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saitnyen
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I have this TG I met at a SC bar some time back. She no longer works at that bar (confirmed by me being there enough times to know) and she claims she no longer works in a bar (also quite possible because I get around a bit). She is finishing her degree at University at this time.
None of the above is really relevant to my point but is simply background.
I call her every once in awhile and she's always game to provide her services. She extremely cute, petite and has basically a pretty perfect body. I always pay her 2000 baht for short time + taxi fare. She is a good performer, giving me in point of fact a world class BJ on at least one occassion. My only complaint if it is such is that she definitely puts the short in short time. Not that this is always a bad thing as I don't always want her lingering anyway.
So here comes the dilemma. This last time she asked me for 2,500 baht which I paid to avoid an incident. She claimed to be short on her rent. Now I fear I will have set her expectations for future encounters.
So I'm thinking about simply not calling on her again. What do you guys think?
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:36 pm on Feb. 14, 2010
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koolbreez
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You payed her too much to begin with. but oh well. As they say "Up to you", and at this point it is. She raised the bar, and you climbed over it.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 12:35 am on Feb. 15, 2010
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UK Shaga
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When she walks in to where you meet her, look at her and say, I am happy you are here, now this is the 2000 baht and let's get down to business.
If she does not give the same style service as before, do not call her again. If she moans about the 2000 baht, take it back before she starts doing what you pay her for and say, ok I take this and you go home now, bye.
If after her amazing BJ skills have satisfied you and she asks for more money and her BJ's where the same as before you just say, I already pay you, yes.
If you feel she went well and above the call of duty, nothing wrong with giving a bit more cash but point out to her the reason why you gave her the extra, it's not that you have good heart, or the rent is late, it is you f***ed me better this time. Keep up the good work.
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Posted on: 1:13 am on Feb. 15, 2010
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magnum
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... saitnyen... I enjoy a long-term relationship with a couple of ST Thai gurls, one of whom is alternatively in and out of the bar scene.
... these are not normal relationships and not easily developed, but worthwhile if you can get it right.
... we mount up maybe 2-3 times monthly over the last 3 years... I pay her a premium, THB 2,000, as she is a highly reliable and consistent monster f*** who has seldom stooged, or disappointed me over the years... when I have an immediate need for throw-down rodeo sex, she is about as thrilling as any 8-second ride I ever cleared (metaphorically speaking, of course).
... when we started out, I made clear to her that if we do this right, I could be a long-term 'friend'... part business (say 75%)... part pleasure (maybe 25%)... I am careful to keep my distance and confine our time together to between the sheets... it has really worked out pretty well.
... on occasion, she asks for help (maybe 1-3 times per year)... THB 5,000 to pay her son's school tuition; THB 3,000 to pay rent when she has been out of work for awhile, or had a bad month; THB 500 to get home for some family this or that.
... she doesn't abuse my generosity, and I do offer to help her... BUT... I do NOT give it to her while we are still at the rodeo.
... I explain that I am a bit short on cash just now, pay her the standard THB 2,000, and offer to meet her the next morning at a convenient BTS station where I give her an envelope, and clearly refer to it as special help to pay for whatever, for which I am glad to help.
... (this last part, giving it freely, without strings, is important... establishes your 'good heart'... some sort of weird moral compass Thais have for people with 'jai-dee').
... separate the issues... consider it a philanthropic giving by you to an underprivileged woman (and you KNOW these women were never little gurls hoping to grow up to be a whore some day, like their mommy).
... if she 'gets it', she will be grateful, maybe even obligated to you (that jai-dee thing), and perhaps see you as long-term cash flow, rather than short-term hit-and-run.
... if she abuses your generosity, bag her, go back to the corral, and search out another little filly to break and train.
... amortized over the years, the money I have donated to this wild little filly has worked out quite well.
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Posted on: 1:19 am on Feb. 15, 2010
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saitnyen
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Koolbreeze said:
"You payed her too much to begin with. but oh well. As they say "Up to you", and at this point it is. She raised the bar, and you climbed over it."
Actually the first time when I BF'd her I only paid her 1,500. I am happy to pay the small premium when I am not having to pay a BF.
I would not consider saying that if her performance were not up to snuff.
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Posted on: 2:13 am on Feb. 15, 2010
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MickTheKick
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Excellent advice here from UKS and Maggie...
It's a thin line... but walkable... did it myself for years...
In my case one of the girls came with an outrages amount of money she was asking for (some mortgage stuff...)
I politely denied and what is most interesting here is the fact that neither the asking nor the denial had a bad influence on our... thing... It seemed to me we both were finally reliefed that anything continued like before...
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Posted on: 3:53 am on Feb. 15, 2010
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magnum
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... ah, but saitnyen... as KoolBreeze points out, you have ALREADY climbed over the THB 2,500 bar that SHE raised... now, how to lower it.
... next time you two mount-up, suggest that you say absolutely nothing and pay her the standard THB 2,000 (afterward, of course).
... she sounds young, perhaps not yet hard-boiled... to avoid an uncomfortable conversation (and a certain face-losing situation for one of you), she might well say nothing... great.
... if she makes any noise about it, take note that you are being worked now (shields up)... you then ask (gently, caringly, of course) 'what's going on in your life right now' and for what reason she needs the 'EXTRA MONEY' (emphasis added)... force her into explaining it.
... you can then go into the 'I am a bit short on cash just now, can I call you tomorrow?' routine, making sure that she sees little more than the THB 2,000 when you unfold your bankroll.
... you then have the opportunity to not call her... she'll quickly get the message... be unavailable, elusive when she calls... 'can I call you back?'... then don't... make her persue.
... maybe move her onto the inactive disabled list for a while... find someone else with whom to romp... if you talk to her along the way, maybe lead her along with 'this is not a very good time for me... maybe when I get paid at the end of the month'... she'll then get the idea that you are not a flush ATM.
... unless, of course, you have broken the Cardinal Rule by inviting her to your penthouse at Emporium Suites... in which case, she SHOULD be onto you like a heat-seeking missle... quit your moaning and just PAY the poor little thang the THB 2,500!
... let us know if you are successful in maneuvering her back to center, and can cement yourself as a long-term cash flow for her.
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Posted on: 7:03 am on Feb. 15, 2010
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jibblies
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saitnyen, just out of interest, was she previously number 23 at Shark?
As for the 2500, I think you're worrying too much. She didn't say this was the new fee. She said she needed help with the rent once. Take what she said and just give her the 2000 next time. If she quibbles and says '2500 is actually my new fee', take it from there. But the chances are that she won't.
I remember a Baccara girl, a regular, suddenly asking me if I could pay 3000 this time instead of 2000 (she was used to Japs). I said no, pleasantly, and we continued as normal. She didn't ask me again but still continued to see me as usual.
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Posted on: 11:07 am on Feb. 15, 2010
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DaffyDuck
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A lot of guys worry about the 'risk' of declining a girl asking for more money -- don't. She'll find another sucker to pay more, and your relationship won't change.
On the contrary, if you give in to the request of more money, your relationship *will* change, for the worse.
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Posted on: 11:39 am on Feb. 15, 2010
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thailife
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tell her " money not good now but because we are suxk good frinds yopu can ssuk my cock and f*** me for free tonight. ok? If says ok, you just got a freebie, if she says no. f*** her, go find another slut.
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Posted on: 12:24 pm on Feb. 15, 2010
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