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cyborg
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Guys,
I am heading back to LOS in about 40 days. I will be seeing my metal heart melting sweetheart from last trip.
I of course think she is a gorgeous sweethearted lady and therefore I am beginning to think and look at her more as my GF then a BG. She looks hot in her somewhat tacky BG uniform but the need to dress like a slut to attract me is over. She has got me, she has won. Now I would like to find a tactful way of getting her to dress more like a GF. I am sure she has jeans and Tshirts at home. That is fine. I am sure she has some elegant dress she could wear when we go to some nice romantic dinners I have in mind.
I am open minded about her job and we have an agreement to not "Think about that too much because it makes her sad"
My obvious question is how do I get her to dress more tastefully/respectably etc? I know I can buy her the clothes I want her to wear and I will likely do that with a nice dress for a nice dinner. I have no desire to buy her a bunch of clothes and I am certain she has stuff I would find acceptable already.
I doubt she will want me to visit where she lives and see the squalor /crowding /TBF and other issues so I am at a loss to understand a smooth alternative to buying her c new wardrobe.
Any advice from bros would be much appreciated.
Cyborg
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:59 pm on Dec. 28, 2003
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ASIAN MAN
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run cyborg run ! ! ! 
i wouldn't keep the expectations too high.
tell us how it turned out, good luck.
yup, L. R. KICKS ASS ! 
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 2:44 pm on Dec. 28, 2003
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mosquito2002
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On every visit I end up spending atleast every 3rd day shopping (Big C), most of the shopping is for clothing or shoes.
Every shopping trip she always asked me if I liked what she picked out, be honest and I'm sure you both can agree on a set standard of dress.
After a couple of trips the only clothing she'll have is the stuff you both agreed on. This doesn't include the gold bracelet or necklace, that you'll get stuck buying.
So far, every trip I've got stuck buying her gold. Either upgrading her current jewerly (exchanging a 2 baht for a 3 baht) or just buying her something new. Figure on my next trip I'll find myself getting her another 3 baht of gold. Atleast she still has the jewerly I've bought her (no trading ins).
Don't want to seem like I'm bitching about buying her stuff, she's worth it and that's all that counts.
"You only live once"
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:11 pm on Dec. 28, 2003
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Ballsburstin
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Skeeter,
LOL, you adding to her gold "collection."
BTW, I noticed with my TGF that she initially bought stuff that was part of the standard BG-off-work uniform. She said it was "fashion," so I didn't say anything. I did notice when we were upcountry, she dressed a little differently in her village. I think she has a city and a country look, and dresses accordingly. Never asked her about this, just find it kind of amusing.
A year and a half later her tastes have changed, and if you saw her walking down the soi, you'd be hard pressed to identify her as an ex-BG from her dress and carriage. She is still a tad uncomfortable in an "expensive" (600 baht) dress, but I think that is more a perceived social class issue than anything else. But she has great taste in tops, and generally looks great in them. Since she is pretty slim, she can get into things that might not hang as well on other ladies, especially one-peice dresses.
Fact is, she's a young lady, and her generation has certain views about fashion that may differ from mine. Not up to me to tell her how to dress, as she seems to be doing it with her own quiet diginity.
- Balls
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 3:57 pm on Dec. 28, 2003
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Minder
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Cyborg. Remember that to date she has no experience in dressing in anything other than her usual work gear. My girl was the same but once you get them pointed in the right direction she'll have no problems. She just needs a little guidance in the first instances. Once she has seen the other fashion options up close she will be only too eager to emulate them.
Dr Frankenstein had nothing on the first guy who took his TGF shopping.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 5:02 pm on Dec. 28, 2003
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ColoradoGuy
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Quote: from Minder on 5:02 pm on Dec. 28, 2003
... but once you get them pointed in the right direction she'll have no problems. She just needs a little guidance in the first instances.
Good point... try bringing her a gift of a shirt that you would like to see her in. Wrap it up. She'll be thrilled you brought something from Amereka (or UK or Australia or wherever you live). Tell her she looks great in it. Repeat. She might get the message.
But you might find that she'll just dress how she is comfortable, and that will tell you something about her. When I met KhmerCutie for an evening last trip, the only thing I told her was "no makeup". She showed up in a comfortable new black t-shirt, jeans and sneakers, very appropriate for where we were going.
I have never gone shopping with a TG, so on that, I cannot comment. 
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:45 am on Dec. 29, 2003
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buxeda
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cyborg,
go slowly, remember,she has to like it also,in order to feel comfortable. you cannot turn her around 180 degree asap.
if you show her slowly, what you like and she has time adapting, but will both be happy.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:53 am on Dec. 29, 2003
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Vancouver Jay
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@Cyborg -- You're screwed, hung out to dry in no man's land between customer and boyfriend. You can't be both and while not fully either, your leverage is at a minimum. It's an expensive place if you're not careful.
If your BGF is staying with you XLT, like 3 days at a stretch, tell her to bring clothes for 6 or 7 and then pick the ones you want her to wear. She may charge you extra for costume-play however.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:32 am on Dec. 29, 2003
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cyborg
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Good thoughts guys....I will keep them in mind.
VJay....Yes I am stuck in no mans land as you say. I have been with her for 8 days 24/7 last trip and will do the same again. I believe she is hoping for the "big score" with me. Marriage or??? Until I am making some sort of long term commitment I don't see her as likely being too interested in changing up her dress style too much just to suit me. I intend to bring her a gift of a pair of Levi 501s and a nice tshirt. That will be the extent of my clothes buying for her with the possible exception of a nice evening gown dress for a night out for a classy dinner.
I did come up with an idea just now. I think if I can convey to her the idea that her clothes are too sexy to be worn in public then maybe she will get the idea that I don't want her turning on every guy that sees her. Appealing to her vanity, getting her to change into something less slutty looking without having to criticize her taste. I think I will see if this works. She will have to continue wearing the high heels though. She wears real ones with the spikey tall heels. Too sexy to give up and she has an amazing ability to walk anywhere on any surface and keep up with me. That is quite a feat (Pun intended) what with BKK and Pattaya sidewlaks as they are.
VJay, When we get together in Feb she will be with me and you can see how well I do in my attempts at de-sluttification. (I think I just invented a new word, feel free to use it if you see fit)
Cyborg
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 3:53 pm on Dec. 29, 2003
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ColoradoGuy
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Quote: from cyborg on 3:53 pm on Dec. 29, 2003
I intend to bring her a gift of a pair of Levi 501s and a nice tshirt....
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I think if I can convey to her the idea that her clothes are too sexy to be worn in public...
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She will have to continue wearing the high heels though. She wears real ones with the spikey tall heels. Too sexy to give up...
Conflicting messages?
If I'm confused, she might be too... do you want her to dress slutty or not?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:52 pm on Dec. 29, 2003
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