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ericdespim
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This thing about English is just not true. There are plenty of women in Thailand, especially BKK, who work in international companies or something like that, who speak at least reasonable WEnglish, who just happen to like Farang and are NOT in the P4P scene. You can find them in different ways but it takes a little work. They are also not just going to jump into bed with u. They want to be romanced and they want to be treated well. If u are willing to invest the time u can find some great gfs this way. And although it is not P4P let's not be naive....every woman loves a man to spend money on her (and not just in Thailand)....dinner, flowers, whatever.
With some there is a fine line between p4p and not p4p. many of these women do not have large salaries. They live ok by Thai standards but it is easy for them to be seduced by the allure of farang money.
All this said, if u do speak thai u open urself to a whole new world of possibilities...and even within the p4p scene, the girls will almost always choose someone who can speak thai with them if they have a choice to make.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:10 am on April 2, 2005
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Minder
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Got to agree with Ericdespim on this one. Plenty of Thai girls and older women want to meet a farang man. The Net is a good starting place for them and lots of them can write or speak English to some degree. Big problem is they are so damn shy!!
I initially met my "good girl" GF and Thai missus on the Net. It started as what Andre called a "good timefiller between p4p venues". I also met several borderline pay for play types and one or two outright headcases - basically about the same strike rate you will get using the Net to meet women in my own country. I now get lots of inquiries from her friends and relatives about finding a good (farang) man for themselves. There is no doubt in my mind that lots of Thai woman ( I suspect working to middle class only though) would like to snare a farang husband.
As to the speaking English issue -I've found my basic Thai is most useful not as communication but as more of an ice-breaker. Thais are shy and self-conscious people generally and "face" means not speaking faulty English upfront. However if I have already made a worse mess of Thai then most will now have a go at speaking English without fear of embarrassment.
I always thought the farang husband desire was a city borne thing - however we were recently riding in a songtaew in a very non-farang area about 2 hours south west of Bangkok, two older ladies in the taxi started chatting with the wife about me (their local accents made the job of pretending I could not understand them almost the truth!) They congratulated her on her success in securing a farang husband and even commented that getting one 10 or so years older was a smart move since older men are "jai yen yen" (calmer, less hot-tempered and emotional). Their openly commercial approach to relationships never ceases to amaze me. I guess in their minds there are no stars in the eyes if he can't put rice on the table. There was no doubting their admiration for the success the missus had had in securing a "rich" farang husband was genuine though at moments like that I always feel a bit like a prize bull or some other livestock and expect they are about to check my teeth or haunches. Enjoy.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 8:03 am on April 2, 2005
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Hugh Jardon
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Agrees with the above posts. To generalise to the extent of saying that girls that speak English and or Japanese must have been involved in P4P is obviously a load of tosh. So why shouldn't a girl learn those languages at school or university? It's obviously a great disincentive to learn those languages, as some farangs will think that they're on the game, eh?
Both languages, English and Japanese are important for business reasons in Thailand, so full marks to any girl with the gumption to learn them.
As for internet dating, in June I am marrying my girlfriend from the dating site that I have been corresponding with for the past 10 months. I seem to recall some ridicule from the Bros at the time that I started, telling me that she's probably a LB, that the picture on the site would not be her, the profile would have been posted by some sicko in Cincinnatti and other bullshit. Both of the girls I was corresponding with were exactly as described on the net. My girl is 32, has a bachelors degree, works for an estate agent, single, no children and she is the sweetest, most adorable Thai girl I've ever met. It also happens that she's sexier than any BG I've ever been with too. So there are some diamonds out there. Plenty of fish in the sea, so I suggest that you set your sights high and you might be pleasantly surprised at what is possible.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:07 pm on April 2, 2005
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Moxnix48
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I have to add my agreement also. I am currently in an ongoing relationship with a non-working Thai girl I met through the internet. Although I swore I would not sponsor another Thai GF, she talked me into putting her through university. It works out ok, because it takes the pressure off of me to hurry up and move over there.
Still, in the end it would probably have been cheaper to stick with working girls. But then I think I can trust this one a lot more, although one should always be a bit cautious. Just understand that when you hook up with a non-working girl, she is going to try and tie you up in knots - no more butterflying in Bangkok. This is my second non-working Thai GF and both of them will not let me out of their sight in Bangkok.
There are some really nice normal girls out there looking on the web, although you will run into your fair share of crazies. I have played the internet game in the US and believe you have a much better chance of finding something decent in Thailand. It just takes patience and a bit of luck.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 12:05 am on April 3, 2005
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jboak
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which are best chat sites to meet girls from Thailand or possibly Philippines that want to meet Farang/ western guy for a relationship?.I am a now single 40 year old guy from London and want to meet a girl aged 18-30 for hopefully a long term relationship...any genuine ideas on chances?
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:46 am on April 3, 2005
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Hugh Jardon
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ThaiLoveLinks does have sites for both Thailand and the Phippines. Good hunting. Eminently possible to find a girl in that age range
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:07 pm on April 3, 2005
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ericdespim
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try bangkokchat.org
there are quite a few hookers on this site but also plenty of normal girls. u need to invest time but it can be worth it. I have met many women from here, almost all non p4p. but understand that there are no guarantees.......u might meet someone nice, u might not. if u want a guarantee....hit the gogos
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:50 pm on April 3, 2005
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Packripper
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Also note that these girls don't carry P4P Association cards. So it's often up to one's own 'expertise' whether a girl is P4P or not. Just because she doesn't ask for the cash up front or gives you a freebie, it doesn't necessarily indicate that she isn't a working girl.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:51 am on April 4, 2005
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chilli
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its not really about if they understand english or what not!
simply put 'good' somewhat traditional non p4p girls dont hunt husbands on the net nor do they at clubs.
so if they didn't manage to hook up in college or uni they're pretty much f***ed I guess!!
of course if they work a somewhat public/touristic job like hotel, shop, bank whatever theres always chance to meet farang there.
else theres only temple or skytrain left & BTS is hardly a trendy place to be picked up so that leaves us back at sq. 0!!!
icq can be good though sometimes 
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 2:43 pm on May 2, 2005
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Bangkoksexydotcom
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Quote: from Moxnix48 on 12:59 pm on April 3, 2005
I have to add my agreement also. I am currently in an ongoing relationship with a non-working Thai girl I met through the internet. Although I swore I would not sponsor another Thai GF, she talked me into putting her through university. It works out ok, because it takes the pressure off of me to hurry up and move over there.
Still, in the end it would probably have been cheaper to stick with working girls. But then I think I can trust this one a lot more, although one should always be a bit cautious. Just understand that when you hook up with a non-working girl, she is going to try and tie you up in knots - no more butterflying in Bangkok. This is my second non-working Thai GF and both of them will not let me out of their sight in Bangkok.
There are some really nice normal girls out there looking on the web, although you will run into your fair share of crazies. I have played the internet game in the US and believe you have a much better chance of finding something decent in Thailand. It just takes patience and a bit of luck.
a "normal" thai girl will never ever let some one PAY for her school an less you known her for ages and you are not her BF. I guess you booking her so that makes you kind of BF she is not a real thai girl trust me.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:03 pm on May 2, 2005
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