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mm3
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chris80:
If you are serious about her, perhaps you should have TPE look into her background to make sure she is who she claims to be and if she has a TBF or not. These information will be a good start for you to decide if you want to continue with this long distance relationship or not.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 9:07 pm on Dec. 22, 2002
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jjsushi
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Quote: from chris80 on 2:03 pm on Dec. 22, 2002
HI guys. I back from bkk.. been there for six days and really enjoy myself. I got to know a unviversity student but she is not a TG but oversea student from china. And We fall in love with each other. She said she really love me and would wait for me to come again. Can I trust her? She said she never done anything like sex to other guys before. But I dont believe her as on our first day. We started to petting but never invole in sex.
I very sad and confuse.. I really miss her alots. DO you guys think I should not put so much love in her?? Pls help me.
Honestly don't you think it is impractical to talk about trust when it comes to a relationship that is LD and six days young?
Unless you are willing to put a ring on her finger what is the point of talking about trust?
What is there you need to trust her about? That she won't sleep with another man or that she will love you?
You haven't slept with her so I am really trying to understand what it is that you need to trust her about. Did you both make vows of chasity? I say that the only thing you can trust another human being to do is to make a mistake because we all make mistakes. Trust her until she gives you a reason to not trust her
My advice is to keep in touch and when you return se if you can develop the relationship to a deeper level if that is what you desire.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:11 pm on Dec. 22, 2002
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cmore
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Brother JJ is right brother Chris. Everyone deserves to receive that first level of trust and the chance to prove that they won't abuse it. Give her that chance. Keep in touch with her and let the relationship develope at it's own pace. Don't be in a big hurry to rush it along and whatever you do, always keep an open mind to the possibility that this just may not be the one. Don't go reading problems into every situation that presents itself, just be aware that that bump you may have just gotten on the head may have come from that other shoe dropping. Peace
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 10:46 pm on Dec. 22, 2002
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chris80
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Thank CC & JJ.. After reading all your comments. I agree with you guys. I really love her as she is a girl that I really seek for. But is quite far away..As after she complete her study , she maybe go even further , like going back to her home in china.. But no matter what.. I really hope our relationship will everlast..
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 12:24 am on Dec. 23, 2002
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thaiprivateeye
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- For sure many Asian girls are keen to have a farang/foreign Boyfriend - not just TGs, - but I always point out to Guys who make some enquiries : "If the Girl is/was willing to talk, meet, perhaps even sleep with you, [ a foreigner] - then why could she not do the same with someone else ? A point with the Chinese girl, to be able to travel, she must be from a wealthy family, - if she is not an MP girl - therefore most unlikely her parents would welcome a "gweilo" into the fold ! Anyway, best of luck whatever path you take -
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:42 am on Dec. 23, 2002
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delta
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Chris80,
though it may be a nagging feeling wondering what she would be doing there when you are not around can comsume you but hang in there. i know this feeling and do try not to put negative thoughts in yer head.
stay cool and if unsure...perhaps just give her a call and chat with her a bit. sometimes listening to her voice over the phone re-assures you and it soothes!
just like what JJ said...trust her till she give you a reason not too. distance is great and though the odds are against you...i am sure if both are willing anything goes.
just hang in there and i would say you'd make right decisions thinking without emotions.
cheers!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:51 am on Dec. 23, 2002
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chris80
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Ya is ture. Sometime I was just thinking what she maybe doing now. MIss her so much.. Sometime I even think of her, like betray me or even got other foreign bf. Coz she is so far alway. Hire a TPE is a good idea but is expenisve. Really regret of going to LOS. I though of going there for fun but end up falling in LOVE. IS a great mistake I had make but what can i do. When love come, is very hard to avoid. 
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:09 am on Dec. 23, 2002
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delta
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Chris80
i think you should lighten up a bit...have you ever wonder that she could be doing the same thing...wondering if you have a girl in SG? she could be wondering why this bloke has not called me since he went back. does he have a family and kids?
until the truth is revealed...please do not assume and never assume. need to know you can always ask her if she is that type of person to be asked. if not don't ask. some girls may take it as sharing others feel like they are being questioned!
hey put it this way...i have friends who goes all out trying to get a girl but never get anything...you on the other hand goes there and finds someone. you shouldn't be so hard on yourself dude.
remember it takes two hands to clap...if she is not interested in another nothing will clap. don't you agree. it takes two to make things work.
why don't you give her a call now? if she can't talk there and then it is perhaps she is busy...do not take it the other way. just to warn you first. afraid that you may take it otherwise.
cheers mate!
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 3:57 am on Dec. 23, 2002
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