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dirty guru
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Better still have 1 supporting you while you leave 10 million baht in bank.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:47 pm on Jan. 26, 2005
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Bangkok Chang
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Yep I've heard about all these English teachers with Bht 10m in the bank.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 12:00 am on Jan. 27, 2005
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The Machine
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LY said
"black, white, bad, good, nah, they're just women, and it's all gray"
Too true....guys have got to get out of the good girl bad girl mindset.
f*** em all and take anything they say with a grain of salt.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:01 am on Jan. 27, 2005
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Abrak
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Minder,
I stick almost exclusively to the non-p4p scene - generally middle class, university educated girls. I think you really are misunderstanding behaviour which is increasingly common in Thai culture as some sort of 'farang rip off'.
In my experience (I obviously dont get to meet the girls who are married at 22 and stay at home minding the baby) most Thai girls have more than one lover. Some have a boyfriend and a 'gik' (f*** friend), others just several 'giks'.
All thai girls expect their bfs/giks to just about pay for everything irrespective of whether they are farang or Thai. Incidentally it is not unusual for a Thai guy to 'sponsor' his TGF.
In a lot of cases, these girls like to have a farang guy on the side because they know that there is absolutely no chance of the farang bf and the Thai bf having any contact. It is also likely that they dont even party in the same places.
These relationships are fairly openly talked about amongst friends. For instance, I know a girl who has a really nice Thai BF - air pilot with Thai Airways. He looks after well - Bt10,000 a month - and even upgraded her car because his house is out of town and he was worried about her old car breaking down.
Anyway I was speaking to her last week and she told me she was going to koh phangnan. I asked her who with. She said she was going with her 'gik' (another Thai guy). She explained that she loved her bf but that he didnt like going out and wasnt into wild sex... so she got herself a gik.
The behaviour of TGs has changed remarkably over the last 5 years. In some respects they see all this as a Thai version of womens liberation. I think that many take the view that their BFs all f*** around, so why shouldnt they. Others say they prefer giks, cos BFs are a headache - always have to work out where they are, who they are screwing around with etc..
If they are really serious about a guy, their behaviour will be different - they will turn into jealous little things that wont allow you out of their sight. But, generally speaking, these are youngish girls, having a good time and enjoying life. Either you can accept it and take advantage of it or you can go back to p4p.
So Minder... within this context I dont see anything unusual in their behaviour. You are supposed to pay for most things when you are with a TG (whether you are Thai or farang). Many TGs have more than one lover. Let's face it farang BF whose bed she jumped out of 2 hours before, almost certainly had jumped back in it with another TG already.
As for them chatting away in front of you, I suspect that they didnt think you would understand but my guess is that they didnt care that much if you did. By the way before you think too badly about these girls.... 'arai godai' does not mean 'anyone will do'.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 12:45 am on Jan. 27, 2005
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Bangkok Chang
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In a lot of cases, these girls like to have a farang guy on the side because they know that there is absolutely no chance of the farang bf and the Thai bf having any contact. It is also likely that they dont even party in the same places.
In my particular instance the Thai fella started calling while she was with me. So I answered the call on one occasion and she hasn't seen or heard from him since.
Madam was deeply irritated for a day and then got over it after discovering what the financial consequences would be if she didn't. His number doesn't feature in her address book any more.
Next.....
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 1:02 am on Jan. 27, 2005
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dirty guru
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I sold a house and have about to settle, but tried the water and made 100,000 in a month out of recruits and flips, the"' you take care of me"' is advanced brother liberation......cable chang. "'allowed one butterfly every month"'...5 that she wont know, and I do nothing sweet. As for 10,000 being "good care"' thats an insult to sponsers, mine spends that texting me... most would leave home and return if it fell under 15,000 a month. I sent (til business)...about 23,000 to 30,000.....and the thai girl thing with uni educated....theres many a uni girl with degress hooking......one famous and verified experience was with one that spoke 5 languages! Dont make the western assumption that these guys are dumb....or could do better.... no one earns more than a top line hooker, and thats a hard fact to pass by. I also see hookers that visited farangs in sydney at airport.....its all so prim and proper the heart ache departure and tears......by singapore changi airport (2 hour stop over) conection to bangkok....i have walked up to one and said "i never go there before"' without hestitation like two pros she said not til midnight and 3500 baht.....I said fine.......I have had girls as pure as driven snow, that end up flipping, until we get it through our heads its just nature and no big sin, and to them like having a bumpy baht bus ride, too many of us will go round the proverbial block wondering...does she love me....?
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:19 am on Jan. 27, 2005
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Smegma
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Quote: from Abrak on 12:39 pm on Jan. 27, 2005
You are supposed to pay for most things when you are with a TG (whether you are Thai or farang).
These goes even further. Among Thais going out together, say for dinner, the most senior/richer one is supposed to pay for the whole group. Among the locals, only the young without much money share the bill; or those from the bottom classes.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:27 am on Jan. 27, 2005
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Bangkok Chang
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As for 10,000 being "good care"' thats an insult to sponsers, mine spends that texting me... most would leave home and return if it fell under 15,000 a month.
Actually what they do is take the Bht 5,000, give the kii neow sponsor the impression they are happy (delighted even), accept the fact that he's an arse, and screw around behind his back which is all the respect he deserves in their opinion.
He's happy believing he has a good girl who can live on Bht 5,000 a month and she's happy cos she gets Bht 5,000 easy money with no questions asked on top of the real money she makes without him knowing.
I can picture it now when sponsor comes home early to find Bht 10,500 beside the girl's bed. "Who gave you Bht 500 then? They all did. " LoL
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:34 am on Jan. 27, 2005
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Abrak
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Bangkok Chang,
I may have used the word 'sponsor' wrongly here.
She is his gf. She has a job in PR earning about Bt20k. My guess is that he earns more like Bt100k a month. He supplements her income by Bt10k a month. This sort of behaviour is not unusual in Thai society.
It is however very different from a Farang/BG sponsorship program in which the farang is 'sponsoring' the BG so that she 'no have to work no bar no more'. If you are a farang 'sponsoring' at that level you are clearly 'ki niaow' as it is hardly sufficient compensation. You will deserve everything you get.
My point is that it is not unusual for a Thai to pay a regular amount to their girlfriend to make up for what is usually a very poor salary. To the best of my knowledge, guys in the west do not make regular monthly payments to their gfs until they are married (and then, of course, continuing after divorce)
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 1:43 am on Jan. 27, 2005
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Bangkok Chang
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I was agreeing with DG rather than disagreeing with you Abrak.
There is a theory that girls will accept Bht 5,000 - Bht 10,000 a month if they WANT to leave the bar.
Barlocks.
Many of them are supporting families (parents, uncles, aunts, etc.) who would simply die without the bar money. How does a girl sending Bht 20,000 to support eight or nine adults every month suddenly explain she's met this generous farang who is going to take care of her on Bht 5,000 a month, and sorry but granny will just have to go without food in future?
Of course she just takes the Bht 5,000 and continues seeing customers.... and grandpa get a new motorsai with the Bht 5,000.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:56 am on Jan. 27, 2005
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