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kmanrox
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ok, i swore i wouldnt, but she's way too adorable not to... the 18yo anal bandit from pattaya, im importing her semi-permanently it seems.... This is opening a whole can of worms now....
1. I'm going to need a good English school to send her to in Sukhumvit, preferably in my area soi24/President Park... Would a school be best, or a private teacher, how about prices and recommendations on this?
2. I'm going to have to talk to her Mamasan in pattaya, BF is 200bht a day, I've had her for 2 weeks, and she loves me (obviously).... How do I go about wheeling and dealing to 'buy' out her contract, how much should it cost me from a beer bar in Pattaya?
3. Do I need to set an amount of money we will send her mother home each month? Apparently her mom has some sponsors or her own from europe and does pretty good...
This is new territory for me, so any advice on all of this would be great, thx =)
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:27 am on Dec. 3, 2002
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rami
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Hmmm,Kmanrox my man I think is a bad idea.........
She currently working at bar,so you will need to take care of her if she'll stay with you.Too much trouble IMHO.
After month or so,you will feell very uncomfortable with your decition,believe me I had this experience not once.
Do it if you cant stay without this girl,but abort all if it just for fun!!!!
Be young and free in BKK it's very important,so think twice before you get girl into your life,and more important Ýinto your appartment........
Good luck anyway !
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 5:37 am on Dec. 3, 2002
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Byron
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If you swore you wouldn't, then don't. It is that simple.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:28 am on Dec. 3, 2002
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thaiprivateeye
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Hey ... if it feels right, do it ! Ý Best schools are probably ECC or BCC, a couple just down from prakanong Skytrain, rates around 2,500 for a 30 hour course, which is usually 2 or 3 hours per day, Mon-Fri. A class probably better, they have about 5 different levels, so can guage what standard she is at. As to the bar, really she can walk out, especially at the end of the month, but if she thinks she may want to go back, or give some "face" to the Mamasan, a donation can be made, usually 5-10,000 tops, Ý- I strongly advise having her staying up country, with family, when you are not around, this is also cheaper, keeps her away from temptation, as to monthly payment, well, sort of as little as you can get away with I guess !! ask her what she needs, but 15-20,000 should be ample, especially if she does not have children, or others depending solely on her, of course if she is living with you, maybe 5000 for expenses, and 5000 for Mum should suffice - ÝOf course you know the hassles / problems involved, and the chances of a lifelong attachment are VERY thin, but hey, if you dont try you will never know, I think living with a BG is all part of the rich tapestry of life in Bangkok, - and something to be experienced, even if, as the saying goes at the start Ý- you have the money, and she has the experience - at the end, you had the experience, and she has the money !!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 7:05 am on Dec. 3, 2002
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kmanrox
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thx for the advice... she is fresh off the farm, doesnt speak a lick of english, and is a very happy girl... i don't know, maybe i'll keep her for a couple of weeks more just to test the waters.... she doesnt even have a cellphone so she doesnt even have the means to be a 'player' yet, unlike this current pattaya girl i imported, checked her phone and shes been calling teeraks all over the damn world while i've been napping and sending msgs while at dinner, how disrespectful, i think im going to send her back tomorrow.... it would be alot easier if she wasnt the hottest girl i've ever seen in pattaya... haha
anyhow, keep the advice comin, it's all good... thx
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 7:15 am on Dec. 3, 2002
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chuck davlin
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Kman:
I am a little confused on something here. ÝI have seen it on other threads so it must be happening but what is this about paying off her beer bar? ÝWhy would you even consider doing it? ÝIf she leaves her current beer bar and goes across the street to work, I can assure you the new employer will not reimburse the old one for her services. ÝWhy isn't this the same principal? ÝNow I am not new to Thailand. ÝBeen coming since 1976. ÝI have had some steadies and at least one wife and I have never paid a bar anything to get one out. ÝSomebody fill me in on why it is even considered, Ýplease.
As for her mother: ÝShe probably makes more money than you and me put together. ÝDon't give her anything!
I am sure this doesn't help but I would like some input on why the payout is necessary.
Chuck
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Posted on: 7:15 am on Dec. 3, 2002
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Byron
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Obviously you already have broken your promise, bad, bad boy.
I don't think it will be very constructive to go through all the warnings that are related to your case. Love is blind and we should be gratefull (in most cases) that it is.
I have never been aware of "real" contracts between the mamasan and the girl, better check that one out. You would not want your money to go there. English schools are a far better investment in your case.
As far as the mom is concerned, is that really something you should get involved with at this stage? Later yep, slowly, slowly!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:15 am on Dec. 3, 2002
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thaiprivateeye
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-re buying the girl out, sure, not a MUST, but remember, especially if she is new, she will have friends/sister etc. at the bar, if you dump her for a new model after a few months she may want to return, and the "face" is a big deal to Thais, hence some girls may ask/suggest, you pay something to the mamasam - if you can afford it, and it keeps everyone happy, why not - and also can add, on my very regular trips to "Ban nok" have yet to see many "Mums" richer than the average farang ... the vast majority live on under 100 bt a day, in a house with no hot water or air con - and are probably raising the daughters children, OK, a fair bit goes west on "see-sip degree" [ the local grog ] and the lottery, but by and large they dont have the greatest of lifestyles !
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Posted on: 8:05 am on Dec. 3, 2002
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tuk tuk dRiveR
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that new car smell will fade quickly.... =)
then you'll want a new car...
nuff said
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 8:08 am on Dec. 3, 2002
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griffin
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kman, if you want to do this smart. get her hooked up with a school so she has something to do in the day and also the nights you want to party in other territories! if you want her around you, do not let her move in with you, but get her a nice and cheap apartment somewhere in ramkhamheang or ratchada for about thb 4,000 a month!
this way you can send her home when you want and also call her to stay with you when you feel the need! so you get the best of both worlds. -> by the way just the same like the rich thais are doing this with there mai nois!
as for the monthly beside the costs covered for school and apartment i gave my girls usually another thb 5,000 a month + taxi money everytime they come to see me in my condo. this might be tough in bangkok but this way you will see if she really likes you or the easy life you are offering her. keep it down to a decent minimum otherwise she will get allures!
if you might dump her better pay a couple of 1k's to her bar to keep face but no legal must!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:56 am on Dec. 3, 2002
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