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Scuba Sam
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I have a mate whose new long term GF is his former regular BG. That is no big deal in itself.
He is the last guy I thought would ever fall for a BG - its pretty clear to me that he "loves" her and that she is happy to have a full time sponsor. I feel that she is milking him for all she can get. He is back in farangland and sending money each month - and she is back in Thailand - back at the family home in North East nowhere. I know it will do no good but I feel I should tell him he is being bled.
Now here is the next hurdle.
I was once a one-time-only customer of this girl. It shouldn't matter to him - but it probably will now that he acts like she is the blessed virgin.
I firmly believe that she will "let slip" about our brief past whenever she thinks it will do her the most good - like if I try to reason with him about what he is doing.
Anyone ever been in this sort of situation? Any thoughts on admitting or denying the past if or when it surfaces? Any thoughts on the pointless of trying to tell someone something they don't want to hear?
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:58 pm on Nov. 22, 2005
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modusoperandi
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This all depends on how good of a friend he is and how much common sense he possesses. Unfortunately, I know too many guys who let the pussy invade and fill up the gaps in their brain where the grey matter is supposed to process logic. In the best case scenario he'll come to his senses about the whole thing in the worst case scenario he'll act like a jilted lover and go on the attack.
First of all he's sponsoring her from overseas which is the dumbest f***ing thing ever. I still don't understand this because I don't know a single sponsored girl who remains faithful to the sponsor. To this day I have f***ed 3 girls who all had sponsors. I am still friends with one and she tells me all about her exploits. If you ever get this insight into their world you will realize that sponsoring sight unseen is the biggest scam ever. Meanwhile she'll be yucking it up with guys like me or a thai boyfriend who horns her on the side for nothing. If he's been doing this for awhile then i'll just automatically assume he's judgement impaired.
Second of all he's practically married to his frequent p4p girl. This is such a fundamental no no. Once you get into a longterm pay relationship with a girl it's impossible to wean her off the view that you are a customer. It's true there are p4p girls out there who marry their sponsors but the concept of "love" will never exist in a western sense. It will always be a bit of a parasitic relationship.
In my opinion, you can try talking to him about it but it will probably be pointless. Some guys are deadset on learning the hardway. Survival of the fittest is what I say.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 12:27 am on Nov. 23, 2005
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ftumch
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Sam
This has been aired on the forum many times before. And there is still no answer. You will get an even split between those who say you should tell him and those who say you should keep your mouth shut. In any event you will be damned if you do and damned if you don't.
Personally, I would want to know if one of my mates or acquaintances had f***ed my missus before me. Then at least armed with the information I have a choice. Better that than finding out later when its all gone down the pan. Mates are forever. TG's are temporary. So on that basis I would tell him. If you get flak so be it.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:35 am on Nov. 23, 2005
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bimmher
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modusoperandi,
I didn't catch the part where he married her? Just sponsored her.
Scuba Sam,
IMHO your f***ed. If you tell him you did his girl he will most likely be pissed at you or more.
If you don't tell him and the girl does at some point he will be pissed at you or more for not telling.
If you try to tell him he is being milked he will not want to believe you.
If he later finds out you did his girl he will think you told him he is being milked because you did his girl in the past and still want to do her.
Anyway you look at it you are f***ed.
You could try to pop up the question that maybe for a small fee compared to how much he is spending sponsoring her he might want to double check that she is telling him the trurth.
Read the thread from TPE II posted just back awhile, sure he could burst your mates bubble in no time. Also then it would not be your fault but someone else's.
bimmher
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 12:39 am on Nov. 23, 2005
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expatchuck
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Sam:
Keep your mouth shut.
If it ever comes up...deny, deny, deny.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 12:41 am on Nov. 23, 2005
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modusoperandi
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Quote: from bimmher on 2:18 pm on Nov. 23, 2005
modusoperandi,
I didn't catch the part where he married her? Just sponsored her.
My fault for reading that too quick, I thought he was about to marry her or intended to.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:42 am on Nov. 23, 2005
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Baskoy
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I was going to post my opinion but Expatchuck said it for me.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:45 am on Nov. 23, 2005
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Abrak
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Quote: from Scuba Sam on 1:36 pm on Nov. 23, 2005
I have a mate whose new long term GF is his former regular BG.
I hate to be pedantic but what exactly is a 'new long term GF'?
Personally, I focus on 'future ex GFs'.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:57 am on Nov. 23, 2005
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ColoradoGuy
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What makes you think the girl will bring it up to the guy? A TG admitting she did something 'bad' out of the blue on her own?
If she's had lots of customers, she might not even remember you.  Me thinks you think too much.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 1:00 am on Nov. 23, 2005
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harold444
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yeah shut up and mind your own busnit............lol.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:09 am on Nov. 23, 2005
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