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ChiangmaiExpat
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Guys,
Thanks for all the advice. bkkfella, I truly appreciate your bluntness. I tend to be very cynical and her asking me set off some alarm bells. I'm hoping it is just me. This is a woman I trust and I hope that she fully understands that she will always be my mia noi and never my wife. I don't think that she is trying to move up. She has insisted on keeping this relationship secret as it could have an impact on her job; she doesn't want anyone knowing that she is a mia noi and especially not the mia noi of a farang. The only people that know are her khukit and mine, and her immediate family. We both prefer to keep it that way.
I am not so much concerned about being labeled a bigamist, the thought hadn't even crossed my mind. I am concerned about how it might affect my wife if she were ever to find out. I think it must be infinitely easier to forgive me having a girlfriend, but I think that a second wife would be a little harder to let go of.
I'm not sure what will become of this. I am out of country right now but will be back in early June and plan on having a long discussion about this issue. I don't want to hurt her, but this marriage may just be the start of some long-term pain that could be avoided by not going through with it. I think that a bit of discomfort now will certainly be better than severe discomfort later.
Again, thanks for the advice. My best to all,
CE
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