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Yurune
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I think a lot of girls hear a lot of pipe dream's from farangs as well. Lets be fair it's not only them that lie and string people along.
They have been let down before by many a loved up farang. Easpecially with you being married she probably thought nothing would ever come of it You have called her bluff...at least she was honest quickly rather than let it go too far.
In my experience a large %age of the girls have no intention of leaving Thailand....they may want to be rescued financially...but the dream of living in UK/USA/Sweden etc does not exist for lots of them
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:09 pm on Jan. 16, 2003
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Chompoo
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Did you really think I needed to be told that?
Probably not. But sometimes, MrJoe, you use words sparingly and your statements taken by themselves (and when applied by others) can give a very different impression or result than what I believe (or would like to believe) you really mean. Almost always, I'm not addressing you directly, just clarifying or expounding on what you've said. (I think we did this same dance in a thread just a few hours ago, didn't we?)
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 8:16 pm on Jan. 16, 2003
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MrJoe
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Fair enough. It's true that these days I often use the minimum of words necessary and my message is either implied or I assume people know my views -- which I shouldn't. I guess I'm self-conscious about all the pontificating I've done in the past. And bored with "the sound of my own voice", as it were.
Belive it or not, I don't remember what you are talking about as to a few hours ago. Forgive me, I haven't had my coffee yet. I shall remedy that now.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:26 pm on Jan. 16, 2003
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seubeu
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Aside: ÝIn the last note that K. Chompoo wrote, it can also be helpful to have this kind of clarity for the (apparently) thousands of others who lurk and learn here. ÝSo even though MrJoe doesn't need to be told, maybe over obviating is a good idea for the general audience. ÝI do this myself Ýmost times even though I know that the particular person I am responding to doesn't need the clarification. ÝWriting for two distinct audiences with one voice, you know. [/pontification mode]
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 9:09 pm on Jan. 16, 2003
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MrJoe
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Agreed.
( How's that for sparingly? )
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 9:13 pm on Jan. 16, 2003
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pinga
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SUKHUMVIT BOY,
I think she found a new boyfriend and wanna keep you on the waiting list as an spare ATM machine. Sorry, this is harsh but your case is among hundreds going on throughout the Kingdom. As Mr. Joe said "....you were living a dream and you've come to the part where you have to wake up. Consider it a lesson learned and move on...."
Lesson learned.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:06 pm on Jan. 16, 2003
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Smegma
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Suk-Boy
Understanding a Thai girl?!! ÝUnderstanding any woman is just plain difficult anyway. Make that a Thai girl and it becomes mission impossible.
Besides the end result, the things you mention she did along the way, I think are fairly typical: from what I have experienced, they do not like having to explain themselves and they do not like having questions asked. They would let a situation evolve by itself through the passage of time -even if in the wrong direction- rather than face a potentially unpleasant claryfiing conversation. Avoiding confrontation becomes then the driving element of the equation.
However, with the passage of time, they always come back. Even if not to what you initially wanted, they always come back to being some kind of friend. They are not resentful -like we might be-
The best advice to ourselves is not to try to bother "understanding" them. Lets just play along. Here I think it becomes an endurance game: he who outlast the rest, by just happily being there no matter what she (any thai girl) throws at us, prevails. This sounds like the biggest looser is the one that wins at the end. Makes sense? Not to me, but ....
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:16 pm on Jan. 16, 2003
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sukhumvit boy
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Thanks for all your replies guys.All of your posts made sense and had some useful comments.At the moment I am not sure what I will do but I would like to thank you all and say that you all seem like close friends to me even though we have never met.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:00 am on Jan. 17, 2003
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Chompoo
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it can also be helpful to have this kind of clarity for the (apparently) thousands of others who lurk and learn here. ÝSo even though MrJoe doesn't need to be told, maybe over obviating is a good idea for the general audience. ÝI do this myself Ýmost times even though I know that the particular person I am responding to doesn't need the clarification. ÝWriting for two distinct audiences with one voice, you know.
Duh, don't you think we knew that?! Ý;)
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:57 pm on Jan. 17, 2003
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vertigo
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The brothers are right Sukhumvit Boy. I Learned a long time ago not to let the heart blind the logic. ÝGet off the bronco before it tramples u any more.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:14 pm on Jan. 17, 2003
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