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NicFrenchy
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Never thought I'd be asking these type of questions here but I am in a little weird situation.
I am seeking advice from Members who are non-P4P experts.
(I know P4P more than enough already).
For the last month, I have been seeing this sales girl from the Paragon Department store. She works at the Males clothes section and god knows how we came to talk and exchange numbers.
One thing about me is that no matter how many numbers I get, I usually never call; I am very comfortable with P4P and do not seek a relationship (already had 2 and the girls were a total disaster).
Well, I broke my habit and called her, we went to eat a few times, dance, movies and she's quite pleasant company as her english is very good. I have no intention of having a serious relationship with her, she knows I must have other girlfriends even though I tell her I have none.
She never asked me about P4P so I never said a word about it.
the last 3 times we saw each other, we had sex.
My question is about the third and last encounter :
we went back to my place and had a drink, watched a movie then started to play with each other. As I was getting ready to open the condom, she asked me not to use one. She said she does not like the feel of the condom.
I told her that I have to wear it and put it on anyways.
After sex, she told me that next time she does not want to have sex with condom.
How do I bring up the subject of STD's? she's had Thai boyfriends before and looks clueless about STD's... I could ask her to take a test but even then I am not very keen on havin unprotected sex with her.
She could have still a Thai Boyfriend, she could try and have me get her pregnant?
A lot of thoughts are racing through my head... Damn, P4P is so easy LOL you don't have such problems.
Thanks in advance for your help
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:24 am on April 14, 2007
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DaffyDuck
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Quote: from NicFrenchy on 1:09 am on April 15, 2007
I have no intention of having a serious relationship with her, she knows I must have other girlfriends even though I tell her I have none.
Sounds to me, from what you are telling us, that this girl does believe this is heading towards more serious bf/gf relationship status -- and that you are being a bit disingenious with her for your own benefit.
Either tell her what's up (i.e. that you don't want a serious relationship, that you are a butterfly, etc...), or figure out what it is that you want. Yes, you're going to have to be honest with her, and that will most likely result in a scene, and you losing her.
Your entire rationalisation and justification is about yourself (you being concerned that SHE has STDs, and that SHE could be a risk to you - never considering her side).
Just my $0.02 - take it for what it's worth.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 12:28 pm on April 14, 2007
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james bond
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you don't have to bring up STD, just tell her about her being pregnant, seems to me a bit suspicious she already wants the condom of, if it's hurting her tell you can use baby oil, just hope it's not one of them "i'm pregnant scams."
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:39 pm on April 14, 2007
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NicFrenchy
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Thanks guys.
Daffy,
I told her from the first day that I am NOT looking for a relationship of any kind. She knows I am a butterfly and teases me all the time to find out how many other girlfriends I have (I actually have none, but she does not believe me).
Of course I am concerned that SHE would have STD's... in your eyes, what would be her side then?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 12:55 pm on April 14, 2007
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Skip
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Ask her point blank why she doesn't fear becoming pregnant. Then sit back and listen up...
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 1:05 pm on April 14, 2007
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DrLove
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I think you're only concern is that you get infected and transfer it to your wife or steady gf, which is of course a very unwanted situation.
Furthermore, a 'good' Thai girl doesn't have sex after meeting a farang a couple of times. She's probably screwing around with more 'customers'..... caution is required.
I would say stop screwing around for sake of your own sanity...
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:15 pm on April 14, 2007
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nyc boy
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Quote: from james bond on 2:24 am on April 15, 2007
if it's hurting her tell you can use baby oil,
that has to be the worst advice ever. baby oil or any mineral type oil will break or deteriorate a latex condom. allowing STDS, and leakage to pass through.
any doctor, website, label on condom will tell you the same...
you might as well go bb....
Hey 007,
who gave you this advice??
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:33 pm on April 14, 2007
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LocalYokul
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Durex gel, NEVER baby oil
and IMHO this gal is trying to trap you in a pregnancy scam
no glove = no love
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:55 pm on April 14, 2007
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don5252
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Thai girl that doesn't want protection?, (it hurts), thats BS, t, I think you've had a lapse of common sense, before you become a papa or are wondering what those warts are, move on, Thai girls are a lot of fun but have a brain the size of a pea
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 8:02 pm on April 14, 2007
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Edge
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Frenchy,
Remember that you are the boss, thai style as you are in Thailand. She may want to be your mia noi. A kept lady.
Keep a condom on. Tell her that it is for her protection as you are screwing around with hookers and you want to take care of her health and do not want to pass stuff on to her. Think of all the dirty farangs that these girls go with. Use protection.
Hey, this is the truth as well and it puts your relationship on a proper footing. ie she is not the only one!
Frenchy, have you seen her apartment? Check it out and look for evidence of her live in 'brother'.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:31 pm on April 14, 2007
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