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Yurune
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Quote: from jetseti on 7:34 pm on Jan. 4, 2007
Things are not going to be the same either way. I dislike this side of thai culture… despite how I feel im going to refuse (I just hope this wont cause face to my gf) or change how she is with me.
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I prefer not to see this referred to as 'Thai Culture', but human nature.
The biggest loan I have ever made to a Thai was 180,000 THB. Paid back in full over 4 years. Many other loans to the right people, all paid back. The hardest debt I ever had to recover in Thailand was from a farang.
Frankly the only advice I would give is this:
REFUSE!, you'll learn a lot more about your loving 'girlfriend' in 5 minutes than you will in years of visiting her from afar.
Or try this one.
A girl who meant absolutely f*** all to me once contacted me and asked me for a loan of 40,000 baht. She knew very little about me. My response was, That I had the money, but to send it would mean I would have to cancel my holiday to Thailand. Her response was along the lines of 'Okay send the money, I'll see you next year instead'.
Needless to say, it was my last ever contact with her.
I suggest you try the same, unless you are too weak to lose her, cos I reckon this is what she deserves. All, the 'I don't wanna tell you' crap is all part of the story imbellishment, she want's your cash. FACT!
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 4:01 pm on Jan. 4, 2007
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peterpan
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Yurune
Thank you.
I arrive in 13 days time and think a certain question is going to be asked.
Same old story,need new window in house.
mum has operation soon, the amount of operations her mother has got to be a record.
The answer will be NO will keep you posted
regards
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:19 pm on Jan. 4, 2007
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cheapcharlie
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The loan shark thing is the norm my mother in law has a gambling problem when she cant sell something she goes to the Mafia. Needless to say shes almost
70 and been told to stop as its a joke.
Always the richest family member bails her out too,im never asked but the wife is. Face is important too
having a farang showing off etc. merit.
Say no, better still say if you give it to her it means you can stay less time in thailand, see what comes back,chances are this will not be the first time.
I paid a debt once in the beginning never again now I give her an allowance, when its finished hard luck. I dont care about buffalo or whatever not my problem thats why I cheap charlie.
One thing is if you gave before they think probably you are loaded. But ive run out of cash before and its amazing how quick the wife has cash. brother-in-law wont take a short time every time either,even though I would pay,he wait downstairs in lobby. I suppose same everywhere depend the people, you cant put a whole race as being the same.
But generally we are rich so its logical human nature really. The family still dont understand why I pay 1000baht a night for a hotel when I could sleep on the floor with them, to them its a fortune. I learned early on if I stay there I end up paying for everything anyway.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 4:53 pm on Jan. 4, 2007
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DaffyDuck
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Quote: from Yurune on 6:25 am on Jan. 5, 2007
The hardest debt I ever had to recover in Thailand was from a farang.
Oddly enough, I can agree, and sympathize -- the same could also be applied to questions about what kind of people are more likely to rip you off in Thailand...
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:45 pm on Jan. 4, 2007
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kenneth
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What's wrong with just shagging these birds, giving them money for the shag and leaving it at that?
If you blokes don't want to get involved with poverty stricken people, then go out with well paid, financially secure Thai girls. My office is full of them.
Anybody interested, send me your CV.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:57 pm on Jan. 4, 2007
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IBFarang
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Quote: from Yurune on 6:25 am on Jan. 5, 2007
Hey Yurune got 2,000 baht I can borrow? I saw this BG in Mandarin the other night I would like to spend some time with.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:13 pm on Jan. 4, 2007
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ThaidUp
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Quote: from kenneth on 9:21 am on Jan. 5, 2007
What's wrong with just shagging these birds, giving them money for the shag and leaving it at that?
Right, You all heard of the "Oil for Food" program what about the "Blowjobs for Baht" ? For every BJ she gets a XXX Bonus. She will becum a hoover and everybody's happy.
And the bonus of this arrangement is while her mouth is full she won't be able to ask you for more cash.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:16 pm on Jan. 4, 2007
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DrLove
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If this is the LB you want to move in with, you might consider again....
In my 24 years in Thailand I've seen these beg stories...
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 8:12 pm on Jan. 4, 2007
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DaffyDuck
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Quote: from DrLove on 10:36 am on Jan. 5, 2007
If this is the LB you want to move in with, you might consider again....
HOLY COW - his 'GF' is the ladyboy he was talking about in another thread?
ABORT! ABORT! ABORT! ABORT! ABORT!
On the other hand, this could end up being a rather entertaining thread (or it's offspring) after a while...
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:54 pm on Jan. 4, 2007
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