirty guru on 4:14 pm on May 28, 2005
The farang gets a little illusion.
I must be wising up then. As of now I think in terms of whether I'm game for some of that illusion or not.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:12 am on May 28, 2005
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PolePolisher
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Glad to see there are some realists here. Personally I try to be polite to everybody as matter or course, but respect for BG's just because she's a BG, no way, like most things of value respect has to be earnt. I don't respect lying, cheating, deception or laziness, but hey that's just old fashioned me.
I suspect that all this big respect for the BG's going on is more about the punters perceived self respect than any real respect for the BG they happen to be BF'ing.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:50 am on May 28, 2005
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Bangkok Chang
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Well said DG.
Just remember, if you are gentle with the lady because you respect her, and you perhaps don't do everything you might want to do with her, but pay her anyway, she will think you a fool and then let her boyfriend have what you just paid for - for free.
Then they'll crack jokes about the stupid farang tossing himself off.
After which the lady will go and buy her hero a gold chain with your money, because he's a real man and not a fool like you.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:58 am on May 28, 2005
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buxeda
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i like your last post pp. I treat the girls nice, but if they try to fool me, I let them know that they cant do it quickly. I give respect to the ones that give it to me. a farang who overpays and let bgs fool him, does not receive any respect from the girls.
bux
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:16 am on May 28, 2005
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